Thank you all very much for your many responses. I appreciate everyone's time and efforts. I especially want to thank Live4HimAndLoveOthers who guided me to this forum and helped with technical issues and for his very thoughtful replies.
Due to time constraints, as I'm sure we all have, it can be awhile between my visits to this site, so if I don't respond quickly, just "have faith"

, I'll be back.
First I'd like to say that it's fine to have rules to prevent this forum from being diverted from its principal purpose, but conversation among the contributers, and even a little debate, serves the educational purpose very well. And, I am relatively well educated and intelligent, as obviously all here are, and I can tell the difference between answers to my OP and auxiliary conversations and/or debate. Not to tempt anyone to disobey the rules, but I found the auxiliary conversations very enlightening, so thank you all for that, too.
That was a lot of posts and it will take me some time to digest them all, and it's probably too much to respond to each individual post (we'll all be here for eternity and I know most of you have someplace else you plan to be

), so like Live4HimAndLoveOthers, I will need to respond in pieces. For those who have offered me more personal assistance, I certainly appreciate your offers and may well take you up on it, but if you don't hear from me for awhile, please don't think I'm ignoring you; I will do my best to respond as soon as I can get one of those elusive round tuits.
As a short response for now, let me say that most of the responses were pretty much along the lines of what I've heard most of my life. The reason that I find these reasons so unconvincing is that they sound too much like the thinking of men rather than the thinking of God. It is very much in keeping with the purposes of men that we accept what we are told without question, or at least without daring to challenge the authority of those who tell us to do it. For me, it would seem that a perfect God would be capable of finding a better way to teach His children than the methods human parents use, which is basically to punish disobedience and reward obedience. I'm not a parent, but I know children can really be a handful. I hope that I would be able to find a way to teach my children what they need to know without resorting to cutting them off completely at the slightest transgression, as God seems to have done in the Garden of Eden.
If a person accepts Christianity and believes all that it says, then it is difficult to understand how a person like me could question God's purpose and plan as if I think myself better or wiser than He. But for those of us outside of any religion, the things claimed for and about God seem more like what men would devise to control other men rather than the things God would care about. It's hard for me to understand why God cares that we glorify Him. I think the Universe itself is pretty glorious all by itself. But, glorifying God is certainly a concept that men (and women) can understand and it provides a focal point for their attention and energies. Thus, worshipers are occupied and highly susceptible to the influences of the organized Church.
Also, from outside of any religion, we see all of these people saying, "Join us! Join us, not them!" So, how are we to know which, if any, to choose. The fact that Christians can find themselves debating each other's beliefs so easily that the webmaster of this site feels compelled to make rules against it in this forum just testifies to the fact that even you folks can't completely agree on what the correct belief is. Yes, you agree on general concepts, but at what point does the difference of opinions become significant? And, of course, I've seen some fairly vehement disagreements among Christians in other venues to the point that each later told me in private that the other was sure to burn in Hell. As a non-believer, of course, that just makes any choice I would make even more confusing.
What I find, in my own mind though, is that all of the confusion disappears as soon as I say, "There are no gods." Then, all the bad things in the world make sense. It's a much simpler explanation and it predicts the same result as all that you folks have said about God.
I'm short on time, but I would like to leave you with a final thought: You and I are both atheists. I just believe in one less god than you. When you understand why you have rejected all the other gods, then you will understand why I have rejected yours.
Thank you all for your help, and I will return as soon as time permits.
Thanks,
Darrel.