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Why do you think you are single?

Pink Angel

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I am prolly single bc i am finding the wrong guys and well...i dont knwo why guys leave me when they do....i have been told i am a very good gf i always put their needs before mine, im not selfish or anything, im just finding the wrong guys i guess..
 
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silentpoet

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It feels like punishment. So that could be a reason for me to be single. Though I really don't know for sure.

Me being single feels more like it is from the Devil than from God. It drives me further from God, it makes me questions and not trust God more each day it goes on. So it can't be from God. Least not if God is good and love.
 
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penNpaper

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I am prolly single bc i am finding the wrong guys and well...i dont knwo why guys leave me when they do....i have been told i am a very good gf i always put their needs before mine, im not selfish or anything, im just finding the wrong guys i guess..

You will find the right guy when it is His time and place..

It will happened soon enough..being patience is the hard part..

I pray it comes soon :hug:

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I think the reason why I am single because it isn't the time for me yet to have that one gurl in my life yet..surely it is going to happened eventually because I'm a sweet person..in what I am hearing from others..

I'm shy, sensitive, and a little clingy at times but it doesn't mean I'm some screwed up person tho..He made me who I am because of His design and purpose..

Amen!! [100 post mark]

Regards,
ChristianDrew
 
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Im_A

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I think that I am single because I am very shy.

there could be many probably reasons why i'm single:

1. because i choose to be/want to be.
2. because i'm not ready for a lifelong committed relationship.
3. because God's omnipotent nature is coming into my life with this area.
4. because i want the next relationship to go right, good, holy as it can be in whatever manner that will mean so if the fear of failure means a life of singleness and loneliness, i accept it and welcome it.
 
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