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Why do Christians get evasive, defensive or angry when faced with difficult questions

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Inkachu

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Do you believe that a human can freely make a choice out of two or more options? In other words, up until a human selects option b out of an a/b choice, could he still have selected option a?

Of course. And God knows which choice He will make. He can read every "hmm, a or b" thought in the person's head. He can see the day before they made the choice, the day of the choice, and the day after the choice.
 
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If variable X represents God's knowledge as of our day 1 of what Fred's day 2 A/B choice will be, does variable X have a truth value as of our day 1?

Sorry, when you talk to me in math-speak, my brain goes blank lol.
 
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Your brain. It is awesome.
 
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It has a moral code and religious beliefs, including a position concerning a supreme being.

What moral code does it have? What religious beliefs specifically?

It evangelizes and proselytizes.

In what way? Do you have any examples?

It has its own religious symbols and sacred history.

Such as?

It is organized with local chapters or congregations, functions, clergy-like leaders and "theologians," etc.

It is partially organised, but it doesn't have clergy.

It rejects the correctness of other religions.

Not other religions, but religion. It's not a religion itself.

It's not a typical religion in all respects, but it is undeniably as much a religion as other so-called "liberal" religions. And much more could be added, but that would require a new and separate thread.

I'm not convinced that it is a religion. It could be, if one adopts a strategically elastic definition of "religion," according to which any organised gathering of like-minded people is a "religion".


We don't take offence at it. We just aren't convinced that it's "a fact". Besides which, given that religion is supposedly a good thing, isn't it a compliment to say that we are religious?


As far as I can tell, the only difference between "old" and "new" atheism is that new atheists tend to be more vocal critics of religion and its role in society. That's hardly a huge difference. When I'm quiet about religion, I'm simply an atheist. Yet when I speak out against religious interference in government, for example, I'm a "new atheist." Funnily enough, I'm often joined by religious people in loudly repudiating theocratic impulses, yet no one calls them "new" Christians, "new" Muslims, or "new" Jews.
 
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I notice that when I ask some of the difficult questions, Christians tend to get evasive, defensive or angry. Why is this?

Why indeed?

 
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If they provided evidence or support for what they said, you'd reply by saying, "That's not evidence", and then proceed to ask for it again, and again, and again. You do it all the time, and it's really gotten old.

Once again, you seem to be assuming that any answer, no matter how poor, is a good enough answer. That's ridiculous. If someone asks you a question, and you provide an answer, they are not obligated to accept your answer as definitive, especially if the reasoning behind your answer is flawed.
 
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I'm divided on this. Saying that someone cannot function without theism could be construed as somewhat of an insult, like saying that they are too weak to cope with life absent some reassuring religion to coddle them. Perhaps they could cope without that, but they just don't know it yet. We can acknowledge that religion ministers to certain needs in a person's life without assuming that, absent religion, this person's needs could not be met. Very often, the religious person already assumes this. If we join them in that assumption then we only reinforce it. This then affects the character of our interactions. Instead of contemplating the merits of religion together, we end up avoiding the conversation for fear that they are too fragile to handle it. We end up coddling their religion because we believe that it coddles them and that they need to be coddled.

I've often said that there is no polite way to question someone's deeply cherished religious beliefs. No matter how civil and amiable one approaches the matter, some believers will always take offence. So what are we to do? Avoid the conversation altogether simply because it makes one (or both) participants in the conversation feel awkward? That too is just a way of coddling. It's infantilising to treat the religious person as though they aren't intellectually mature enough to consider religious matters critically.
 
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That doesn't take away from your free will. He isn't controlling your choices, He's just aware of them beforehand.

I hope this was raised up earlier. Atheists always have the false belief that God's foreknowledge puts a limit of people's free will, and they fail to understand how illogical and irrational that belief is.
 
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Quoting the Bible doesn't reconcile it. There are logical inconsistencies in the problem of evil and the problem of free will.

Free will - Iron Chariots Wiki

Problem of evil - Iron Chariots Wiki
 
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Of course. And God knows which choice He will make. He can read every "hmm, a or b" thought in the person's head. He can see the day before they made the choice, the day of the choice, and the day after the choice.
Let's say it's day 1. God knows that you will choose A out of an A/B choice tomorrow. Since you agree you can choose either A or B up until the time you make the choice, let's say you then freely choose B. What does this do to God's omniscience?
 
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Sorry, when you talk to me in math-speak, my brain goes blank lol.
I'll rephrase it for you:

If variable X represents God's knowledge as of our day 1 of what Fred's day 2 A/B choice will be, does variable X have a truth value as of our day 1?
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Given: As of day 1, God has infallible knowledge of Fred's day 2 A/B choice will be. At point in time of day 1, does God's knowledge of Fred's choice consist of a value of either A or B? And can it change after day 1?
 
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I already addressed this in a previous post. There is no "Day 1" for this god. Everything is the past.
 
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It's all about motive, there is nothing wrong with scholarly analysis of biblical documents. One could use such for good or for evil. I believe Atheist exploit these findings for evil purposes; the undermining of faith in God.

[I recall ToddNotTodd lamenting the closure of General Apologetics, he speculated that it was because the Christians were losing.]
 
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It's all about motive, there is nothing wrong with scholarly analysis of biblical documents. One could use such for good or for evil. I believe Atheist exploit these findings for evil purposes; the undermining of faith in God.
You should do something about your negative assumptions concerning other people´s motives. It isn´t doing you any good.
 
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You should do something about your negative assumptions concerning other people´s motives. It isn´t doing you any good.

Quatona, who has a negative and corroding approach to believers on practically every thread on a religious forum, has taken to offering advice.

Being wise as a serpent does the believer great good, keeps the termites at bay.
 
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Quatona, who has a negative and corroding approach to believers on practically every thread on a religious forum, has taken to offering advice.
Yes, it´s good advice, even if you consider me a poor expert.

Care to show some examples for your claim (or is this just another one of your negative preconceptions/beliefs about atheists)?
And care to show examples where I make negative assumptions about believers´ motives?

Being wise as a serpent does the believer great good, keeps the termites at bay.
Aggrandizing yourself doesn´t do you any good.
 
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On these forums you are an activist Atheist, I'm simply reflecting back to you your aroma.

You seem to be under the mistaken impression that I care about being liked by Atheist?


[deleted, probably out of context sarcasm from one of Quatona's post, that could be seen as flaming, I apologize]
 
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Let's say it's day 1. God knows that you will choose A out of an A/B choice tomorrow. Since you agree you can choose either A or B up until the time you make the choice, let's say you then freely choose B. What does this do to God's omniscience?

I responded to your question (^) on page 22 comment 215. I am assuming you did not see it, easy for posts to get swallowed in some of these threads.
 
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On these forums you are an activist Atheist,
What is that?
I'm simply reflecting back to you your aroma.
No, all you are reflecting back on are your preconceptions.
And you accused me of something, concretely, without being willing and/or able to back it up. You lied about me.

You seem to be under the mistaken impression that I care about being liked by Atheist?
No, I am not assuming that. I was assuming, though, that you want to be taken seriously. But I may be have mistaken there.
And what the heck is "by Atheist"? That isn´t even English. Unless you are assuming some superiour God-like entity named "Atheist".

And when you were still a Christian, did you really steal old lady's underwear?
 
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