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Why Do Athiests Come Here????

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Why do athiests if they don't believe in God come and subscribe to this Christian forum? (Please note: I don't hold anything against them) Hopefully some of them will see the truth and accept Jesus as our saviour.

Are they searching for something but don't know what? Or are they trying aimlessly to convince christians of their non-god beliefs are right?
I don't believe in fairies so I wouldn't bother joining up to a Fairy Forum just to tell people I don't believe in fairies.
I'm just curious to what inspires them to come here (often regularly).
But please do come regardless.
 

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Originally posted by webboffin
Why do athiests if they don't believe in God come and subscribe to this Christian forum? (Please note: I don't hold anything against them) Hopefully some of them will see the truth and accept Jesus as our saviour.

Are they searching for something but don't know what? Or are they trying aimlessly to convince christians of their non-god beliefs are right?
I don't believe in fairies so I wouldn't bother joining up to a Fairy Forum just to tell people I don't believe in fairies.
I'm just curious to what inspires them to come here (often regularly).
But please do come regardless.

The Bible says that they are "spiritually discerned."  Of course, they won't agree but that's exactly what it is.  You'll receive answers like "I have Christian friends" and "I like to help stop the lies about atheists and evolution", "I like to debate", "I think religion is harmful to society" and and junk like that, but it boils down to "Why care, really?"

I'm sure some will seem more sincere.  And of course you have the whole "strong" verse "weak" atheism myth which someone will bring up as a way to justify atheism in a more neutral sense as opposed to claiming true agnosticism.

Just my $.02 ;)
 
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Originally posted by XtremeVision
The Bible says that they are "spiritually discerned."  Of course, they won't agree but that's exactly what it is.

Boy, it's tough to argue with logic like that. "All atheists are liars and if they say they aren't, well, they're just lying."

Feel the love.
 
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Originally posted by LiveFreeOrDie
Boy, it's tough to argue with logic like that. "All atheists are liars and if they say they aren't, well, they're just lying."

Feel the love.

It's all relative.  Where did I say anyone was a liar?  I just said they would deny any spiritual discernment, obviously, because they don't believe that they CAN be.

My convictions (and most Christians) are Biblical, and that's what the Bible says concerning atheists.  Has nothing to do with logic, arguing or love.  The person who asked seems to be a Christian, so I offered.
 
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Originally posted by XtremeVision
It's all relative.  Where did I say anyone was a liar?

You didn't. I was illustrating the point by analogy.

Although I think your accusation of atheists "denying spiritual discernment" (whatever that means) could be construed as a form of lying.
 
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webboffin: I come here for most of the reasons that XtremeVision rejects out of hand. I like debates; I am concerned to counter the harmful effects of certain brands of theism on scientific education; I frequently encounter (on the www and in "real" life) a number of theist misconceptions about atheists; I find theists in general and -- being an American -- fundamentalist and charismatic Christians in particular interesting, though I don't share their point of view; I hope to find and nurture whatever common ground there may be between non-believers and theists on important issues. I have known many Christians. Some were admirable, some loathesome (the same can be said of atheists and agnostics I have known). As a humanist (lower case "h"), I am forced to recognize the pervasiveness of theist belief and come here in hopes of understanding it better.

Of course, there will always be those who choose to ignore my explicit claims and will try to put words in my mouth. FWIW, I don't come here because I feel some "tugging at my heart" or because I am some kind of crypto-believer who is in rebellion or denial. People interest me. As such, I don't have the luxury of ignoring what I don't agree with or approve of.

My online home-away-from home is the secular web, but sometimes I find it tiresome to always be in the company of those who agree with me. Differences of opinion are the spice of life, and Christian Forums provides me with plenty of variety.
 
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I don't believe in fairies so I wouldn't bother joining up to a Fairy Forum just to tell people I don't believe in fairies.


No, well, on this board you don't see atheists telling you they don't believe in God, you see atheists telling you why accepting evolution isn't the same as being a fully paid-up member of Satanists Anonymous. If all you ever do is talk to people who you agree with, you don't have much to say. But if you continually see your position being misrepresented by a bunch or people who are sure they know a lot more about it than you do, wouldn't you try and set the record straight?
 
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webboffin, if the Fairy Forum set up a section of their forum called, Fairy Science vs Non-Fairyism and specifically noted this section as being open to Fairyists and non-Fairyists, wouldn't you take that as being and invitation to contribute your thoughts if you choose to share them? BTW, I'm not an atheist, but I fealt that your question was aimed at non-christians on these forums and not specifically atheists.
 
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Originally posted by XtremeVision
it boils down to "Why care, really?"

I dunno. Why do Christians post on atheist boards? Are they "spiritually uncertain"?

And of course you have the whole "strong" verse "weak" atheism myth which someone will bring up as a way to justify atheism in a more neutral sense as opposed to claiming true agnosticism.

"These people have a certain definition of a term they apply to themselves, but they're wrong and I am right, so I am free to go about defining it myself and attacking them with it."

If Christianity was popularly defined as "an illogical belief in a silly supernatural power", wouldn't you redefine it to show what you mean when you call yourself a Christian?
 
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Thank you for your replies. And yes, debate is very interesting and it instigates us christian, athiest or other religious believers our own self-questioning thoughts on what they truely believe and what we may think we believe.
And talking just only to christians - though they themselves have a rich variety of different thoughts on what aspects of the Bible are true that would in it'self justify the need of this christian forum, but would not be as riveting as a direct dicussion talks we have already.
Athiests or non believers do throw up a lot of intellectual alternatives to replace or take away a need for God that seem at least in mind from as worthy notions.
I asked at the start of this thread mainly just for the benefit for my own insight in why non religious people come here. And it is good that all here have much enjoyment in debating in this forum that keeps it alive and buzzing. And most people accept that either way christians are no more likely to disfellowship themselves from God any more than athiests are likely to convert just because of the threads in the forum.
As long as things are kept respectable I do enjoy clean debating with the most ardent athiest who tries to use his brand of logic against mine. It is quite stimulating.
Now knowing some of the many reasons why non christian come here helps give me a better understanding of their reasons. Though I have to disapprove mildy at some of the threads that particular forum members continually post but that is always to be expected.
 
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Originally posted by webboffin
Why do athiests if they don't believe in God come and subscribe to this Christian forum? (Please note: I don't hold anything against them) Hopefully some of them will see the truth and accept Jesus as our saviour.

Are they searching for something but don't know what? Or are they trying aimlessly to convince christians of their non-god beliefs are right?
I don't believe in fairies so I wouldn't bother joining up to a Fairy Forum just to tell people I don't believe in fairies.
I'm just curious to what inspires them to come here (often regularly).
But please do come regardless.

Thank you for raising the question. And let me try to answer that.
Well, let me first state that, like you said, I do not hold anything against christians, or believers, or anyone.
I come here, since this is an open discussion board. It is more or less the same as that I have a doorbell, and sometimes people of Christian belief ring my doorbell, and start talking about their belief. Although I am a convinced non-believer (in the sense that in my reasoning, there is no outside cause for the world to exist) I let them say what they have to say, respond to them politely of what I think the world is like.

So, this is a discussion board for people, although founded by people of Christian belief, to talk to each other and to people of no-belief and maybe also of another belief.

I think it is good to have open discussions on any item, so people can know about each others thought on questions and issues that matter.
People in this world, have different opinions and thought on many things.
As long as we are people, and do want to know about the world around us, we need to consider not only if what we think the world is like, is correct, and change opinion if we are convinced that our thoughts are somehow incorrect, and also we need to know what people of different belief, opinion or thought, base their beliefs, opinions or thought on.
In this world, it's only sane to have such open discusions, and try to understand each other in an open and honest fashion, treating anyone as humans no matter what their beliefs or thoughts or opinions are. We should treat each other this way, just like we want other to treat us.
Cause the only alternative would then, to start fighting against each other, and starting a war. As long as I live I will always be convinced of the fact that their is no goal worth of fighting a war for, and will struggle for peace always.
Whatever the beliefs, opinions or thoughts are a person has, and no matter how absurd or abnormal such a belief, opinion or thought could be, in the perspective of someone else, I always try to think of this from the fact that this other person must have a reason to have this belief, opinion or thought. We should try to understand this, and not dismerit someone else from what we ourselves think is true. Nobody in the world has all the knowledge, so we may not judge people by the fact they have less knowledge or different knowledge. We all understand part of reality, but nobody understands all of reality.

It's in this fashion, I welcome others here which want to enter such an open debate and discussion, based on mutual respect.

So, the reasons for coming here and discuss with you in this manner are twofold:
1. I wanna know what and why you think/belief the way you think/belief
2. I wanna explain what and why I think/belief the way I think/belief

The issue of "turning ones minds" is out of the question. People make their own judgements. But sometimes one does need others to draw and base opinions on. People of strong belief or conviction, don't tend to change their belief/conviction easily.
Only when one is not certain about ones own belief/conviction (and everyone is up to some point uncertain about if what they think or belief is right or not) it can be that one can change ones opinions.
If someone is not up to that, then nobody can, and certainly not by pursuading or enforcing things. That just would work the other way around.

As what my own conviction and understanding is, is that to my knowledge (which I am aware of is limited of course), the world as we see it, is entirely understandable. There is nothing we cannot understand. Although to acquire understanding, it means we have to act in order to get this understanding. Understanding does not come with itself.
In order to understand, we must ask questions, examine things, and look at things from all perspectives. Only then we can manage to aquire a little bit of understanding. It's not an easy way this can be done.
It has costed us thousands or years, to get our understanding on the point where it is now. This is not the work on an individual, but is the work of so many people, who pioneered in understanding the things we did not understand before. And it is certain, in our journey of getting this understanding, we made all kinds of mistakes, assumed things to be the way they were not. But as humans, we can only learn from our mistakes.
Sometimes we might feel lost, and sometimes we might think we cannot makes sense of it all. But these are only moments or points in time, in which our understanding is developing. I am certain we are able of understanding it all. That is what our history proofs us. We already see the big picture, and are able to make sense of the world as a whole.
In this journey, I think, nobody should be left on its one, it is for everyone to get to this understanding, and to actively participate in it. After all we all belong to the same family: the human family. Even despite the fact, that major conflicts are between us sometimes, as the daily reality shows us every day, I am convinced we are able to overcome them at sometime at some point in our human development.
 
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