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Or it could be that they think they are God. Sure seems that way sometimes.

Or the 6 year old who gets upset when his mom doesn't set a place at the dinner table for his imaginary friend. I recall quite a few cases of kids saying "mom hates my friend", now that I think about it ...
 
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Yes, but see, much the same complaint can be made about creation-science people and the whole Bible Belt way of thinking. Look at all the hateful comments, right on this site, that these guys make about fellow Christians who dare question their fundamentalist ideology. So, really persons on both sides are guilty of intolerance.
 
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"All of those winners were Christians, yet their political party somehow trumps that and puts them on the side of atheists...?"

Repeating what someone says but changing the words? I wouldn't say it's as black and white as that, for many things are black and white but that's part of the problem, and it's part of the reason we're so divided. This is why I mentioned "live and let live", that's what we need right now from those with passionate beliefs, not careless "live and let live" where you're okay with everything, but we're so divided right now that many seem to not think about the beliefs of others at all. As far as your comment goes, I'd put it like this, if the Democrats have the majority of the atheist then some of the politicians will try to appeal to their base, it's not always the case but we haven't had a good POTUS in a long time. A bipartisan leader who considers both sides in a genuine way may help ease things down. I hope so but it doesn't look like it for this election cycle.

Cearbhall when you said this....

It's hard to back three-quarters of the people in a room into a corner.

Physically maybe, but politically, socially, or strategically it's very possible.

Locutus

That's sad and should never happen, death is hard enough without someone else being the one responsible. Take Joseph Stalin for example, he led Russia and exterminated anywhere from 4-10 million people, he was Athiest and often targeted churches. It's been debated that he was worse than Hitler, but that seems to be a matter of opinion.

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We need to stop forcing math on children too.
And dont get me started on "reading".

Education is important, and sharing information about evolution is fine, but let children know that there is an alternative and let them decide. I believe evolution is real, I'm highly researched on matters of science, with that said it comes with controversy and the opinions of those who don't believe it should be considered, many of them contribute a lot so I think they're important too. Although I'm fine with evolution being taught, (just to add a thought) I wouldn't compare it to reading or math, those are skills that people often need on a daily basis.

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May I ask if those replying here believe? Don't worry, I don't preach, it's out of curiosity because I didn't know this section of the website had so many skeptics, if you don't believe and have a problem with Christianity what brings you here to CF, I'm sure you're very welcome here, I'm just curious on a personal level?
 
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So, essentially what you are claiming is that there is a major controversy in science over evolution, right? Well, that'll be the day. No, evolution is one of the best-supported theories in modern science. Since science is not equipped to deal with questions of God, evolution is a neutral theological concept. Issues about God are vital and should be discussed in philosophy and theology classes. It makes me very nervous to think that some expect biology teachers to talk about God when probably none have any real education in theology and other essential areas.
 
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That has absolutely nothing to do with "hating God". That has to do with laughing at "how retarded believers are".

Can you identify the difference between hating a believer in God and hating God? (Hint: believers aren't God.)

As far as Atheist having the upper hand, I believe this is true for a number of reasons. The amount of believers are on the decrease according to statistics

Are you living in the US? Believers still outnumber atheists by far, even in the younger generations.

and our government is becoming more progressive and liberal

Progressive and liberal =/= atheist. Many progressive liberals are Christians.

I believe things are changing, now I want to make it clear that being a Democrat doesn't make you an Athiest but when you look at the numbers or pay attention to the media it's clear that they have more Atheist and less believers....

Most American atheists are liberals, but that doesn't mean that most liberals are atheists.

So I'll stand by saying that I think non believers have the upper hand, I think many believers of God and Christians feel backed into a corner, I've seen it.




That's not hating God. That's hating religious mythology.


Hating religion or its popularity isn't the same as hating God.

I think most of the focus is on the religious and how bigoted and unaccepting they are, but Athiest are often very judgemental or unaccepting.

Have you considered that this may be because of how Christians have been judgmental or unaccepting towards them?

That's one of the things that turned me away from atheism

You've payed attention to the noisy atheists instead of to atheistic arguments.

they talked a lot about how judgemental and hypocritical believers are but they were doing the same thing.

Then why weren't you turned off by Christianity? Apparently, you didn't pay attention to the judgmental or hypocritical ones.


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I believe the main reason non-believers hate religion is because of trauma from their past.

Religion in the west has long been an abuser of hurting innocent people, it has hounded, harassed and abused helpless and needy people who just want to be left alone. A huge portion of the atheist community used to be believers themselves and have traumatic experiences that drove them away from religions. This creates a sort of post traumatic stress syndrome. Religious PTSD is real. Religious ideas and constraints can cause people who were traumatized by religious people as a child or teen to go into a rage or to become frightened or "triggered" so to speak.

Religion today is also a regular advocate of inequality and oppression of non-believers. Religious people regularly harass women, non-believers, ETC. The nominees for this presidential election made god a REALLY big deal. Non-believers cannot escape it.

We do not hate god, because god is not real. But if I believed in Thor and I repeatedly hit you with my hammer in his name, you'd start getting angry every time I came around and talked about Thor too.
 
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I have no doubt that atheists can and do hate, just like everybody else. That doesn´t mean, though, that they "hate God". They may hate the way they are approached, they may hate the implications of the god concepts they are introduced to, they may hate the idea of faith, they may hate the idea of good that believers project on their god concepts, and various other things - but that´s not "hating God".


It seems to me that theists are still a vast majority, and atheists are a vast minority. I don´t think that a decrease of theism in general (or Christianity in particular) warrants the conclusion that atheism "has the upper hand".
Also, I wouldn´t base such general statements on the feelings of some theists.

As I said in my previous post: Since you know so many atheists who "hate God" - why don´t you ask them?
I think it´s always better to talk to the persons you have questions about directly.
 
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I mean... read this book, there are stories in there about people JUST LIKE ME being tortured and killed. Religious people make their stories into pipedreams that don't really mean anything. But read these stories and take them seriously and you will see.

Moses, David, Joshua, those men would have killed me outright and killed my daughters too, even the New Testament says I do not deserve to live. Take your head out of the sand and really think about this. It's not ok. That is not how tolerance works.

How often do you see some religious leader being exposed for child molestation or theft or something else? All the time... we don't trust them because it's classic that they hurt people.
 
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There was a time in my life when I did not believe in God. I had the "why believe in him when good people suffer-- kids die with out a chance of life", mentality.
I did not necessarily hate God. I was angry though. Angry to witness constant pain and suffering from those who I thought Deserved nothing BUT justice, fairness, love, compassion, a happy life.
I'm sure there are endless reasons why a person will tell you they don't believe in His existence. One cannot judge for why that happens. My hope is that all of us in Christian Forums are here for one similar reason, which is to explore the possibility of God, His word.
Or why else are you all here then?
 
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The most obvious and ironic problem with this question is that parts of this book condone murder and torture and religious people accept that, but they do not accept a non-believer being angry.... doesn't that bother you?

Yahweh can kill LOTS of people, atheists can't get mad.... you don't see the problem?

You've taken anger and placed it at a higher level of immorality and wrong than killing or torturing a person.
 
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We all get angry, upset, heart broken, disappointed. We are humans and not perfect in any way no matter what we believe in. The bible is a complicated book to understand, in my opinion. Just like any other book, you either read it to try to understand it, to find out what it is all about either out of curiosity or faith, or you judge the book by its cover, without even trying.
 
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I understand but here's how I feel about it

Let's say I've known my father my entire life, I have always loved my father and cherished him and thought he was the best man in the world but I have emotional and sexual problems that I never understand. Then when I am 34 years old I start asking questions and I my sister tells me stories I was too young to remember. Stories about my father beating me until my sister cries and screams because she could not stop him, how my father hung me over a fire to frighten me, how my father took showers with me as an infant for some reason I cannot imagine.

Should I commit to the never ending quest of loving my father and discovering why those acts where good and loving things to do, or just accept that my father was bad and wrong?
 
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If there's a scientific dispute over the general course and mechanics of evolution, then yes, that should be taught in school.

But articles of religious faith should be left to church and family.
 
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Or it could be that they think they are God. Sure seems that way sometimes.
I have definitely noticed, for certain individuals, that believing in God is just a way of being able to say that the biggest guy on the playground is on their side, because they know that they don't actually have the intelligence or understanding to defend their opinions when challenged.
 
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Moses, David, Joshua, those men would have killed me outright and killed my daughters too, even the New Testament says I do not deserve to live. Take your head out of the sand and really think about this. It's not ok. That is not how tolerance works.

No, they wouldn't have killed you because of that. The bible was interpreted wrong after Jesus was sacrificed. Joshua, Moses, etc.. were around before then. Joshua worked directly with Jesus. Jesus was for compassion. The Roman empire turned him into what people today believe is bad, but he was the opposite. His words were interpreted wrong by Paul, who everyone is worshipping this day, instead of the true teachings. It has created a major, major problem because it wasn't misinterpreted by just a few words, instead it was misinterpreted where only a few words would not be completely contradicted to what Jesus wanted.
 
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Bravo.. +1
Hard to say it any better than that..
 
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I had said that nothing should be forced on a child, including evolution.
What do you mean by "forced"? Children are "forced" to learn science, history, mathematics, and a host of other things. Why should evolution be any different?

I suspect the anger you experienced may have been arisen from the understandable frustration of right- thinking persons who are frustrated by the rampant science-denial that is seen mostly in the US.

It's perhaps not all that dangerous for people to believe in creationism, but man-made climate-change is another matter. The very lives of our children and grand-children are at risk when people deny what 97% of the experts are telling us.

So a little anger is understandable, I suggest.
 
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There was a time in my life when I did not believe in God. I had the "why believe in him when good people suffer-- kids die with out a chance of life", mentality.
Then you still believed in a God, you just didn't like your God. That's not a lack of belief, that's just rebellion. The very question of "why believe in him when...? " is the key phrase.


To study people like you. To understand what makes a person believe in something for which there is no evidence but then run the rest of their life contrary to their religious ideas.

You wouldn't want to be put on trial based on religious principles would you? You would surely demand that only the facts of the case were presented and considered...

And yet, in so many other important things, people of religion use a totally different set of logical rules.
 
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Education is important, and sharing information about evolution is fine, but let children know that there is an alternative and let them decide.

I'd love to, but Christians seem to get bent out of shape any time the Flying Spaghetti Monster is brought up.
 
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