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Why do Adventists come across in the wrong way?

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You are right, people claiming to be SDA's that are not SDA's at all.

The splinter groups on the left and the right are always going to be a problem for some.

I also might add that some of the folk are very nice people.

Satan does not worry what side of the road that a person runs off, as long as they are off the road.

jesus talks about the road being long and narrow. The broad way is to destruction.
 
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Hey, thanks for the reply. Nice to meet you.

Well, what can I say? This was a traditional SDA church in a very well to do area in the North Shore, Sydney, Australia. It was not some new established off shoot as you say.

And again, this is something else that irks me, (again, nothing personal against you). You tell your story about what happened to you in the church, regardless of which church, and you talk about your bad experiences and the things that happenned, and everyone just says "but they weren't real Christians".

It just seems convenient that everytime we lament over the goings on in the modern church, it is easy to dismiss them for this reason. Well, where do we find Christians? Nowhere apparently, for whenever we discover wrongdoing, they are suddenly now not Christians any more. Very convenient.

Well I'm sorry but that doesn't cut it. You've heard the expression about looking like a cow, walking like a cow, mooing like a cow then it must be a cow. Well, you go to church for many, many years, you study the Bible, you do all the rituals, you even go into church leadership in some capacity right up to the pastor................you are a Christian.

None of this copout to defend the church "they're not Christians these people who do these things".

They are.
 
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FOR SURE ! this is definately the case !!! adventists have often been proud of who they are-you know, introducing themselves as "adventists" rather than "christians."

we need to be proud of who we are in christ.- NOT our doctrinal viewpoints...really,-the sabbath is important but God isnt going to ask you on judgment day about your doctrinal viewpoint on the santuary or the sabbath...
. he's going to ask:
1. what have you done with my son Jesus?
2. what have you done with the gifts i have given you?


yes, our beliefs are important- but the 27 fundamentals should not be how we introduce ourselves to people...that is why we have people that think adventists are evil..
 
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Well it's refreshing to read some common sense from an Adventist because many of the ones I've come across have great pride in their particular denomination, and in Ellen White, keeping the Sabbath, not eating "unclean" food etc.

And this goes for many other churches too. Pentecostals have great pride in all these supposedly whizz bang "miracles" and "manifestations", their music etc.

I'll tell you what I hate the most and is Biblically wrong. When someone asks you what religion you are, and the reply is "I'm a Baptist" or "Catholic" or "Presybterian" or whatever other denomination. No one should say this. You should only say you are a Christian, a follower of Christ. Because when you say, for example, that you are a Catholic, you don't identify with Christ but with a man made denomination, and furthermore, you automatically exclude brothers and sisters in Christ of other denominations.

By saying you are a Catholic as an example, you are implying that you are NOT an Adventist, Methodist etc.

And this is Biblically very wrong. That is why I refuse to be allied with any denomination ever again. I may fellowship with one, but I will never identify myself by that denomination, even if I never go to a different one ever again in my life.

I might say that I fellowhship at say a Baptist church, but I am simply a Christian. And we should all be saying likewise, (except for the Baptist bit-lol). And none of us should have pride in our denomination, but in Christ alone.

By the way, one way I define a cult is how the founders are viewed. I have gone to Baptist churches that I have enjoyed, yet I do not defend the racist, slave mentality of Southern Baptists in America especially in former times.

A cult cannot admit wrong in it's founding fathers/mothers. I was speaking to a Mormon woman once and I reminded her about the massacre that Joseph Smith and his followers committed in a town rampage.

She didn't deny it and defended it. She thought it was "understandable" that the Mormon fathers would have had this outrage because of the ridicule and persecution they endured for a long time.

Gee, didn't Jesus and the Apostles also have persecution and ridicule? I don't read about them going on a killing spree. Yep, in my mind, definately a cult.
 
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yes, our beliefs are important- but the 27 fundamentals should not be how we introduce ourselves to people...that is why we have people that think adventists are evil..


Interestingly I have never met anyone who was introduced to what the SDA church teaches by being told what the 27 fundamental beliefs were. In our case, we were brought into the church because our neighbor gave us Bible studies something our church never did.

many of the ones I've come across have great pride in their particular denomination, and in Ellen White, keeping the Sabbath, not eating "unclean" food etc.


Hmmm, I've been an SDA for over 40 years and been in over a dozen churches and there wasn't anyone who took "pride" in such things.

I will never identify myself by that denomination

It was never planned by Christ and the Apostles that anyone ever should! One should first, foremost and last be a follower of Christ!
 
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That is a very good point and I've never really thought of it that way, but you are right in some ways. On the other hand, are we not to be conscious of what defines us 'different' from the many other denominations under Christianity? Yes, we are all followers of Christ, but not every one that calls 'Lord Lord' is righteous? A remnant cannot be a Remnant if they are not clearly defined, characterised; is it right to be wishy-washy in these last days? The one warning which echoes most throughout Revelation (ten times) is not to worship the image of the beast.


"I heard another voice from heaven, saying, 'Come out of her, my people, so that you will not participate in her sins and receive of her plagues.." Revelation 18:4
 
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Hello! This is my first post here.

Jon, I agree with you that hiding the label can be wishy-washy. People are so non-commital about their faith these days. Everywhere I have ever worked or gone to school with others, it has always come out somehow. I try to be a good representative, in hopes of undoing what may be bad experiences people may have had with other SDA's- that seems to me unsettlingly frequent. I was on a board where a girl had the experience of being sexually molested by a teacher in an SDA school, and her SDA father was unfaithful to her SDA mother, and she claimed that the church covered up everything and moved the teacher quietly somewhere else. As a result every time Seventh-day Adventists or their beliefs came up in discussion she would badmouth Adventism terribly- though she did not have anything personal against me, and told me so. I couldn't take it personally either, because I sympathized with her.

It never ceases to amaze me, when I share things that are not distinctly SDA, just very spiritual and Biblical, and other Christians (especially a certain denom) don't appreciate it- rather take serious offense!

I think one major reason Adventists come off unfavorably is because we are a denomination with a large inventory of very specific doctrines. We have something definite and Biblical to say about everything. We were raised, in a way to be like Sister White says Jesus was- to give a reason from the Bible for everything we do- and so we come off as Bible know-it-alls. But it's our culture to be very persnickety about the Bible. At the same time it seems that popular culture is becoming more and more relativistic and plurallistic, as if it's a crime to believe something specific, because if you believe you're right about something, automatically someone else is wrong, and you're a bigot, a fanatic, and intolerant.
 
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So by identifying yourself by a denomination is being strong and by identifying yourself simply by being a follower of Christ is being wishy washy.

You really have to ask yourself "WWJT?". What would Jesus think of that? I don't think he would be impressed.

Identifying yourself by a denomination means nothing: you may still not be a Christian. You have a lot more chance of being a real one by identifying yourself with Christ alone.

And again, you are unsuppored by the Bible, so really, you have no argument. Yours is just a humanistic rationale.
 
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Why would Jesus be ashamed of someone who keeps the Sabbath as He did- yet in a world where the majority has no respect for His day, and why would Jesus be ashamed of someone who loves His appearing?

If you think Adventists divide the body of Christ, haven't you heard that the body of Christ was divided a long time ago?. I for one am glad for a special message given around 1844, and a people who prayed their hearts out night after night to understand why they experienced so great a disappointment, and who with every fiber of their being, and earnest Bible study tried to discern what was the original faith delivered to the saints. A Seventh-day Adventist is by definition, a Christian. In case you haven't noticed, there are all kinds of entities out there that call themselves "Christian," and I believe there are occasions where it makes sense to be more specific.

Do you know my testimony, how I became an Adventist, or how it has changed my life? No. Otherwise you would not question that Jesus would be beamingly proud of me for following obediently where He Himself led me.

1 Peter 3:15, 16
But in your hearts set apart Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect, 16 keeping a clear conscience, so that those who speak maliciously against your good behavior in Christ may be ashamed of their slander.
 
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Who gave you the authority to judge this person in this way? Are you not now guilty of doing the very same thing that you are condemning?

And again, you are unsuppored by the Bible, so really, you have no argument. Yours is just a humanistic rationale.

But where is the rationale in this?

Where is your scriptural support? So are you willing to say that you have no argument as well, since you haven't used scripture to substantiate the points that you've made above?
 
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No offense to you guys intended, but you obviously know the Bible backwards I presume for defending your position on such things as the Sabbath, "unclean" foods etc, but don't know some of the really important doctrines.

Here are verses from 1 Corinthians:
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10 I appeal to you, brothers, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that all of you agree with one another so that there may be no divisions among you and that you may be perfectly united in mind and thought. 11 My brothers, some from Cloe’s household have informed me that there are quarrels among you. 12 What I mean is this: One of you says, “I follow Paul”; another “I follow Apollos”; another, “I follow Cephas”; still another, “I follow Christ.”

13 Is Christ divided? Was Paul crucified for you? Were you baptised into the name of Paul? 14 I am thankful that I did not baptise any of you except Crispus and Gaius, 15 so no-one can say that you were baptised into my name. (16 Yes, I also baptised the household of Stephanas; beyond that, I don’t remember if I baptised anyone else.) 17 For Christ did not send me to baptise, but to preach the gospel – not with words of human wisdom, lest the cross of Christ be emptied of its power.
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Notice Paul laments when Christians are divided, ("I follow Paul, I follow Cephas etc"). Paul even is grateful that he did not do any baptising himself for this reason, and suggests this is also the reason that Christ himself did not baptise, to minimise these divisions and separations among men.

Paul clearly states, "Is Christ divided?"

Therefore, Biblically speaking, a person should only identify him/herself by Christ alone, not a denomination. You can argue all you like, but I have shown you by the scriptures that it is not right.
 
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Therefore, Biblically speaking, a person should only identify him/herself by Christ alone, not a denomination. You can argue all you like, but I have shown you by the scriptures that it is not right.
So what you're saying is that I have sinned by disobeying Scripture if I tell anyone I am a Seventh-day Adventist instead of saying I'm a Christian? Please clarify. Is that what you are saying?
 
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No offense to you guys intended, but you obviously know the Bible backwards I presume for defending your position on such things as the Sabbath, "unclean" foods etc, but don't know some of the really important doctrines.

Who has put you in the seat of God's judgment to declare in absolute terms that we don't understand the teaching of 1Cor. 1:10-11?

Truth is, you are the one who doesn't understand the teaching. If you did, you wouldn't have come her to stir up trouble!

Therefore, Biblically speaking, a person should only identify him/herself by Christ alone, not a denomination. You can argue all you like, but I have shown you by the scriptures that it is not right.

Oh really? How is it that you can conclude that what you're saying is Biblical when even the Apostles had a name for their movement? They called it the "Way". See Acts 9:2
 
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Greetings,

We who believe to have the truth are often a burden to others. Who can say he/she is not guilty of it at some point?

I can relate to your experience with churches in general. I was an atheist, then became a baptist, then a SDA. I am not happy with worship services going on in the churches myself. For me, I could do two things, quit going or try doing my share to change it.

I haven't quit going is because I believe there is a true message that's different from other denominations. Does it make 'us' better than other Christians? No. We all need a savior. And we don't teach we are the only ones will be saved. Any learnt SDAs will tell you the majority of God's children are still outside of SDA churches.

And we shouldn't build our faith/trust on what other members are doing. Look at what I am doing. Is it in accord with the bible? I don't judge a denomination based on the people that go there. But I will look at their teachings. Is it biblical?

I know you have bitterness in your experience. This is what the Devil wants: to discourage us to find the truth. I believe the Adventism (the movement or the people) has the biblical truth. While I don't call other christians are of the Devil but I do try to share with them.

Now if you can let your previous experience not get in the way, and if you wish to discuss the doctrines here (in other threads), we can do our best to comply.

Anyways, God bless with your walk!
 
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Oh really? How is it that you can conclude that what you're saying is Biblical when even the Apostles had a name for their movement? They called it the "Way". See Acts 9:2

As much as I hate to admit it, I agree with you on this
 
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Oh, for the love of Pete!! You managed to drag up one obscure bit of scripture, and on that one bit of vague understanding, you have managed to string together a doctrine that states it is okay to identify yourselves by a denomination-any denomination, not just yours specifically.

So because the early Christians were called "the way", you too can call yourselves by whatever denomination, rather than just by Christ. And yet, I have given not just one vague, obscure scripture, but several clear cut scriptures to support my case ( "Is Christ divided?", "one follows Cephas, one follows Apollos, one follows Paul").

"The way" is not a denomination of the early church. It was just a description of the path of following Christ, a metaphor of being a follower and believer of him. And it is a very flimsy argument for being an ardent follower of a denomination-any denomination, becuase all denominations are invented and run and organised by fallible men. It is our faith in Christ alone that is originated only by Jesus himself. That is why I will never have any undying loyalty to a faulty human denomination.
 
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Then why are you here?

If not to stir up trouble, then for what purpose?

Your manner of address to me is highly disrespectful. I normally welcome friendly discussion in here from non-SDAs, but you are beginning to show yourself as one who merely has an agenda to cause trouble, which by the way, is a blatant contradiction to the principle of the passage (1Cor. 1:10-11) that you claim to know so well.

Did you really read the rules of this forum before you started posting in here?
 
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