domi
not really, and not just men in general.
but when you find a
husband God wants
both of you to
GIVE to each other.
it isnt that the man is in charge, but the woman is supposed to give to the man,
things, feelings, life, pleasure, obedience....
but the man is also required to do the VERY SAME to his wife.
it is a completely equal relationship, serving God.
the bible doesnt just tell women to submit or serve, it tells men and women husband and wife to give, submit or serve
one another.
men must also serve their wives and submit to their wives, becuase his body is not his own, its hers. the same as my body is not my own but its been bought with a price and its God and i must serve God. but the bible also says i am not my own, but im am my wife's. so i must serve and submit to her also the same way i do God.
but its not this overbearing kind of thing,
when you find a Godly man, the man your supposed to be with, hell never exploit or hurt you, and it will be his pleasure to get you things and please you materially and emotionally, you will be his world! hell love you like hes your prince in shining armor!
and he is called to serve you just as much as your called to serve him.
you serve each other.
when i find this lady i keep calling my wife one day,
it will be my Joy to wipe all her tears away, give her the best, by her a new rose everyday, give her a valentines day everymonth, give her a happy aniversary day every month, do all that i can for her, pour my whole life and being into making her happy! everyday! and shell love me for it!
and ohhh shell give me what i want in return!
but its that equal relationship... that mutual relationship.
in the book of dueteronomy it says that under the old law, moses required that when a man married.
it was his requirement, to then take a full year off.
and not work, and not go to war... but to take one year, the first year, and devote it entirely to nothing but making her happy!
A FULL YEAR HONEYMOON!
thats how good, men of God love and treat their wives.
thats how im going to treat myne.
and thats how your husband will treat you if you wait on Gods timing and will and pray for him and do your part.
Godbless
Lee.