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Fnord

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And why your God? This is one thing that always confused me. Not only is there no proof that God exists, if God did exist, there is also 0 proof that your God and/or religion is the correct one. Why?
Yes I'm an atheist, but I was an agnostic before that and was raised in a Catholic family. I really did want to believe in God, because, admit it, it's a pretty nice idea. But, it was difficult to believe the words of people living a thousand years ago, when science is constantly disproving their thoughts. And there are the contradictions. My faith crumbled, it's as simple as that. But I still have an open mind. Care to save me?
 

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Get into some good reading as a start. Science disproves God? Read Lee Strobel's book "The Case for a Creator" to see what many scientists are saying about science and God.

There are plenty of good books that provide sensible bases for a person to accept the reasonableness of Christian faith. Go to a good Christian bookstore and find some.

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Fnord said:
And why your God? This is one thing that always confused me. Not only is there no proof that God exists, if God did exist, there is also 0 proof that your God and/or religion is the correct one. Why?
Yes I'm an atheist, but I was an agnostic before that and was raised in a Catholic family. I really did want to believe in God, because, admit it, it's a pretty nice idea. But, it was difficult to believe the words of people living a thousand years ago, when science is constantly disproving their thoughts. And there are the contradictions. My faith crumbled, it's as simple as that. But I still have an open mind. Care to save me?
True, Science can't prove "which religion accurately discribes God" But science does prove that the universe, and life in the universe was created by something not dependant on what that person/group of people created.

I can write pages on the subject but the quickest example is life:

There's tons of life on the earth. If Life naturally evolves the way it did on earth, life should be at some stage of development on every other planet with an atmosphere. Maybe even planets without one.

The standard public highschool version of biogenisis explains that the earth started with a "primordial ooze" and random molicules bumped together to form a living cell, which evolved into life suitable for the environment... So if the earth had this "primordial ooze" All planets should have this primordial ooze. Why don't we see it anywhere?

Also, we can detect billions of galexies. In each of these galixies there are hundreds of billions of stars. Around most of these stars there are at least a few planets say just 2 planets per star... some may have 10-20, some may not have any. If even 1% of these host life that's still a good number of planets with life. We have no evidence to show how long the average planet takes to generate life so we have to assume we're about in the middle. If 50% of the planets which can support life are not as far as we are on the evolutionary chain than 50% are further than us. Some of the ones not as far as us may still be in the primordial ooze, some may just be in their form of the 1970's. Likewise some of the ones more advanced than us may only be a few generations ahead of us, some must have formed advanced civilizations and collapsed already.

Now... with those odds, half of 1% of the planets, just in the universe we know of.... at least 10*10^18 or 1,000,000,000,000,000,000 planets with life evolutionally beyond what we currently have. Don't you think ONE of them would have contacted us by now? Or shouldn't we have at least stumbled on evidence of one of them?

doesn't seem all that natural to me. Plus there's the whole problem with the big bang theory... if black holes are impossible to escape, what infinite force caused matter to escape from the infinite force of a universal singularity that existed before the big bang? And if there's only been one big bang than for an eternity that singularity sat there, idle... then suddenly exploded, what caused that? And if this wasn't the first big bang, if there have always been big bangs/big crunches what force overpowered the infinite force which propelled the matter of the universe away from the infinite force of the origonal universal singularity? And if the universe has been constantly banging and crunching, matter must have always been in motion, and due to the law of entropy dictating that the universe becomes more chaotic with every change... over an infinite period of time, the universe should be infinitely chaotic.


The universe can't both create itself and hold itself together.

Sorry, I'm done for now.
 
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Hey,

I kind of know where your coming from because I was brought up going to a rather dull Anglican church (please forgive me for saying that God!) and I was the only 'Christian' at my school, which meant that going to church was something that I kept quiet about. My reasons for going to church weren't exactly pure, for instance, I knew it would please my parents and my church attendance always peaked around the time of my exams! Not knowing the full extent of what I claimed to believe in, it was almost as if I would go to church so that my life would be filled with good luck. In a way, I suspect that's not a million miles away from your experience with the Catholic church.

As I say, I'd been going to church all my life, but it wasn't until just over a year ago (at the age of 22), that everything began to fell into place and God really did something incredible with me and put some other Christians in my life for the first time who I could really relate to. It's quite a drawn out testomony which I'd be happy to share with people because in this worldly, secular earth in which we live I have to keep reminding myself of it, as it can be so hard to keep believing and taking it seriously at times.

God bless for now,

mark ;)
 
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I really did want to believe in God, because, admit it, it's a pretty nice idea. (from opening post)

Could it be that the reason you not believe in this 'pretty nice idea' is because you found another 'pretty nice idea' that appeals more to your carnal nature?
 
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Fnord said:
And why your God? This is one thing that always confused me. Not only is there no proof that God exists, if God did exist, there is also 0 proof that your God and/or religion is the correct one. Why?
Yes I'm an atheist, but I was an agnostic before that and was raised in a Catholic family. I really did want to believe in God, because, admit it, it's a pretty nice idea. But, it was difficult to believe the words of people living a thousand years ago, when science is constantly disproving their thoughts. And there are the contradictions. My faith crumbled, it's as simple as that. But I still have an open mind. Care to save me?
It will take an open heart, as well. I think many Christians also struggle at times with doubt. I have. I wonder what if I'm wrong. I know now that I'm not. If you seek Him, you will find Him, if you seek Him with all your heart. You have to begin an honest search to know Him. Not to disprove Him. In my experience, He's been more a whisper, than a shout. But He's there and He's steadfast in His pursuit, and the more you listen the louder He gets. I'll pray for you to find Who you're looking for.
 
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I can't save you. Only Christ can. It is through His death, resurrection and mercy that we are saved. Try reading the Bible as the Word says that faith comes by hearing the Word of God. Start with the book of John and pray to God that He gives you wisdom and read with an open mind. I will be praying for you. God bless you in your search for peace.

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No one can "save you".. You'll always have that little voice in the back of your head telling you "no this isn't right".. trust me ive been there.. i was an atheist for quite awhile and its hard to explain how i went back to being catholic. It had to do with me being in a hospital and god revealing himself to me in the craziest way.. you can read my story in testimonies..

But anways, read some books and study further.. you'll come to realize that in the end.. you'll always end up with the guy above.:sorry:
 
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Fnord said:
And why your God? This is one thing that always confused me. Not only is there no proof that God exists, if God did exist, there is also 0 proof that your God and/or religion is the correct one. Why?
Yes I'm an atheist, but I was an agnostic before that and was raised in a Catholic family. I really did want to believe in God, because, admit it, it's a pretty nice idea. But, it was difficult to believe the words of people living a thousand years ago, when science is constantly disproving their thoughts. And there are the contradictions. My faith crumbled, it's as simple as that. But I still have an open mind. Care to save me?

Faith crumbles when it's not built on a good foundation. It's right for you to start from scratch. Start to address each question you have through personal study and build a new foundation for yourself.

As has been mentioned before, it's not up to us to save you. Christ saves and God places the leading in your heart to seek him. If you have an inkling of God, then go searching and see where that inkling leads you.
 
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My husband was a doubter, and was also on drugs for many years. Now he is one of the strongest Christians I know. He has more faith than I do.

The books by Lee Strobel that were suggested are very good.

I thank Jesus all the time for my salvation. For me, it would take more faith to think that we were either evolved or just happened, than to believe in God the Creator.

God bless you.
 
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The Love that my God has for me cannot be replaced by anything. It burns so strong for everyone. This is seen clearly in what Jesus went through at the cross. The one thing that our Creator wants for us more than anything is to be home with Him.

Farout, it kinda just hits you hey? He loves us more than we can imagine
 
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The Gregorian said:
True, Science can't prove "which religion accurately discribes God" But science does prove that the universe, and life in the universe was created by something not dependant on what that person/group of people created.

Today, there are many scientists who argue that the complexity of living matter right down to the cellular level is so complex that design rather than chance is a more reasonable explanation of nature than chance.

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I care to save you...I wish I could...but my mind works nothing in the science realm...I am nearly worthless there...I base all that I know on faith...and sometimes...many times, actually, falter, look around, and wonder..."what on earth do I believe in this for? Who is this crazy "God" that I claim to follow? I don't know him..." and then a couple weeks later, I hear a good sermon or read a book that suddenly brings me back into understanding...back from my confusion...But I find it hard to explain...I just hope that you will find someone near by to talk to about this...it's important...I mean...where WILL you go when this life is over??? Will you disappear? Will you be reincarnated? Will you go to heaven, hell, or purgatory? You can decide..but if you base it on science...you may have nothing...for really....how can a soul be proven? You have a soul...I have a soul...and so does everyone else...don't we? Could a brain produce an individual for everyone with its robot-like qualities...? I mean, really...could it? It just seems far off for me....but then...things like what I believe are far off for you...aren't they? I would give my life for you...but since I cannot...and a life has already been given...I simply share with you what I know...and what I know is that someone loves me...loves me like no one else can...and that means the world to me... It's very important...when you fill like junk...he'll be there even if it doesn't feel like it...but deep deep down...someday you'll feel it...someday that emptiness may be so bad you think you'll implode...but He will be there....he is always there...you may not be able to see him without a heartscope...but he is there...my love to you dear friend...Lauren
 
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Fnord said:
And why your God? This is one thing that always confused me. Not only is there no proof that God exists, if God did exist, there is also 0 proof that your God and/or religion is the correct one. Why?
Yes I'm an atheist, but I was an agnostic before that and was raised in a Catholic family. I really did want to believe in God, because, admit it, it's a pretty nice idea. But, it was difficult to believe the words of people living a thousand years ago, when science is constantly disproving their thoughts. And there are the contradictions. My faith crumbled, it's as simple as that. But I still have an open mind. Care to save me?

I like your honesty. I'll try to be as straightforward as I can.

For starters, God exists. If I were blind, would color cease to exist? If I were deaf, would sound cease to exist? If I couldn't feel my leg, does it dissappear? I love to go to this big park reserve with my friends to go running, but when I'm not there does it cease to exist? I love my parents and talk to them now and then over the phone since I'm not living with them. Even though I talk to them, I can't prove their existence. I can't prove them, yet they sustain me (college tuition). In the same way, God may not be tactile, audible, visible, etc. at a given time, but that doesn't mean he doesn't exist. He is objective, not subjective - his existence doesn't depend on us. Think about it. Maybe you or I can't prove his existence by physical means, yet he sustains us. If it's concrete, physical proof you want that God exists, I'm sorry but that I can't give to you. Then again if it's concrete, physical proof you want that he doesn't exist, I can't give you that either. This is where your faith comes in, because without it, all of your striving for meaning and purpose doesn't mean a whole ton. But also, even if you have the faith, it means nothing if you don't act on it.
Here's where I stop (because I'm really not smart and can't explain a ton), sorry if I took too much of your time, but your life is of great importance, and I'm glad to see that you had the guts to put your questions out in the open - I admire that.

grab a bible or check biblegateway.com
look at Romans
look at 3:23>6:23>5:88>10:9>10:13>12:1>12:2>12:3
and keep asking questions

I pray you would continue searching. Even if you don't think so, God loves you - a lot, trust me.
 
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Fnord,

Sorry to say this,, but it is really hard for some people who have a favor towards science to accept God. Not all. I love science, and I Love God even more. So Fnord can you share what things and who's thoughts science is disproving? I know it's difficult to believe in things that you haven't seen. Fnord, have you read the Bible? It's so easy to believe in things taught in school these days, because they're considered "Facts." But we can't really go into details in this forum about faith vs. science. I'm glad that you are open though... and by posting in here, it shows that you are looking for some answers/advice....may I ask you how much faith you had before? And where did this faith come from? Having proof is not the best reason to have faith. But if you must, I am reading this book called "The Case For Christ." By Lee Strobel who was an atheist. But then he found some historical facts that brought him to have faith. It's not fiction. Pretty good book, alot of answers to questions I haven't even thought about. And answers to some of the questions that I've had for a while....Fnord I hope this helps... I've had many personal experiences that has drawn me closer to God each day....Christianity is the only belief I know of that does not show that you can be saved through works. (but forgive me if I'm wrong, because I do not know about all beliefs on the planet). The only thing that can save you is acceptance that Jesus Christ is your savior.....Hey, Fnord, please PM me if you want to talk more....thanks for posting your thoughts, I hope I helped....And I pray that you will find the Truth....I don't know if I can answer some questions that you might have about science and bible contradictions, but PM me.....I would like to know and ponder on them anywase.....:)
 
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Fnord,

Oh, hehe, I forgot to answer your question. Why should you believe in God? Well because "if" He does exist, then wouldn't you want to? Wouldn't you want to know the Truth? Wouldn't you want that salvation? So that's why you should seek the Truth....okay...thanks again...
 
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I don't see how faith and science need to be opposed to one another.

When people from either camp come to prove the other wrong, then both are dishonest and not representing what they claim.
Positivism is not is such good shape anymore. Its foundations are constructed on human bias rather than the inerrant calculative fact that it has been paraded for.
And some religious dogmatism runs counter to any and all sense. This does not need to be so.
All truth is God's truth.
 
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