Why are you still single?

[kerosam]

working in a foreign country, has a different accent and culture, not the best looking guy around town and don't know where to start... church has been alrite but no one i'm very interested in.... maybe that's good cos it will be easier to leave this town for job opportunities elsewhere.

 

[Peacelily]

Mine is personal issues. I also have trouble letting people get close to me.

THis is part of the reason for me PLUS I have a VERY gray past with men treating me like UTTER DIRT so I do not trust. BUT I do believe that there is A WONDERFUL reason for this....GOD wanted me to be with my guardian angel. There is SO much showing me that is what God wants. SO am I "single" NO but MARRIED NO WAY cause angels DO not marry PLUS there is NO marriage in HEAVEN according to the Bible!
I am VERY happy and content with my angel and I love him so! He has treated me better than ANY other MAN has in my life!

 

[Niels]

Because whenever I meet someone, fate tears us apart...

I'll meet her right before I move, right before she leaves for a 5 year missions trip to Guam, when I'm visiting friends out of state, and/or when I'm going through other stuff that makes dating an impossibility.



*sigh* At least it gives me hope to know that there are still a few nice, dateable, single women out there who I have good chemistry with.

 

[Stanfi]

Because whenever I meet someone, fate tears us apart...

I'll meet her right before I move, right before she leaves for a 5 year missions trip to Guam, when I'm visiting friends out of state, and/or when I'm going through other stuff that makes dating an impossibility.



*sigh* At least it gives me hope to know that there are still a few nice, dateable, single women out there who I have good chemistry with.

Fate sucks.. Just when you see your ship coming in, it sinks.

 

[Tuffguy]

I'm not married cause i'm picky.

 

[Psalms34]

Why are you still single?

Because I'm still not married?

Most people don’t believe me at first when I answer them that I'm not married (or never have been). Then I have to try to convince them that I'm not gay.

Why? Why ask why? I'm open to it, just haven't.

 

[TriptychR]

I'm not married cause i'm picky.

Don't you have a girlfriend, though? You can't be that picky.

 

[JPPT1974]

No boyfriend just yet
But that is God's will for me to have one.

 

[Psalms34]

No boyfriend just yet
But that is God's will for me to have one.

Yeah, same here, been some years. Actually my last GF was my fiancé and that was like ten years ago. For a long time after that I just didn’t want to go through it again, maybe soon if I meet someone that is a match (which I would think would be unlike me... the missing parts).

 

[eatenbylocusts]

[I really don't meet all that many people on a dating basis, or even many christian single people to speak of. Although it only takes one, it's hard to meet the right person if you don't even meet much of any! At one point, my sister and I were down to counting 'sightings' of single Christian folks of appropriate gender! (I actually had more sightings last year than I had in the previous five, but most of the fish were swimming in pairs or weren't hungry for any bait - just lots of bobbers!). I sometimes wonder if there truly are any down-to-earth bible-believing Christian single women who would be interested in an intelligent, hard-working, committed, fit, single Christian, non-party guy who enjoys the deeper things of life (friends, family, nature, thought, sharing, etc) still exist (one of those rare NT types).

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[/QUOTE]

Yes, there are some Bible-believing/practicing women looking for a man such as you. My ex-boyfriend had a very similar school experience as you, became a devoted follower at 20 and is still looking at 45. He dumped me after making me believe we would be getting married. So, it goes both ways.

 

[winglovesall]

God's timing is always correct - that's why I am single

 

[Tuffguy]

Don't you have a girlfriend, though? You can't be that picky.

lol!! I def have a gf. I also have lots of ex's. And i am picky. You'd say the same thing if you met her.

To me not single = ring on finger. I don't pick up girls while i have a gf obviously, but you u know what i mean.

 

[mel78]

I dont think I am worthy enough to have someone that treats me like I should and i have a problem picking the right kind of person for me.

 

[Matt.9:22]

Well for one, I feel like God is calling for me to enjoy my season of singleness and not treat it like a curse, but rather a time to develop myself as a individual person. Right now, I am focusing on my education and preparing myself for the future. I feel like when the tiime is right God will open the door for me rather than me trying to kick it down because it is currently closed.

 

[JPPT1974]

If God wants me to be single, then that's His call.
He may want me to do something I don't know just yet.
But He will show and lead me to it.
No matter what occurs.

 

[truezeta]

By choice.

 

[JPPT1974]

By choice as well as God's will.

 

[GQ Chris]

Let's see, I was in a relationship for about 5 years with my ex-girlfriend; wom I lived with. We broke up in February of 2004 and it's been ups and downs ever since; have not found anyone where it's worked out between us. I just don't know anymore, but I do know that I am sick and tired of being sick and tired, and that Satan's lies are really doing a number on me right now even though that I know that they are nothing but lies.

 

[MN John]

Because the time for us to marry is ... not yet.

 

[silentpoet]

I am single as punishement, that at least is how it feels. It is a big part of why I don't trust God.