Why are you Single?

[brebre]

I am just curious as to why many people are staying single.

My answer to my own question is that God has not shown me the guy he wants me to be with. I am not looking for a guy, I am trusting God that if there is someone he wants me to be with, that he will show me in due time.

God bless

 

[Loving monster]

I am just curious as to why many people are staying single.

My answer to my own question is that God has not shown me the guy he wants me to be with. I am not looking for a guy, I am trusting God that if there is someone he wants me to be with, that he will show me in due time.

God bless

Honestly.... Because I am monster, unfeeling, cold and calculating. I can easy cause someone to hate simply because I have no moral code other than "Don't do evil more than you can handle the good coming back for vengence." I am apathetic to the suffering of others and myself. I try to keep myself invulnerable to emotional pain my hardening myself to basic human revulsion and pity. I read the rotten news to dull myself to the horrors of humanity. While I am not evil, I am a pitiless, cold, monster. I only express positive emotion when alone or when volunteering at the only place I feel somewhat liked at.

 

[HighwayMan]

1) I'm perfectly content being single and am not relationship material anyway.

2) As Woody Allen said, "I would never want to be apart of a club that would want someone like me for a member."

 

[Bellicus]

I am single because I just became single, and I haven't really felt the urge to start looking again, but feel pretty sure that I will get cached in another fishing net after a while. I know that God wants me to marry someone, but I don't know who, so I just keep my eyes open, and I know that I will know when I meet her.

 

[HighwayMan]

Honestly.... Because I am monster, unfeeling, cold and calculating. I can easy cause someone to hate simply because I have no moral code other than "Don't do evil more than you can handle the good coming back for vengence." I am apathetic to the suffering of others and myself. I try to keep myself invulnerable to emotional pain my hardening myself to basic human revulsion and pity. I read the rotten news to dull myself to the horrors of humanity. While I am not evil, I am a pitiless, cold, monster. I only express positive emotion when alone or when volunteering at the only place I feel somewhat liked at.

I like you already.

 

[Pyrogenesis]

I have yet to find her.

 

[brebre]

I seriously love the responses
I do feel the need to say that I have been called cold and unfeeling also.
The fact that I relate myself with the Gothic way of life causes many men to fear me, even though I am not evil.
I was also engaged 2 years ago. God changed my plans when the guy I was with got his biological sister pregnant.
Now I feel that I must just be patient and wait on God.

Thanks!!!!
Breann

 

[Loving monster]

I like you already.

I am glad to hear that. Oddly enough I spend my idle time writing love stories.

 

[JonMiller]

I don't meet many women, I don't know how to fix this. Also, women don't seem very interested in me (I think because I say the wrong thing/etc).

JM

 

[brebre]

I am glad to hear that. Oddly enough I spend my idle time writing love stories.

That is very interesting.

 

[Wren]

I'm single for many reasons. The main one is that I'm uber shy.

 

[Thunder Peel]

Just look at any picture of me and the answer will be pretty obvious.

 

[Loving monster]

That is very interesting.

At six o'clock my time I will post up my favorite on in my blog.

 

[Wren]

Just look at any picture of me and the answer will be pretty obvious.

I just looked at your profile pic and that is clearly not the reason that you are single. Try again

 

[brebre]

Just look at any picture of me and the answer will be pretty obvious.

Awwww
I love a quote that says, "No one can love you if you don't love yourself."

That might be my problem too.

 

[brebre]

At six o'clock my time I will post up my favorite on in my blog.

Which time zone are ya in?

 

[brebre]

I just looked at your profile pic and that is clearly not the reason that you are single. Try again

I must agree with her.

 

[deliciousBass]

I was also engaged 2 years ago. God changed my plans when the guy I was with got his biological sister pregnant.

Wow.

I've never heard this question before:

I'm single because I don't meet very many women who are interested in me and if they are, we wouldn't be "right" for each other.

 

[brebre]

Wow.

I've never heard this question before:

I'm single because I don't meet very many women who are interested in me and if they are, we wouldn't be "right" for each other.

Lovely face

My question is do you give the women that are interested in you a chance? Or do you just assume?

I am a very curious person. Sorry!!! :o

 

[deliciousBass]

Lovely face

My question is do you give the women that are interested in you a chance? Or do you just assume?

I am a very curious person. Sorry!!! :o

Oh I am very much an equal opportunity employer. But most of the time, my assumptions are pretty well spot on since I know exactly what I'm looking for.

For example: This girl in my Biology class has had a crush on me for a while now. HOWEVER, this girl does not speak English correctly (she talks all ghetto and stupid sounding). She did not know to use a ruler and failed at a lot of basic math skills.

I can't give a girl who I can't even have an intellectual conversation with a chance ya know?

I think it's a compatibility thing. The girl has to be SMART, first and foremost, very friendly, outgoing (preferably an extrovert), and I have to find her physically attractive.

You'd be surprised how hard it is to find somebody with all of the above qualities who ALSO happens to like me back (that's the catch). I know plenty of girls who match 1 or even 2 of the things I mentioned but if they don't match the others, then it doesn't work out.

My last GF, she was smart, outgoing and physically attractive. HOWEVER, she WAS NOTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT friendly! She was mean! Don't get me started Seriously, this chick was mean. So yeah, even though she had 3/4, it still wasn't enough.

I've tried talking to girls who were smart, friendly, INTROVERTED, and physically attractive but that doesn't work out either because I'm too extroverted and I feel like I'm talking to myself.

So you get what I'm saying? I have these 4 things that must match because I've dated girls with 3/4 qualities and it just doesn't work.