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I'm not condemning everything you're saying- I agree with some of it, in fact. I disagreed with you when you said that the Bible does not call us to love those who mock us. That was all.
It's not for me to say whether you love those you condemn- how could I possibly know whether you do? But I'm not saying that you don't love them. You can love somebody and acknowledge their sin, at the same time.

I don't believe you are being sincere when you say you wouldn't condemn Paul for what he preached.


Well, you've got a right to question my sincerity if you wish. However, I didn't say I wouldn't condemn Paul for what he preached- I said that he could have said what he did, and still love those he was preaching to.

Here is what Paul said again, so you don't have to turn back between that page and this one.

I've read it three or four times now, but I can't see where it says that we should not love. You can, and probably should, distance yourself from evil if there's a chance that you're going to be taken in by it. But Jesus himself did not seperate Himself from the sinners. He spent time with them and ate with them. As the Bible commands me to love, that's what I will do.
Hatred stirs up dissension, but love covers over all wrongs.(Proverbs 10-12)
 
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It's exactly because of this kind of spurious, hypocritical "love" you just described that I left the SBC when I was 15 — and have never looked back.

And you know something — had I been heterosexual, I would still have left the SBC after seeing what their "love" did to some people I knew (including a Jewish mayoral candidate in my city, who was smeared (in a "loving" way, of course!) by the conservative evangelical community).

You know what the interesting thing is, IamRedeemed? According to my SBC/Assembly of God/Church of Christ extended family of origin, I'm no longer going to Hell because I'm gay.

According to them, I'm going to Hell because I'm a LUTHERAN — because we read our prayers out of a book and drink WINE during Communion!
 
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ReformedChapin

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You mind providing a source for this claim?
 
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I see by your profile you have children. I can only imagine the pressure on them to be mini-gods for you, and in the event one would be gay...their mom is the last person they would feel they can come to, when in fact, you should be the FIRST one they come to. It is that child that is so overwhelmed with guilt, depression, confusion, anxiety, etc...that is a victim here..and they don't have a mom to turn to when they would need her the most. Therefore, thankfully through other ministries they would be able to get the help that their families can not give them. I see that WORKING everyday. I wonder what you would even do with one of your children should they tell you they were gay? the thought terrifies me. I'm sure you would say "I'd continue to love them", but yet there is no love in your heart based on your postings, so not sure I would beliee what you say. I'm a firm believer in actions speaking louder than words, and you are hell bent on changing people to your satisfaction.
 
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Useless rhetoric....
 
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