It seems to me that the object of this thread, if it is allowed to continue, is (or, has become lol) for Orthodox to gain understanding of how the Catholic mindset responsibly reconciles what Pope Gregory was condemning and how the RCC views the Papacy. And that's it.
But this entails two things:
1) That we Orthodox don't come here to try to convince, but to learn (that doesn't mean agree).
2) That the OBOBers understand that in order for us to learn, they need to realize that we are not Catholic, therefore, what is painfully obvious to them is not necessarily painfully obvious to all of us... far from it. So, we NEED to keep asking questions in different ways. that is, IF you care about us gaining understanding. I believe you sincerely do, even if you know we may not agree in the end... but at least we would "get it". I also understand that this requires a lot of patience on your parts, and I appreciate that.
However, there have been a few comments by some (maybe one person? I forget.. the comments stuck with me, not the "who") that have implied that we (collectively) are just asking questions to be argumentative.
Now, I'll just say it, because everyone is thinking it: Montalban. In his defense, although he has probably crossed the line a couple times in
tone of his posts (depending on the sensibilities of one), the
questions and content of his posts are nothing absurd from an Orthodox's point of view.
Indeed, almost all of the questions and thoughts he has shared (except when it got personal... but that was between individuals, so I don't really care about that) I had too but just couldn't figure out how to tactfully share them. But for any headway to be made in understanding, they HAD to be shared somehow and they HAVE to be taken seriously.
Now, one can call us insincere, argumentative and so on if they like. And perhaps we (myself implicated because of this very post) have crossed the lines not only
technically, given the absurdly rigid and sometimes draconianly-applied forum rules of "no debating" that we ALL tend to fall back on when threads get challenging on home-turf (TAW, OBOB, TCL to name a few that are quite often guilty of it) but also the lines of
common sense, where it really just isn't appropriate in a "foreign" forum as we are guests here and, so, this thread may legitimately (techincally and ethically) get shut down (also, it may get closed since it no longer is responding to the actual OP... but has that ever stopped us OBOBers and TAWers before? lol If an interesting conversation ensues... we should grab it!).
However, if that happens (which is fine... although a bummer) we must take that as a sympton of not having an adequate place where we can fairly discuss this issue. I stand firmly by the fact that almost all (if not all) of the actual inquiries and points brought up by TAWers here in this thread have been fair, necessary for understanding and
not fully satisfied by OBOBers from a TAWer's point of view. And I don't say the bolded part accusingly but rather to point out that these discussions sometimes require a lot of back and forth and saying the same thing 12 different ways OR asking the same question 6 different ways before the other side finally gets what we mean and we finally get what they mean.
Questions linger that we ask and don't feel are answered. OBOBers feel like they have been fully answered and see us as turning into trolls in their forum and that simply is not what is happening. Neither side is trying to be disingenuous. Certainly that can happen on either side after a thread has taken on a life of 3 or more threads (I would point to the Peter and the Keys threads that keep going on now and then lol.. if we would like to learn the art of banter, secret ridiculing, useless rhetoric, snide remarks and the like from both sides, that's the thread!) but this isn't one of them.
In the end, I just hope that we both can be patient with each other, lay aside the rhetoric that makes us sound superclever but adds no substance getting the discussion nowhere and give each side the benefit of the doubt 70x7... well, we can give it a try at least

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And lets be realistic in our minds about one thing: Not ONE person in here is going to convert to either side because of this thread unelss they were on the verge of being convinced any way, and if that's the case, it will happen either way. I've been here for about 8 years now (I think???) and I have rarely seen anyone be convinced by a thread apart from the hoppers (those who are Catholic one day, Orthodox the next, the Pentecostal, later Muslim, Orthodox again, SPXP, etc... but they're a different issue

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The purpose of these is to gain understanding so that we at least know what we are talking about. If we're going to disagree with each other, we should at least know what we are disagreeing with
Josh