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No excuse,. Reasons
Not everyone thinks the same way, or has the same experiences. Empathy is often expected in places where it cannot logically exist. A tough cookie might not know a timid turtle very well.
I have had many dealings with bad and nasty people over the years and I believe that I have made most of them very sorry for their actions. You see I look like and acct like I am very timid but that is just on the surface.
But they are fools because we can see right through them.The narcissistic sociopath always takes advantage of kindness... Sees it as weakness
But they are fools because we can see right through them.
For what it is worth, I know three people with Traumatic Brain Injury, and two Autistic, (one Asperger's), rather well, and I can testify to the fact that all these, though all different, do not speak or think the way most people do. Some simply do not have the capacity to deal with things 'nicely'.but they have a choice, they don’t have to stay that way. under the conviction of the HS.
For what it is worth, I know three people with Traumatic Brain Injury, and two Autistic, (one Asperger's), rather well, and I can testify to the fact that all these, though all different, do not speak or think the way most people do. Some simply do not have the capacity to deal with things 'nicely'.
Frankly, I find their straightforward manner very refreshing.
In saying this, I condemn myself, but it is worth mentioning that my standards will be used to measure me, not others.
Yes I feel for you as I can completely relate to your situation and I am very glad of your wisdom. I was about to tell you about one of my experiences with one of these tyrants but I decided I better not as it may come across to some people as me playing mister big man but I am proud of myself for defending my rights and dignity in the face of an attack.It's true, I was saying the same thing yesterday about seeing right through them... They are fools, and likely cannot comprehend real wisdom.
...Regardless, though, I won’t stand down to these certain types, because they don't deserve it (though most of the time, I do lose).
Why are some people so unkind? I have been searching for the answer most of my life as I come across this strange phenomenon daily. But I am a big boy and I can take it.
I know of more than one contributor to this site, who has been accused of narcissism, when I know for a fact it was not that at all, and not a matter of moral wrong.Everyone should love autistics and aspires. They're not the narcissists being spoken about. I think what we're talking about here are truly evil people. Completely self-absorbed, and beyond recognition.
Yes, I think there is unkindness in all of us but some have it at a very high level and it can be intentional and damaging to many. I have given money to people on the street and I have also at times when asked for money not given so I guess that is a form of unkindness but it's the tyrants that we are really referring to the calculating mind controlling and relentless psychopathic pigs that act like nice guys to some and wicked to others that I despise and am happy to retaliate against.Because it's in most peoples nature to be unkind.
I don't know what you are talking about and should who abuse me back.I consider some of your posts to respondent's abusive. Should they abuse you back?
You don't have a crystal ball do you by any chance.Or you've been watching hard core pawn once to often
Oh,ok, I get why the question now. I love that show minus the language.You don't have a crystal ball do you by any chance.
It's ok returntosender I understand and forgive you no hard feelings it's all in a day on the keyboard. Like I said in the beginning I'm a tough guy so my feelings were not hurt.Oh,ok, I get why the question now. I love that show minus the language.
Did you ever think that some don't even realize when they are offending or are taken the wrong way. I am in that category and am surprised when I have offended.
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