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Why Abortion is Immoral

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I want to add that IF we take the stance that abortion is immoral, we also need to develop an attitude of compassion for the woman who is pregnant out of wedlock. She needs to be loved and supported and not shamed. That is how we show Christ's love to these very vulnerable women. (Seldom do the fathers of these pregnancy suffer the same shame.)
 
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Because that's rational thinking.
 
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My point about the other thing was that someone who honestly fears the authority of God would not have an abortion, but would rather either love the child or at least put them up for adoption.
That's great, but that isn't what we were talking about.
 
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How does killing a NAHB harm them? Let's think especially in the case of a very sudden killing that is painless to the victim and catches them totally unawares. How are they harmed in that instance?
 
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How does killing a NAHB harm them? Let's think especially in the case of a very sudden killing that is painless to the victim and catches them totally unawares. How are they harmed in that instance?
Disruption of their express sentience, and cause of upset to friends family, and to a lesser extent, economic investment in the person.

However, most people you ask will say that "sudden and painless" is how they want to die, which should tell you something.
 
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You've mentioned how their killing harms others - upsetting to survivors, upsetting economically. But killing is wrong primarily because it harms the person killed. Conceivably you could kill a person and harm no one else in the process - perhaps they have no family to miss them. But it would still be wrong because killing harms the person killed. You've touched on why a little bit. Killing disrupts something - their experiences. Put more plainly, killing them deprives them of future experiences they would have otherwise had. This is the great harm done in killing. This is the most obvious harm done. This is most obviously why we ourselves do not want to be killed. And this is primarily why killing is wrong.
 
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Nope. I can't agree, sorry. You have to have a concept of future experience before you can be meaningfully deprived of if. Foetuses don't. So I just don't see how they're the same.
 
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Capital punishment is immoral because it deprives VHF.
Self defense is immoral because it deprives VHF.


Special pleading is special.
 
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Are you now the arbiter of silliness in for these forums?
You have simply presumed that the Marquis' argument takes precedent over the women's rights over her own body.

While I personally find the concept of abortion abhorrent, I hold no such presumption. I am pro-life, but not anti-choice.

Sure we think it is wrong. Yet some mothers, for their own reasons, are not capable of this.

We cannot dictate how others think.
That is not my position. I can only speak from experience. My wife wanted to become pregnant, even going in for surgery to check her tubes and such to see if there were problems (none found). I simply cannot share this experience.

Likewise, if it were not for modern medical intervention, my wife and first child would have died while in labour. Pain so intense that it burst blood vessels in the skin of her face. Again, this I could only watch.

I am not saying that we (the un-impregnate-able) should not be allowed to challenge the ethics of abortion, I am saying that we should not get to put both hands on the steering wheel.

I would ask you, does your level of concern for the child's health change at birth?
 
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Nope. I can't agree, sorry. You have to have a concept of future experience before you can be meaningfully deprived of if. Foetuses don't. So I just don't see how they're the same.

You do agree that this harm is done to NAHB?

Fetuses, in most cases, have VHF just like adults do - though they may not be aware of this. When a fetus is killed it is deprived of the same thing that a NAHB is deprived of.
 
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Capital punishment is immoral because it deprives VHF.
Self defense is immoral because it deprives VHF.

That's where the qualifier "normal" comes in. A normal adult human being is one who is not liable to capital punishment or one who is not liable to violence due to self defense. There could be reasons to kill an adult human being, but a killing a NAHB is wrong. Most agree. I think you do too.

Special pleading is special.

Don't know what you mean.
 
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Are you now the arbiter of silliness in for these forums?
Not officially.

You have simply presumed that the Marquis' argument takes precedent over the women's rights over her own body.

Well the two arguments do not really directly communicate with each other. They do pose interesting problems for one another, but in an angular way. Both arguments cannot be true. It would create this conundrum:
  1. Abortion is immoral.
  2. A woman is not obliged to carry a child to term. She is permitted to terminate the pregnancy.
They cannot both be true. So if Marquis' argument is successful or unchallenged then Thomson's argument has no leg to stand on.

I would ask you, does your level of concern for the child's health change at birth?

Um. I don't think so. Why?
 
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You do agree that this harm is done to NAHB?

Fetuses, in most cases, have VHF just like adults do - though they may not be aware of this. When a fetus is killed it is deprived of the same thing that a NAHB is deprived of.
No it's not. Because it isn't aware of what it's being deprived of. Crux point.
 
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This just gets worse and worse.


Don't know what you mean.

Obviously not. Special pleading is where you try to except your argument from objections for non logical reasons. For example claiming your argument against killing people only applies to people who do not deserve to be killed.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Special_pleading
 
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No it's not. Because it isn't aware of what it's being deprived of. Crux point.

I don't see how this is relevant at all.

Let's say that you have a distant relative who dies and his directives are to leave you with $20,000,000. This fortune belongs to your family and was acquired by your family over several generations. Your relative decided that it should go to you because you're the most competent person to handle it. Furthermore you greatly need this wealth. You have a child who has a life threatening condition and you need a large some of money to pay for the procedures needed.

Then lets say you know nothing about this relative or this inheritance. Your relative's lawyer notices this and figures out a way to steal this money from you without your, or anyone's knowledge of it. You never knew it existed. You never knew it was rightfully yours. Later on your child dies because you couldn't pay for medical procedures.

Would you say that you were harmed in this situation?
 
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This just gets worse and worse.

Take it up with Marquis. He's the world class philosopher who qualified the term. Read his paper for yourself.


Could you demonstrate why my response to the objection was a case of special pleading?
 
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A little overwrought, isn't it?
But trying to give you a fair response... yes, if someone stole something you didn't know you owned, it wouldn't "harm" you in any meaningful way. In the case you outlined, it would certainly be illegal, and it would be immoral, IMHO, more because the lawyer is in breach of his trust, and because the child dies.
 
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That's great, but that isn't what we were talking about.

If my memory serves me, we were talking about the emotional state of a woman who's faced with the possibility of having an abortion to better(or unintentionally worsen) her own quality of life. I'm just making the point that a woman who fears the authority of God would not consider killing the unborn for fear of God's righteous judgment.

A woman who does not fear God's authority would consider killing an unborn child as a good thing because she perceives it as bettering her own quality of life, however, many woman say that having an abortion causes unforeseen grief and regret. This grief and regret they experience is quite possibly God's judgment against them. Should they ask for forgiveness from God, they will receive it, but this doesn't mean they can continue having abortions.
 
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You've gone of on a weird tangent.

The point being discussed, was emotion vs. logical, rational decision making. Again, every women I have discussed it with who has had a termination, put a great deal of thought into it. And while emotion certainly plays a part, the decision is based on rationality as well.

As to whether any of them were "God fearing" that's a. irrelevant and b. a pretty obvious opening for a game of "No True Scotsman."
 
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