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Why Abortion is Immoral

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I actually agree with your stance but the reality of it that it doesn't need to be debated (yours was just the most recent post). Dead is clearly defined and "brain dead" is a potential definition. In the US, a person or family member no longer has the option to keep a patient on life support. The doctor will discontinue it unless the organs are being preserved for transplant.
 
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so at what age does "it" become a human being with a right to life?
 
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Biologists everywhere are going to be surprised to learn of this revelation.

Here's a quote from an article on the subject that a PhD from Princeton University put out:

"To begin with, scientifically something very radical occurs between the processes of gametogenesis and fertilization the change from a simple part of one human being (i.e., a sperm) and a simple part of another human being (i.e., an oocyte usually referred to as an "ovum" or "egg"), which simply possess "human life", to a new, genetically unique, newly existing, individual, whole living human being (a single-cell embryonic human zygote). That is, upon fertilization, parts of human beings have actually been transformed into something very different from what they were before; they have been changed into a single, whole human being. During the process of fertilization, the sperm and the oocyte cease to exist as such, and a new human being is produced."

Published in the International Journal of Sociology and Social Policy. This isn't exactly news.
 
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Medical abortions aren't done in a medical facility...they are done by the patient at home with no trained professional near them. Most surgical procedures are also considered "safe" when done in a medical facility by trained professionals but that doesn't mean they are without risk or should be done without medical necessity. And did your "complete" internet search include scholarly articles that would be necessary for any "well researched" topic. What were your search limiting criteria? (Really, you want to use this as your defense on why your argument is more valid that my medical hands on experience? I acknowledged that my experience was anecdotal, but it is also real life experience ... and would be valid enough for me to actually start a research study to see if the hospital numbers actually match the commonly accepted data posted by the pro-abortion supporters.)
 
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There are plenty of pro-life pro-choicers, and vice versa.
of course every person who believes in democracy is technically pro choice whether they believe that abortion is murdering a human being or not so if you are defining pro choice as simply a person who supports a persons right to choose without government interference that will include most every person in every democracy . saying that a person who supports abortion is "pro choice" is like calling a person who supports war "pro freedom" its nothing but abortion propaganda to gain support dont be such a tool !
 
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It is up to the woman to choose whether she goes to the abortion clinic or not.

In a grassroots sense, if we convince enough women that abortions are not the best option, then they won't have any need for abortion clinics any longer. Even better, if we encourage preventative sex and healthy sexual relationships, then maybe we won't have as many unwanted pregnancies to begin with.


In answer to your question, yes it is essentially wrong for abortion clinics to exist. But I'm not sure what can be done about it, practically, without creating a whole new set of problems.

Your question raises some more interesting questions though. Is it not the abortion providers who are morally liable? So often the abortion debate is framed as women vs. fetus. But that misses the important element of the process: the doctors who are actually doing the abortions. It is also unfortunate to see some physicians suggesting abortion as a "form of birth control" rather than a "last resort". I think anti-abortion groups really need to focus on changing the minds of doctors and abortion providers. It makes me so mad to see anti-abortion groups yelling at the women going into the clinics. Often the women are in dire straits and at their wits end. I've had two friends get abortions and the emotional damage from it was completely unexpected.
 
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There is no such thing as recovery from being brain dead...it is a permanent state.
its not a permanent state for an unborn baby though so unless the brain dead person your referring to is temporarily brain dead it cannot be compared to an unborn baby . to reason that its ok to kill a fetus because it is temporarily unconscious is like saying its ok to kill a person who is temporarily in a coma or who is temporarily brain dead . its a temporary condition that will be resolved in the near (if the plug isnt pulled)
 
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By what definition of "mind"? They have rudimentary "hardware" but there isn't a lot going on in there until quite late in the piece. "Thought" as we understand it requires neural connections, and neural pathways simply don't exist early on.

I find this line of reasoning to be a slippery slope.

Is it okay to kill severely mentally handicapped human beings? What about babies? Do babies have what we would call "thoughts"? Do newborns have a "mind". They have all the rudimentary hardware...but is it all up and functioning? What about people who had serious strokes? Spinal injuries? People in comas?

That's a messy definition if I've ever seen one. "Consciousness", "thought", and "mind" are about some of the most vague concepts we know of. Basing our morality off it seems like a horrible idea.

I would say that "thought" requires language. And "consciousness" requires the ability to form memories. Newborn infants have neither.
 
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A viable baby is never in a state of being "brain dead"... I never compared it to anything. I was simply refuting the argument that someone could be in a "temporary brain dead" state. The argument is irrelevant...a brain dead person is dead and not a good comparison to anything alive.
 
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Are you saying that newborn babies have no thoughts? I would have to believe that you have never been around a newborn baby. Thought does not wait until a child can speak or has language....they must have some inherent language that at some point becomes replaced by the language of their parents because babies definitely DO think, have preferences, and have personality that is uniquely theirs.
 
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While I mostly agree with you, I wanted to add the following:

It's immoral for society to not hold the mother and the father responsible for their wrong choices to conceive irresponsibly and it's immoral to allow the mother and father to atone for their wrong choices by taking human life.

Abortion is clearly a societal problem and it's because our society's moral compass is broken, especially when it comes to abortion.

How does a society fix it's moral compass? It has to look to an objective source of morality in order to make the correction.
 
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By what definition of "mind"? They have rudimentary "hardware" but there isn't a lot going on in there until quite late in the piece. "Thought" as we understand it requires neural connections, and neural pathways simply don't exist early on.
so you are against abortion after it becomes a person or do you believe that abortion should be a womans "choice" anytime up until she gives birth at 9 months?
 
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so at what age does "it" become a human being with a right to life?
Well, if a woman desires to get married and have children - - already . . . before she even meets the father of her children . . . she loves the children she so desires to have, though she does not know them in detail, yet. So, in her love they are alive even before she gets married . . . before they are conceived. So, for her who loves her children, they never are "it"; they are alive in her love, even before they are conceived in her.

And even before God forms a child in a womb, He already knows the child and loves the child; so - - - for God, the child is never an "it". Now, Jenny, I am not saying you mean this by calling an unborn "it" . . . but I have been told how pedophiles in communicating with each other can refer to a child as "it", never in a personal way of "he" or "she". They talk about them as objects to use.

But in personal loving we see children as children, to love and care for them, not as objects to use or obstacles to keep us from the lives we want to live. But one reason certain people commit abortion is because they fear who their child will later become in their lives; in a way, they can killing that future person so he or she does not make the woman responsible for caring for her child and having responsibilities which keep her from doing things she wants to do. And there are women who feel their child will cause social problems with her family and maybe her boyfriend; so they are killing that future potential person, so he or she is not a problem like they suppose.

But love makes alive and love gives life. We all in sin were love-dead > Ephesians 2:1 > "And you He made alive, who were dead in trespasses and sins," So, God makes us alive to love whoever He loves.

I understand that when the virgin Mary had Jesus conceived in her, He was Jesus in her as soon as He was conceived by the Holy Spirit > never was He an "it". In the Bible, as soon as a woman who wants a child finds that she is pregnant, already she understands that God has given her a child . . . even though the child has not been born.

And ones who love their unborn can feel very broken if they miscarry. They can feel they have lost a child whom already they love very tenderly and dearly. So, love makes us able to consider the unborn our children . . . to personally love our unborn. So, the question could be, are we alive?
 
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That is a very difficult question, and I would prefer not to base my morality upon it.

I do not believe morality depends on it but I have zero doubts that a newborn is capable of thought. It really isn't a difficult question at all. Babies are not born "brain dead".
 
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i dont think that an unborn human being is an "it" but i was asking that question of a person who did think an unborn human was an "it" a thing a non person and asking them at what age then did they think this non person became a human being with rights
 
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Thank you, Jenny, for bearing with me. I did understand you might have meant to be communicating with someone on his or her level. And Paul does say he became "all things to all men". I see he could talk on a person's level, among other things. So, thank you for bearing with me
 
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I do not believe morality depends on it but I have zero doubts that a newborn is capable of thought. It really isn't a difficult question at all. Babies are not born "brain dead".
Well, a thought is a conscious thing, and an unborn can be conscious. But if thoughts have words which one needs to learn . . . this might be a problem for an unborn. And if the child has not been taught anything to think about, I suppose the child might not be able to think.

But humans can think, even while they do not love. But being totally dependent does not mean you are not a human being. But ones want independence so much, that they can feel they are not alive unless they can control and choose.

"But she who lives in pleasure is dead while she lives." (1 Timothy 5:6)
 
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This is a good argument, but I think it unintentionally supports abortions before the fetus stage, at the beginning of which a spinal cord develops, and you can't have pain without a nervous system to register it.
 
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