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As well thought out as are the reasons behind the poll to split it is not true that it was valid. I understand the concerns of the Admin but that poll would not get to the table as a motion under RRO. The decision to have sub-fora would first have to be set aside (or in the new motion) because the first motion represented a vote not to split.Thus, the accusations that some have made that the poll was invalid are unfounded. It was an issue that needed to be addressed before we could continue making rules, and we had Letalis' approval to decide the question in this manner.
As well thought out as are the reasons behind the poll to split it is not true that it was valid. I understand the concerns of the Admin but that poll would not get to the table as a motion under RRO. The decision to have sub-fora would first have to be set aside (or in the new motion) because the first motion represented a vote not to split.
That said, I can't believe this is still a subject of debate.
It was immature. It was the equivalent of trying to gather the loot. I appreciate the zeal to protect him but it does him no good to defend his actions in this way. I felt the same way Ice did though I would probably have used less harsh language.It was premature, but not immature.
Then we should shut down the forum completely during all Sabbath hours. Oh, we can't. This is not our house.It's simply saying that we need to treat the Sabbath as the important time it is even on this forum, and respect that that 24 hours for each mod is different from the rest.
It was immature. It was the equivalent of trying to gather the loot. I appreciate the zeal to protect him but it does him no good to defend his actions in this way. I felt the same way Ice did though I would probably have used less harsh language.
You must be reading a poll that was not posted.The ONLY reason why I felt that the 'split poll' was invalid was because the rules definately said that only those 'who joined BEFORE July 4th , 2007 AND were REGULAR posters could vote.
I was extremely offended by the vote to split, seeing I had worked hard to ensure that all the forums had passed. Then after a victory and literal burning the midnight oil to have someone come along an just say that was a waste and we are not going to do that. That made me really angry. I thought the process deserved more respect then that.It was immature. It was the equivalent of trying to gather the loot. I appreciate the zeal to protect him but it does him no good to defend his actions in this way. I felt the same way Ice did though I would probably have used less harsh language.
that is ok I did not think i would get your vote any way
well there is a suprise.ICE--just to set the record straight--it was ME who defended the report against you with ontheDL. I was the one who made the comment about ppl being so 'thin-skinned'. Just because I usually disagree with your take on things--doesn't mean that I'm going to be unfair to you.
I see that DL did actually provoke you in some of his statements. I think BOTH of you are guilty of egging each other on. Except for your comment about him being a fool, I cannot, in all honesty, see why the first part of your post was reported.
It worries me when things get so nit-picky that ppl cannot say what is on their minds in the way they talk without someone reporting them. We all express ourselves differently and just because my way of saying someting isn't YOUR (not meaning you in particular ICE) way of saying something does not mean I am wrong. Nobody is the cop of the road in here. Except of course the mods.
There are a few ppl in here who's posts I personally cannot tolerate--and so--I have chosen to place them in the closet. I also have learned that some ppl have zero tolerance for anything THEY deem 'inappropriate', and so they 'report' you for everything.
I have asked the Lord to give me patience and understanding of the ppl I encounter in this forum. I am very ashamed of how badly I responded to what I perceived as personal attacks by some in here. I also thought it was my duty to defend the Word of God and reputation of my church. It isn't. God claims revenge belongs to HIM--not me. I tried to usurp that which wasn't mine.
God reminded me of this text..Ps 119:165 Great peace have they which love thy law: and nothing shall offend them.
It's been a very terrible year for me and the bent up anger and pain in me came flooding out. With God's help, I will never lose control again.
well there is a suprise.
If you want an explination I would be happy to explain why I said what I said. If not I am sorry your feeling were hurt.
Somebody pinch me.It worries me when things get so nit-picky that ppl cannot say what is on their minds in the way they talk without someone reporting them. We all express ourselves differently and just because my way of saying someting isn't YOUR (not meaning you in particular ICE) way of saying something does not mean I am wrong. Nobody is the cop of the road in here. Except of course the mods.
There are a few ppl in here who's posts I personally cannot tolerate--and so--I have chosen to place them in the closet. I also have learned that some ppl have zero tolerance for anything THEY deem 'inappropriate', and so they 'report' you for everything.
Sarah, I'm very saddened that you can't be a mod right now, but I do totally understand. And OF COURSE you are welcome to apply to be a mod later.
Actually I'm just as upset with Wooba for pushing that this forum not split so we could get stricter rules in here, and where is he now that it's time to MAKE those stricter rules?
So just to clarify, the Admin was contacted about splitting (NOT by Mankin) and a poll was started to see if we would split. At the time Mankin made HIS poll, the votes in the other poll (started before his) were in FAVOR of splitting, but that changed later.
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