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That is why it must be stopped at the first blow. There was no justification for attacking me but it was done. I have not read the post by Ice that has caught your attention but in his case there is a history of antagonism that has been encouraged "in the name of God."I apologized to you once, but I never personally attacked you.
And see, this is part of the problem....we're only looking at personal flames against OURSELVES and I think every one of us should be offended when we see flames against ANYBODY.
If you sit back and watch one of your friends (or even a family member) resort to personal flaming SAY SOMETHING for pete's sake. Otherwise, you're endorsing it and that's just as bad as DOING it.
NOBODY has the right to make personal flames or call someone crazy. If a person cannot handle themselves in a debate situation, and they have to resort to personal attacks, the "stricter rules against personal flames" should handle that.
Right now people are taking advantage of the lack of mods, but I think they're in a for a rude awakening honestly.
I don't understand the lack of constraint right now, without any mods, but I guess some people want to get it out of their systems before those rules kick in.
lol... perhaps that is part of the problem.... on the forum I moderate I suspect I am there more than 4 hours a week... that's less than an hour a day and lots of stuff can (and usually does) spin out of control when someone isn't minding the store.... not sure what can be done, but with a forum like this, you will either need a lot of moderators, or a few moderators who are willing to donate more time here....Sarah, I think the current expectation of moderators for this site is four hours a week.
Obviously when we implement the new rules, it might require a little more time than that, but after a couple of weeks, I'd say 4 hours would probably be a little excessive (I can't really say though, and if the site requires it then I don't think our mods will get special treatment).
And yes, Progressive mods have had to step into the Traditional section before to post a "mod hat" statement or help us, so there is no boundary. Flaming is flaming, no matter what forum it's in.
I'd say if you see you're definitely not going to be able to devote 4 hours a week to this forum then you should let everyone know in advance, and if it's temporary I don't see any problem at all!
Sarah, check out Roberts Rules of Order.
Sarah, I think the current expectation of moderators for this site is four hours a week.
Obviously when we implement the new rules, it might require a little more time than that, but after a couple of weeks, I'd say 4 hours would probably be a little excessive (I can't really say though, and if the site requires it then I don't think our mods will get special treatment).
And yes, Progressive mods have had to step into the Traditional section before to post a "mod hat" statement or help us, so there is no boundary. Flaming is flaming, no matter what forum it's in.
I'd say if you see you're definitely not going to be able to devote 4 hours a week to this forum then you should let everyone know in advance, and if it's temporary I don't see any problem at all!
I can understand that. Just for the record, I know the 4 hours is a minimum and as long as there's no move in progress I'm sure I could fit in more time than that.lol... perhaps that is part of the problem.... on the forum I moderate I suspect I am there more than 4 hours a week... that's less than an hour a day and lots of stuff can (and usually does) spin out of control when someone isn't minding the store.... not sure what can be done, but with a forum like this, you will either need a lot of moderators, or a few moderators who are willing to donate more time here....
The problem with this forum is that there is the desire to moderate it with rules. But to do that you have to write more rules and the more rules you have the greater the chance that someone will violate a written rule and the more work the mods will have to do. It is much easier to moderate mature individuals.lol... perhaps that is part of the problem.... on the forum I moderate I suspect I am there more than 4 hours a week... that's less than an hour a day and lots of stuff can (and usually does) spin out of control when someone isn't minding the store.... not sure what can be done, but with a forum like this, you will either need a lot of moderators, or a few moderators who are willing to donate more time here....
also true.... I suspect already there are too many rules for the moderators to remember, add to that the possibility that infractions may or may not be handled in the same way.... it is a recipe for chaos...The problem with this forum is that there is the desire to moderate it with rules. But to do that you have to write more rules and the more rules you have the greater the chance that someone will violate a written rule and the more work the mods will have to do. It is much easier to moderate mature individuals.
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