Who is the oldest Virgin on here?

[Johnboy60]

Hi, This day and age if a man is a virgin he is looked down at as a nut or something must be wrong. In the U.S. today the people think Men should go around and have sex with every woman and not stay a virgin. I'm 43 and still a virgin. I've never been married.



Thanks, Robert43

 

[cleaveun2him]

Hello Robert!
I agree staying pure is hard...for either sex. It is not only men who face the pressures and assumtions of this society and world. I say good for you, and may God give you the strength you need to remain pure. By the way, I have you beat...48 years and counting!!*S*

 

[cutekid 4 Jesus]

i think its good,i sometimes worry that the guy i meet to be my partner will have lost his virginity because if i marry say in my late 20s to a guy of the same age i feel that many guys even christian guys have lost their virginity by then,especially since many may not have been committed christians in their youth.

 

[mamaneenie]

Wow, that is great, that you have waited so long. I thought I was waiting a long time (I was 24 the first time, which was with my husband - who was only my fiancee at the time) I waited for the right guy, just not at the right time.

 

[mamaneenie]

i think its good,i sometimes worry that the guy i meet to be my partner will have lost his virginity because if i marry say in my late 20s to a guy of the same age i feel that many guys even christian guys have lost their virginity by then,especially since many may not have been committed christians in their youth.

My husband was 24 and his first time was with me. There are guys around, probably not as many virgins in their 20s as there used to be though.

 

[72_Chev_Truck]

Thats awesome that you have waited that long. I wish I could say the same. But when we come to Christ we are made new again. dont know if that means anything to anyone but it sure means somethin to me!

 

[Injured Soldier]

This is cool. Christians and non-Christians are supposed to be like light is to darkness, and this thread sure proves it! You think you could go to a party where drunk non-Christians are arguing about who is the oldest virgin?

I'm a virgin at 26, but I'm not proud to say that my purity and innocence has not always kept me....at the weakest moments of my life where I felt I would give into my temptations just so I feel loved, I realised that God had already saved me from falling into temptation. God in all his wisdom made me very very ugly. Us really average joes don't get a lot of girls throwing themselves at us.

 

[mamaneenie]

This is cool. Christians and non-Christians are supposed to be like light is to darkness, and this thread sure proves it! You think you could go to a party where drunk non-Christians are arguing about who is the oldest virgin?

I'm a virgin at 26, but I'm not proud to say that my purity and innocence has not always kept me....at the weakest moments of my life where I felt I would give into my temptations just so I feel loved, I realised that God had already saved me from falling into temptation. God in all his wisdom made me very very ugly. Us really average joes don't get a lot of girls throwing themselves at us.

I don't believe anyone is ugly. Everyone has something attractive about them. I think when you fall in love with someone's insides, then the outside becomes attractive. Well that is what I have found anyway.

 

[Sunbeam]

I'm a virgin. Most women my age would say I'm old to be one, but I've never been married!

 

[Donny_B]

I am a virgin, that is if a few "close encounters" doesn't count, and I have certainly had great desire to be with women on a very frequent basis, but have kept it under control for the right one.

 

[oworm]

Hi, This day and age if a man is a virgin he is looked down at as a nut or something must be wrong. In the U.S. today the people think Men should go around and have sex with every woman and not stay a virgin. I'm 43 and still a virgin. I've never been married. Thanks, Robert43

Oh how i wish i could be standing in your shoes!!

 

[KeilCoppes]

It's refreshing to see Christians that are on the page of virginity and purity - there are so many people going by that fly the label of Christian and then try to get you in trouble.

35 here and counting.

 

[Jesusfreekwanabe]

umm im 19 as far as i know im a vergin i was fondleld uhh touched and did not stop her , but no oral or any other kinds no ejauclation or any thing i did not want to but i felt that if i did that i be being a stci in the mud to say stop , she wanted to go farther i did not let ither of them. , am i still a virgin ? i hope i am .my heart is! she has also pecked me touching my lips i pushed her away . except that i have no woman that i have kissed . or dated . be honnest am me still virgin ?

also there is this one gurl that i met she me and her have a lot in commen i not in love w? her ..... kinda wish i could be she be 16 i be 19 her dad rilly likes me her whole famile do . my dad dosent like the idia he thinks i will mess both r lives up so he wont let me takl to her or see her any more casuse he thinks im outa controle for talking to her till 2:30 in the morning - yea looks suious but its not , i only wish we had some thing but we dont . --- i think im just venting but id appreacheate ur replie plz?
hope im not being to open , but i dont know who elts to realy rite to on the subject , dont realy wana tell some who REALY knows me know what i mean

 

[PetraFan007]

Wow....I'm 20 and I feel like I need to get married within the next few years or I'll go nuts from being alone. Heh

But I don't feel like a virgin sometimes because of my lust/porn problems of my past and today they still get to me.

 

[Jesusfreekwanabe]

i hate porn i pity u , the liltle i have seen disqusstes me and i dont wana see any more.
i kinda used to feel like that but i got over it who am i to need a womnan , i would tell my self i got to be indapent befor i can be mature enoff to let some one depend on me , AND i was varry worried that i might end up with a gurl that my not have been form God that in it self worried me .
after a wile i just made my self satispied with JUST firend gurls id get used to handling them and talking bout there problems and being true ( tiny versions on how id treat my wife kinda thing ) and i grew alot . but any way i was 16 ur like 20 dont know if tis the same (19) now still single never had a "gurl firend"

 

[Sybille]

Wow.... that's amazing. Wish I would have been so wise in my life!

God bless you.... you're a good example of self control

~S

 

[Sybille]

Very nice to hear that "jesusfreek"... continue to walk on your good Path!!
I know other guys who hates porno and I know some who loves it.... those who hate it are too disgusted by it, or simply laugh at it (because it seems totally dumb for them.... they said that the women seems so ridiculous and "not human").

God bless you,
Sybille

 

[Jesusfreekwanabe]

to sybille
self controle is my strongest tallen so far - thow i wish it were wisdom - jk

what realy confuses me is that i see gurls so wron down bye porn that they just dont care if it is posted like on awindo or binder they dont even get mad , and when i tyr to stand up for them they look at me funney - gerr this world is a toiliet of sin and cofussed missinformed ppl
hey i need some on to ancer my 1st qustion

 

[mamaneenie]

umm im 19 as far as i know im a vergin i was fondleld uhh touched and did not stop her , but no oral or any other kinds no ejauclation or any thing i did not want to but i felt that if i did that i be being a stci in the mud to say stop , she wanted to go farther i did not let ither of them. , am i still a virgin ? i hope i am .my heart is! she has also pecked me touching my lips i pushed her away . except that i have no woman that i have kissed . or dated . be honnest am me still virgin ?

also there is this one gurl that i met she me and her have a lot in commen i not in love w? her ..... kinda wish i could be she be 16 i be 19 her dad rilly likes me her whole famile do . my dad dosent like the idia he thinks i will mess both r lives up so he wont let me takl to her or see her any more casuse he thinks im outa controle for talking to her till 2:30 in the morning - yea looks suious but its not , i only wish we had some thing but we dont . --- i think im just venting but id appreacheate ur replie plz?
hope im not being to open , but i dont know who elts to realy rite to on the subject , dont realy wana tell some who REALY knows me know what i mean

I admire your self control with those girls. I think yes you are still a virgin.

 

[tinkerbell]

Okay, okay I know I'm only 18 (19 next month), but I am proud to say that I am a vergin, and I've never been kissed (and I even had a boyfriend for 6 months in highschool). I will be a vergin until my wedding night, and as for being kissed - well, we'll see