charligirl said:
I am recently married and find that now my fiance is my husband I feel that if I had any issues I wouldn't know who to talk to about it (apart from God) without feeling like I am betraying him.
Before we were married I could talk to my female married friends or my Mother but now I feel that to talk about our marriage would be a betrayal.
What do others think?
1. submission is doing what we do not like , agree with , or understand ;
both members , need to learn to submit to each other , as each of you submitted to parents , teachers , & friends .... variation on a theme
2. communicate .... talk about everything with husband .... usually after you fool around , he is at his most " receptive " frame of mind , you have just given him the greatest gift ....
3. wives sound out mom's --- did dad ever do "..... " , when you did "..... "?
husbands sound out father's " did mom ever ....." ; when you did "..... "
[ they do not have all that gray hair for nothing ... ]
4. if they say no , disagree , go over their heads ^^^ way over ... talk
to the " godfather ".... although , some times , what he responds with might ask you to grow , change , or be still ; while at other times , hubbie might walk in and anounce " you know , you're right ...... "
5. be flexible enough in all things : finances , home , work , chores , errands , holidays , etc. that you do not get bent out of shape...
work like it depends on you , pray like it depends on God , you'll make it ...