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I reported something I saw as obscene. The response to that report was the over reaction.

And I'm the cry baby. :)

Nope. Report or ignore, your choice. There are what - 8 or 9 mod's listed for this forum. You reported your objection to someone so maybe that's one more. I 'taint up on the rules and what for of this board/forum but I do figure all those mods or at least one, should handle this. Wonder why not? Oh well...

Sitting here a'reading. I do have my popcorn and some soft drinks. :)
 
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What is the same as flipping people the bird? Chances are I do that in real life too. I have no problems telling people to ***, nor do I take any issues with those who tell me to ***. Sometimes I need to hear that, and I appreciate people who call me out in real life.

Nose picking in Church isn't a strawman, it's an example that illustrates that not all non-Churchy behavior is wrong.

Mike, profanity is not a Christian value.

Picking my nose is something I do to myself and while it is considered bad form, is not considered profane.

Flipping somebody off is done to my neighbor, and is considered profane.

Not quite the same, IMO.
 
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Ah, the old "Would you do that if Jesus was in the room" or "would you do that at Church?" strawman. We don't have to always nbehave like we're in Church. I wouldn't pick my nose in Church, but picking one's nose is not a sin. I don't believe that displaying a 1-1/2" by 1-1/2" picture of a drawing of an extended middle finger is either.
That excuse is not going to fly... what responsibility or any do you feel you owe others in a Catholic forum where Catholic values is supposed to be the norm?

Or do you think you are only supposed to have Catholic values in a Church building or before the Blessed Sacrament?

Do you really believe we only have to act acceptable in Church, Mike?

Is that what you are arguing? because that is what this logic implies.

If you want... you can flip off your wife and kids at home all the day long or flip off your buds in a bar all night or even go flip of your employer if that is what does it for you and you deem it acceptable... but to do it in pubic? Why?

And in a Catholic "place"?

I'm just not getting it and I seriously doubt you will be able to explain it to me.

Let me put it this way, Mike, I would hardly expect to walk into a Hell's Angel gathering place and expect them to pray the Rosary...

I don't think anyone expects ppl to live up the ideal of a great Saint in here but Lord, anyone can do better than flippin off via an avatar. Can't they?

But this really isn't about the Avatar, its about the blandat disregard and disrespect for other folks.

This is really just very bizarre.

When Catholics are defending FU sign language, dang Politicians and Atheism... it's bizarre indeed.

It's the devil is what it is... And attacks form the Evil one also will ruin your heath.. thus rampart depression.

The link Shannon gave to Fr. Pinto site, see if you can find on his spiritual discernment.. read up on the evil spirits and what their influence consists of.

I know I have been attacked by the enemy of our souls and have succumb to it. Lord have mercy.
 
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Mike, profanity is not a Christian value.

Picking my nose is something I do to myself and while it is considered bad form, is not considered profane.

Flipping somebody off is done to my neighbor, and is considered profane.

Not quite the same, IMO.
It's not your opinion, objectivly it isn't the same and is a false comparison.
 
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What is the same as flipping people the bird? Chances are I do that in real life too. I have no problems telling people to f off, nor do I take any issues with those who tell me to f off. Sometimes I need to hear that, and I appreciate people who call me out in real life.

Nose picking in Church isn't a strawman, it's an example that illustrates that not all non-Churchy behavior is wrong.
So? It's not right...
 
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Because you are overreacting. There are real things to be upset about.

anyway, Coronation Street time.
I wasn't upset, someone else was... I say it is not the issue but represents a much bigger underlying one.

but I am curious why do you think its okay? This question has been asked and a rational answer would be appreciated.
 
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I hear crickets chirpin.
you're waiting around a web thread for an answer to a question about whether flippin the bird is right or wrong? Lame. I had stuff to do so I left.

You know, I'm not running around this here forum in every political thread arguing with people. I post about fluff stuff and that's it. I never argue with anyone, this dumb ass argument excluded. And I will re iterate, you cannot control other people. You can control yourself. So stop acting like if you say it enough times people are suddenly going to 'start treating one another better' or they're gonna 'act more Catholic'.
 
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Okay... Now can you answer why you feel it's okay?
Why are you asking me this? Did I say it was okay? Nope. Did I change the avatar? Yep.

Yet you are still talking? Do you ever stop to listen to yourself? At what point do you tune yourself out? From the looks of it, you have a long time ago.
 
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Because as long as there are ****** in the world there will be people that point them out and say, "that guy is a total ******."

Do they let you talk like that in TAW?

Any particular reason why you think profanity is acceptable in a Catholic forum?

I'm going to go ahead and report you.
 
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Michelle, does this displaced anger make you feel better?

What have I said exactly that offends you?

There is no no talking to you at all. You just throw up this defense mechanism when ever anyone makes you feel.

You see all these ppl that fuel you on offering you human praise, they're not doing you any favors.
 
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You know what guys?
I'm just sending my prayers for all of you.

No, I'm not being condescending or anything. Alot of people prayed for me recently and I appreciated it very much so I'm going to pray for all those that are irritated (mildly and/or profusely) on this thread and on this board.

:D

Love you guys!
 
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