Hi Bananas.
First let me welcome you to CF.
Secondly I have something I want you to think about.
Your comment is great! I look at family and friends and in some respects they are a part of me and in other respects they are totally alien. I have to tell you that almost everybody goes through this at some time, and other people go through it several time through out their life.
Contrary to what some of the others may say, and Im not disagreeing with them at all, I want to know what you think. What do you think makes somebody who they are? Is it their beliefs, their family history? Something else?
To me who I am is defined by what I do for others. A very, very small part of that is here at CF. I find enjoyment in helping others with problems they have. Like when somebody locks their keys in their car. Or when somebody just needs to spout off when theyre mad about something. Sometimes its just saying I love you to somebody thats down.
Part of who I am is all the things I asked you about and more. Why am I here? To serve God by helping others.
Is being a Christian the easy way out? No, not at all. Its much harder to be a Christian than it is not to be. Why? Its hard to stick with God than anything else. Its hard to obey His commands many times can be the most difficult at times. But see, its more about the RELATIONSHIP than it is a religious belief. Theres a huge difference.
I cant say thats the way it works for everyone, but thats how it works for me. For you it could be something different.
Does God have all the answers? Yes, but sometimes He doesnt give them to us when we ask. Remember that Gods timing is not ours, but its ALWAYS perfect!!
NS