The issue is that one group then has special rights. That group has opportunities and privileges not available to others.
Your argument sounds like rationalization to justify giving that group special rights, opportunities and privileges.
It's not special rights...if there were a subset of white people that were dealing with special challenges that others don't have to face, then I doubt anyone would have issues with it.
It seems to really be a "sour grapes" mentality by those who were once in a position of superiority, who feel threatened by encroaching equality.
Anytime someone suggests these "straight pride", "white pride", "men's rights", etc... groups, it's never been anything other than just some tacky, disingenuous attempt to show disdain for a group that they take particular issue with. Then, naturally, when people raise some eyebrows at it, they perk up like prairie dogs to say "oh!, you see! double standard! liberals are hypocrites, you see!"
The reality is, when you're already part of a group that's in the superior position (when I say superior, I'm not saying that anyone is better than anyone else, simply referring to societal conditions here), the need for such things doesn't really exist. And pretending it does for the sake of either spiting another group, or trying to setup a trap to accuse them of hypocrisy just sounds tacky.
For instance, if there were a support group for men who survived (or are currently fighting) testicular cancer...and I had gone on record as being at political odds on several other unrelated issues with many members of that group. How would it look if I started my own club right across the hall for "Men who are proud to not have testicular cancer!" And when people approached me to say "
c'mon dude, just because you have a beef on some political issues with those guys, this isn't cool, you probably shouldn't do that", I tried to be intentionally naive about why they were kind of ticked about it and said "
Gee, so you don't want us to be equal then??? you guys are the bad ones!"
That's basically the equivalent of what's happening with many of these calls for straight/white/men's rights.
I'm a straight white male...what exactly do I need a support group for? To talk about how I don't get followed by security at the mall? To discuss the challenges of not having people mock my sexual orientation? To talk about how hard it is to be given preferential treatment with respect to promotions at work?
I have an idea though...I think they should be able to have these groups...but I think they should have be sincere about their real purpose when it comes time to name the group. They should be called The "We're mad because society no longer reflects our preferences and biases like it used to" club. ... because that's all those kinds of clubs are really about. Complaining about the fact that they're not longer being given the same elevated position in society that they once had.
If there were a sincere need for such things, then the timing is a bit coincidental, don't you think? They always seem to pop up right after a group (that was once placed in inferior societal status) started getting equality measures passed in their favor.