I see what you mean about the ABC. It's more of a group of independent "baptist" denominations getting together and forming a group--strength in number and all that. I can deal with that. What I'm uncomfortable with(and this is strictly my own opinion) is churches that belong to a denominationl group that dictates what they can and cannot teach in the individual churches. I'm being very vague here, but I guess a case in point is if a denominational bigwig decides to change a policy and say that, say... gays can become priests or something like that...who did that recently? It caused a huge rift in the denomination, with split offs and such....
Obviously, there are beliefs which causes one to claim Baptist, or Quaker, or Catholic, etc etc... but "baptists" covers such a large group of people-- southern, free will, open bible, etc etc---that to claim to be a baptist is hardly informative anymore....
I'm rambling, and don't know if I'm making ANY sense at all, so I'm going to stop while I'm ahead....lol
God Bless