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NKJV Matt 24:9-10There is so much going on in the world today, that we as a body have seem to have forgotten the greatest commandment. The Lord said to love one another, more and more i see people arguing or fighting in the name of the Lord then correcting in love. I have to bring this up because it weighs on my heart. Everyone tells me you cannot expect everyone to be kind and the way you want them to be. I understand people are going to be the way they are, but if you love God and know him why or how can a person not want to help another, or help another or whatever the case may be. What input does everyone have on this subject. There is more I see it in church, in the preachers, ect.. People will push others away with judgement, or so called discernment. .
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I too see the same things and it hurts me to see it so often in church. With much difficulty, I had to refocus my thoughts while at church because all I kept thinking about were the new members that should be able to come here and feel the love. For a while, I was leaving church feeling worse than when I got there! Now I just pray more and try to be an example....Verry difficult sometimes!There is so much going on in the world today, that we as a body have seem to have forgotten the greatest commandment. The Lord said to love one another, more and more i see people arguing or fighting in the name of the Lord then correcting in love. I have to bring this up because it weighs on my heart. Everyone tells me you cannot expect everyone to be kind and the way you want them to be. I understand people are going to be the way they are, but if you love God and know him why or how can a person not want to help another, or help another or whatever the case may be. What input does everyone have on this subject. There is more I see it in church, in the preachers, ect.. People will push others away with judgement, or so called discernment. .
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2 Timothy 2:19 Nevertheless the foundation of God standeth sure, having this seal, The Lord knoweth them that are his. And, Let every one that nameth the name of Christ depart from iniquity.
1 John 4:16 And we have known and believed the love that God hath to us. God is love; and he that dwelleth in love dwelleth in God, and God in him.
Debating issues is far different from debating, or arguing with, people. And debate can happen in a loving way, as long as the people involved do not hold grudges or seek revenge.John 13:35 By this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another.
In light of what our Savior said it is evident, at least to me, that the reason you see so much fighting between people calling themselves Christians is because they are not; they are simply religious and wave the banner of their religion.
Debating issues is far different from debating, or arguing with, people. And debate can happen in a loving way, as long as the people involved do not hold grudges or seek revenge.
Where is this? I don't think I've ever seen the command 'discuss things in a loving manner' in the Bible. Love one another, perhaps.nstrangely Jesus actually commands those who would follow him to discuss things in loving manner ... as equals with open minds to seek God's truth ,not their asserting their own beliefs which lead them to sin repeatedly ...
For a seeker, you sound like a dedicated Christian.Religion of men has become a maze of creeds , fixed beliefs which do not even fit every written word of God ... God's truth is not divided , so religion is of Satan ...
Both are wrong because they can't love? That's flawed logic. That's not a good reason to say both are wrong.men mostly still think it is of God , no wonder there are wars about who is right when both sides are wrong because they do not love each other...
Well, close mindedness tends to happen quite a bit- as can flawed logic, fallacies, and attacking the person. Debate can be done in a good way- but certain claims can and should be responded to, especially for the uneducated or unknowing who are unable to tell what is an unbacked claim and what is not.the problem thenn is simply closing one's mind in belief before one knows all truth from God... fixed beliefs in what sinners teach , hindreds of thousands of varieties to suit all tastes and all disprovable from scripture...
Where is this? I don't think I've ever seen the command 'discuss things in a loving manner' in the Bible. Love one another, perhaps.
That shows how little you know about Seekers and about 'christians' :-For a seeker, you sound like a dedicated Christian.
Both are wrong because they can't love? That's flawed logic. That's not a good reason to say both are wrong.
Well, close mindedness tends to happen quite a bit- as can flawed logic, fallacies, and attacking the person. Debate can be done in a good way- but certain claims can and should be responded to, especially for the uneducated or unknowing who are unable to tell what is an unbacked claim and what is not.
jawsmetroid said:Debating issues is far different from debating, or arguing with, people. And debate can happen in a loving way, as long as the people involved do not hold grudges or seek revenge.
Well, it'd be nice if you explain that the first time rather than simply making a claim, eh? That way we don't have to deal with the whole 'where's your evidence' junk.Simply note that the saints are commanded to be loving in all that they do, no sin any longer, and required to give account of their faith to sinners... thus commanded to discussin loving manner ... the commandment to love is a global command, it applies to everything one does ... no exceptions in the real teachings of Jesus as distinct from those in the churches run by sinners for sinners, as distinct from the church of saints [which is no longer any recognisable 'church' in sinners view nof what a 'church' should be, but scattered worldwide as individauls since there can only be some two thousand saints alive at any one time [144,000 only for the whole timespan between Jesus' visits]
Well, usually when I think of seeker, I think of someone who's looking into Christianity, not someone who adheres to it.That shows how little you know about Seekers and about 'christians' :-
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Seekers
2 Timothy 2:19 Nevertheless the foundation of God standeth sure, having this seal, The Lord knoweth them that are his. And, Let every one that nameth the name of Christ depart from iniquity.
You cannot make generalizations about that. Find out who the person is before you make that kind of judgment, eh?Do we find 'christians' departing from iniquity or continuing in sin to death imaginig that Jesus will take them when he has said explicitly that he will not ? :-
Or Revelation 3:15Matthew 7:23 And then will I profess unto them, I never knew you: depart from me, ye that work iniquity.
Just because one is morally wrong does not mean they are wrong in the debate, it is important to make that distinction. If you are saying that if they don't love both sides are both morally wrong and wrong in the debate, it is flawed logic. If not, clarify.There's nothing wrong with the logic, I simply didn't spell it out for you and you thus misunderstood it... Jesus commands love, so both sides are wrong according to Jesus , because they don't love...
Great, I tend to use the NASB though.1 Corinthians 13:1[YLT] ¶ If with the tongues of men and of messengers I speak, and have not love, I have become brass sounding, or a cymbal tinkling;
Logic has led me to be the kind of Christian I am. Logic has led to me interpreting the Bible literally. Logic has led to me following God. Logic does have its limits, but it is not completely useless.logic itself ,as used by men extensively, is an 'unbackable claim' ,as proven by Godel's incompleteness theorem [1931] ... logic is an unjustifiable bad habit in the way men use it , we just have few ways of communicating that we think are better than in this unjustifiable way ... men have faith in the completeness of language which doesn't even exist according to fairly simple analysis of its structure... our very system has flaws at its foundation which even now exposed to gaze , are simply ignored because we cannot stop our bad habits long enough to address the problem and start not abusing language ... not using it in the ways we now know which are unsound [instead they are taught in schools still, the world over]
You can prove things legally, beyond a reasonable doubt. This is why the Bible still holds under scrutiny, because it is proven beyond a reasonable doubt.The point then is that almost all we can say is unbacked, it is what is called 'reletive' ... it is conditional upon long-held faiths ... but being held a long time does not guarantee the truth, what it does do though is prevent reveersion to the truth even when the truth is exposed... as God will do eventually {Joel 2:28] to us all... so men will continue to sin even when , after this life and resurrection , they are told all truth from 'God's own mouth' , by His spirit ...
The Holy Spirit reveals truth, which is why we need workers in the field for the Holy Spirit to use. That's not to say He can't work without us, but Jesus does ask that we pray for workers.men's minds are that closed by tradition from the truth... the way we live, we pretend is 'progress' toward some mythical goal or 'good' when we could open our eyes at any time and see how it is going wrong, not right at all... yet men will go through terrible suffering that proves theywere wrong, and still cling to tradition, be told all truth by God himself and still not believe it until teir ways lead them to utter misery and despair of the most extreme form , beyond any of the misey this world has known to date ... that is all that will break the power of faith in tradition, the closed minds of men , closed before they knew the truth... this then the importance of humility before God, that it saves one somewhat unimaginable anguish and distress by being able to see that God might actually be right and sinners wrong ... even those dressed up in fine clothes and living in cathedrals and houses of government, even those dedicated to science in ivory towers, ... just men stuck in tradition trying to force it to work until suddenly it falls apart because it doesn't... but the truth was there all along in every one, we just denied it, ceased to lsiten because the 'authorities' of tradition in the world TOLD us the way to be, and we just weren't good enough , did not know enough, did not doubt enough, not to get causght in the BIG TRAP ...
Aye, and Jesus predicted it.So here we are with our world dying around us and most men even managing to deny that , still spouting propaganda about infinite growth on a finite planet, still abusing language we know cannot rightly be used in ways we use it, still believing the false traditions of religion as though they were from God, ...
Aye- we follow Christ first and foremost. I'll still hold that debate has its uses.Colossians 2:8 Beware lest any man spoil you through philosophy and vain deceit, after the tradition of men, after the rudiments of the world, and not after Christ.
The best way to 'win' a debate is to address every point the opposite side makes- whether or not you have evidence. At least that's what I was taught. Of course, the way you do that should be respectful in the very least.I agree but I see too many people posting things without a shred of evidence of its truthfulness as a weapon to discredit others beliefs. That isnt love in my bible it is bearing false witness.
Well, it'd be nice if you explain that the first time rather than simply making a claim, eh? That way we don't have to deal with the whole 'where's your evidence' junk.
Well, usually when I think of seeker, I think of someone who's looking into Christianity, not someone who adheres to it.
You cannot make generalizations about that. Find out who the person is before you make that kind of judgment, eh?
Just because one is morally wrong does not mean they are wrong in the debate, it is important to make that distinction. If you are saying that if they don't love both sides are both morally wrong and wrong in the debate, it is flawed logic. If not, clarify.
Great, I tend to use the NASB though.![]()
You can prove things legally, beyond a reasonable doubt. This is why the Bible still holds under scrutiny, because it is proven beyond a reasonable doubt.
Aye- we follow Christ first and foremost. I'll still hold that debate has its uses.
The best way to 'win' a debate is to address every point the opposite side makes- whether or not you have evidence. At least that's what I was taught. Of course, the way you do that should be respectful in the very least.
I did not say you had to quote all of Scripture, I said that it would help if you explained and made your claim clear.One cannot quote the whole scripture, which is the true context of every verse ... thus one relies on people having read it and recognising what is being talked about... when it doesn't happen we can go back to referring to verses and if necessary even further to the context and the whole rest of scripture... one cannot do it all-in-one as you claim one can... it has to be sequential, interactive , one comes to learn what the other has not seen yet, but not all at once...
Interesting...That would be one usage of the word 'seeker' , but it is not the meaning of 'Seeeker' as an icon on this site , as distict from denoiminational icons of belief.
They did not generalize by saying that all who claim to be Christians are not repentant, as you have.I cannot, but the scripture of the saints and prophets can and does ...
I could care less why they fight. I could care less if they use ad hominem. That does not mean that all of their arguments are wrong.If you look at this site you will fnd many peopel taking up stances on cherished beliefs that are easily reproved by several scriptures, yet there almost always are two sides fighting , often with bared claws, to prove they are right and the other wrong... lookin from outside their logic is sometimes unflawed insofar as it can be, but the scripture nevertheless proves they are both wrong .... equally they are wrong morally, because Jesus commanded love, not warfare for one's false faith ... it must eb so for now, but it does not make it right, nor can it be made right yet .. Rev 13:3-8
Or look at the culture and the original language...All translations have their flaws because they were translated by sinners, who by definition were not baptised of the spirit to know all truth [John 16:13] ... thus one cannot expect unbiased translation... one has to make allowances for that ..
Didn't I say that? I'm confused...Logic has led me to be the kind of Christian I am. Logic has led to me interpreting the Bible literally. Logic has led to me following God. Logic does have its limits, but it is not completely useless.
Reasonable doubt is not subjective. Reasonable doubt relies on objective arguments against the opposing side.I know of many people who think it is not so ... so 'reasionable doubt' is a subjective measure ... most people seem to believe whatever theythink they want to believe ... many peole say that they believe the bible, but they never ub=nderstood it BEFORE saying that, so how can they believe what they never even understood... it is just something many people say then, to fit in perhaps?
Not reasonable, there is a difference.there are many books full of highly reasoned doubts about the diverse copies of scripture we have today...
Where are these mistakes? Certainly not in the original language. I've yet to see anyone give evidence- real evidence mind you- that the Bible has mistakes. Just because we do not have the originals does not mean we do not know what they say. We have enough complete copies and fragments of copies to know what the original says.we have no original and the additions and mistakes are numbereed in thousands ...
There is plenty to provide legal proof to Jesus' existence:that even before one notces that there is almost no proof left that Jesus ever even existed ,outside scripture...
The age-old contradiction claim... http://foru.ms/t6255221-contradictions-in-the-bible.htmlmany doubt that the few documents that we have in scripture are reasionable proof since they disagree in so many ways , so many details ...who is to say that their doubts are not reasonable?
I think that was another one by me...The Holy Spirit reveals truth, which is why we need workers in the field for the Holy Spirit to use. That's not to say He can't work without us, but Jesus does ask that we pray for workers.
Then I cannot do God's works, and neither can anyone else, and therefore are unable to get to heaven.The holy sprit of God moves men to do His works , but none can do them as sinners :-
Your point? We cannot be perfect?2 Timothy 2:19 Nevertheless the foundation of God standeth sure, having this seal, The Lord knoweth them that are his. And, Let every one that nameth the name of Christ depart from iniquity.
Backing?Furthemore God requires only a few to do the work of finding the remannat of the lost House of Israel in this world , it is simply a task for the few saints in order for them to perfect their love... sinners cannot help, but can and do get in the way, that is the point in trial of the saints by fire that perfects their love... thus sinners do not even know what they are doing as false apostles, God required them not to know for now :-
Context? It's not talking about all Christians....2 Thessalonians 2:11 And for this cause God shall send them strong delusion, that they should believe a lie:
2 Corinthians 11:13 For such are false apostles, deceitful workers, transforming themselves into the apostles of Christ.
14 And no marvel; for Satan himself is transformed into an angel of light.
Heb 8:6 But now He has obtained a more excellent ministry, by as much as He is also the mediator of a better covenant, which has been enacted on better promises.Following Christ is something for the saints only in this life, one cannot make oneself a saint , God has chosen the few who will find thgat narrow strait way, He requires but a few for His perfected priesthood in the kingdom.. we cannot all be kings else there would be no-one to rule ad to minister to... few sinners become saints and all those who do are listed in scripture, few are thus saved from sin by grace, as the new covenant indicates, only those whose fatyhers broke the old covenant with israel [Heb 8:8-9] ... thus if one is not either a Jew or of the lost House of Israel [pagnised, living as gentiles now for some three millenia] then one is not going to be saved at Jesus'return, but much later [Rev 7:9-10]
Just because one does not debate for the right reasons does not mean their arguments are invalid.Like I pointed out above mostly both sides 'lose' in debates, because they are not even trying to see the other's points and put the whole together to find the truth, just trying vainly to show they are right without all truth from God first ...
And?Thus 'respect' from saints for all emn comes from humility before God , from love ... not from any sense that this is the least required by proper debate ...
Fun.For myself I love arguing with God because he ALWAYS wins and I learn from 'losing' the debate... it would be easier simply to never get involved in sin and so end up not acknowledging all that is right, all god's truth, but that is not the way of anyone but Jesus, even the saints were sinners at first...
Mat 22:36 Teacher, which is the great commandment in the Law?
Mat 22:37 And Jesus said to him, "You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind." Deut. 6:5
Mat 22:38 This is the first and great commandment.
Mat 22:39 And the second is like it: "You shall love your neighbor as yourself." Lev. 19:18
Mat 22:40 On these two commandments all the Law and the Prophets hang.
Mat 5:43 You have heard that it was said, "You shall love your neighbor" and hate your enemy; Lev. 19:18
Mat 5:44 but I say to you, Love your enemies; bless those cursing you, do well to those hating you; and pray for those abusing and persecuting you,
Mat 5:45 so that you may become sons of your Father in Heaven. Because He causes the sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the just and unjust.
Mat 5:46 For if you love those loving you, what reward do you have? Do not even the tax-collectors do the same?
Mat 5:47 And if you only greet your brothers, what exceptional thing do you do? Do not the tax-collectors do so?
Mat 5:48 Therefore, you be perfect even as your Father in Heaven is perfect.
Act 10:38 Jesus the One from Nazareth, how God anointed Him with the Holy Spirit and with power, who went about doing good, and healing all those having been oppressed by the devil, because God was with Him.
I have claimed nothing that the saints did not state, but you have misquoted me ... the problem has nothing to do with me, it is simply that most christians these days,a nd their 'priests' are sinners, whereas all the original christians became saints during life through spirit baptism to know all truth of god [John 16:13] to be able to stop sinning by defeating satan's wiles with the truth given them by God...They did not generalize by saying that all who claim to be Christians are not repentant, as you have.
I've yet to see anyone give evidence- real evidence mind you- that the Bible has mistakes. Just because we do not have the originals does not mean we do not know what they say. We have enough complete copies and fragments of copies to know what the original says.
There is plenty to provide legal proof to Jesus' existence:
[FONT="]Josephus, in two different places (97 AD):
"Festus was now dead, and Albinus was but upon the road; so he assembled the Sanhedrim of judges and brought before them the brother of Jesus, who was called Christ, whos name was James"
“Now there was about this time Jesus, a wise man, if it be lawful to call him a man, for he was a doer of wonderful works, a teacher of such men as receive the truth with pleasure. He drew over to him both many of the Jews and many of the Gentiles. He was [the] Christ; and when Pilate, at the suggestion of the principal men amongst us, had condemned him to the cross, those that loved him at the first did not forsake him, for he appeared to them alive again the third day, as the divine prophets had foretold these and ten thousand other wonderful things concerning him; and the tribe of Christians, so named from him, are not extinct at this day”.
Tacitus (AD 120):
“Consequently, to get rid of the report, Nero fastened the guilt and inflicted the most exquisite tortures on a class hated for their abomination, called Christians by the populace. Christus, from who the name had its origin, suffered the extreme penalty during the reign of Tiberius at the hands of one of our procurators, Pontius Pilate, and a most mischievous superstition, thus checked for the moment, again broke out not only in Judea, the first source of the evil, but even in Rome, where all things hideous and harmful from every part of the world find their center and become popular. Accordingly, an arrest was first made of all who pleaded guilty; then upon their information, an immense multitude was convicted, not so much of the crime of firing the city, as of hatred against mankind. Mockery of every sort was added to their deaths. Covered with the skins of beasts, they were torn by dogs and perished, or were nailed to crosses, or were doomed to the flames and burnt, to serve as a nightly illumination, when daylight had expired.”
Lucian (early 100's AD):
“The Christians, you know, worship a man to this day—the distinguished personage who introduced their novel rites, and was crucified on that account…You see, these misguided creatures start with the general conviction that they are immortal for all time, which explains the contempt of death and voluntary self-devotion which are so common among them; and then it was impressed on them by their original lawgiver that they are all brothers, from the moment they are converted, and deny the gods of Greece, and worship the crucified sage, and live after his laws.”[/FONT]
The age-old contradiction claim... http://foru.ms/t6255221-contradictio...the-bible.html
Post them there if you think you have any. .
Then I cannot do God's works, and neither can anyone else, and therefore are unable to get to heaven.