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CF has always been a site that welcomes people from different backgrounds and beliefs to participate in discussion and even debate. That is the nature of its ministry. In view of recent events emotions are running very high. We need to remind people of some basic principles in debating on this site. We need to be civil when we express differences in opinion. No personal attacks. Avoid you, your statements. Don't characterize an entire political party with comparisons to Fascism or Communism or other extreme movements that committed atrocities. CF is not the place for broad brush or blanket statements about groups and political parties. Put the broad brushes and blankets away when you come to CF, better yet, put them in the incinerator. Debate had no place for them. We need to remember that people that commit acts of violence represent themselves or a small extreme faction.
be truly repentant and then it's up to the other person. Depending on the situation they may have no obligation to trust again.
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Oh wow...
I lived through this very thing this year. I lost my trust on July, after something that happened supposedly because God spoke through some prophet. Twenty days later, we got back together but after that, I never again could call her "my love". We lasted a couple of months more but finaly on September 18, I told her I could not continue with her, even though we both love each other to this day.
If you are the one who has lost the trust, I can suggest that you try to see it from the other person's point of view. Be the Devil's advocate, as it were. Trust is a thing that takes a long time in building but takes a very short time in breaking. If you still can't come to terms with the situation, go your separate ways. Maybe you'll be able to grow back your trust. Maybe you won't. It's an unfortunate circumstance either way.
I lived through this very thing this year. I lost my trust on July, after something that happened supposedly because God spoke through some prophet. Twenty days later, we got back together but after that, I never again could call her "my love". We lasted a couple of months more but finaly on September 18, I told her I could not continue with her, even though we both love each other to this day.
If you are the one who has lost the trust, I can suggest that you try to see it from the other person's point of view. Be the Devil's advocate, as it were. Trust is a thing that takes a long time in building but takes a very short time in breaking. If you still can't come to terms with the situation, go your separate ways. Maybe you'll be able to grow back your trust. Maybe you won't. It's an unfortunate circumstance either way.
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