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When to get married? I have only dated a few girls

JohnB445

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I have dated one girl my freshman year of high school and we were not compatible, we had different interests, and we were only interested in each other's looks. She was a flyer in cheerleading and I was a sprinter on the track team.

The other one I dated my sophomore year didn't last too long, because she got interested in another guy and it was kinda my fault because I wasn't being close enough to her and pushed her on the side kind of.

I realized I was not good at keeping relationships and turned down any potential girlfriend because I didn't know if I should.

Now I am 21, I am just, in the beginning, to figure out my life. When should I start looking for a wife? And what should I do for now?

I've been told it's a bad idea to date non-Christians.