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When is lying not sinful?

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And 1 John 2:4 says,
"He that saith, I know him, and keepeth not his commandments, is a liar, and the truth is not in him."


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And this is his commandment, That we should believe on the name of his Son Jesus Christ, and love one another, as he gave us commandment.

And he that keepeth his commandments dwelleth in him, and he in him. And hereby we know that he abideth in us, by the Spirit which he hath given us.
 
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Right..

And this is his commandment, That we should believe on the name of his Son Jesus Christ, and love one another, as he gave us commandment.

But wait. I thought you were not under any law salvation wise.
Oh, and yes. I believe these things. But if you believe these things then you would uphold God's moral law as a part of loving your neighbor (See Romans 13:8-10). The ends do not justify the means.

You said:
And he that keepeth his commandments dwelleth in him, and he in him. And hereby we know that he abideth in us, by the Spirit which he hath given us.

But you are implying that Jesus and even we can break God's laws and yet not be condemned.


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If you lie to save a life, it is not sin. It is Loving your neighbor.

If you murder to save a life, it is not sin, but it is loving?
If you rape to save a life, it is not sin, but it is loving?
If you beat a child to save a life, it is not sin, but it is loving?
If you get drunk and then drive to save a life, it is not sin, but it is loving?

The list of evil you can do to justify the righteous goal or ends has many possibilities.
Some of the best written villians in movies are those who think the ends justifies the means.


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I apologize to the readers, this is not a debate forum. We are beginning to debate.

May the Lord God's love shine upon you.


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When is lying not sinful?

I would say now that it is always sinful!

Tactics of deception during war time were not the same as lying with one's own words.



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Always...except...
 
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A couple things . God did not curse Canaan , Noah did .. Hams brothers backed in to cover their father, you want me to assume it was their mother ? God created mankind on the 6th day to subdue the Earth . Adam was placed in a garden with the presence and law of God ''thou shalt not''
 
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And in Exodus, it does not specifically say the Hebrew mid wives lied to protect the lives of any babies, either.

What it says is that the midwives said that the Hebrew women, effectively, had their babies before they could get to them ... which was an untruth.

Whether their good intention ... keeps the untruth from being a lie is the question, I think ...
 
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Liars are those who practice lying ... not those who find occasion to tell a needful lie.

No.

How many times do you need to murder before you are called a murderer?

It only takes one time.


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I do believe I said Noah was the one who cursed Canaan. But if he did so it was more than likely in favor with God because we see the Canaanite nation wiped out later.

Anyways,

I provided more of an explanation on this here:

So What Really Happened in Noah's Tent After the Flood?


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Broaden the question to moral dilemmas, whenever the purposes of multiple commands of God are at cross purposes.
There are six general approaches to moral dilemmas. Three are clearly unbiblical:
Antinomianism: there is no right or wrong. Wrong!
Generalism or Utilitarianism: concepts of right and wrong are vague, and laws exist simply to serve practical purposes, so the end justifies the means. The preferred system of morality, then, is one that focuses only on results and consequences, not on right and wrong per se. Wrong.
Situationalism: what’s right isn’t always right; what’s wrong isn’t always wrong. We might agree in part, but it leads to the conclusion that society or the individual is the final judge. The concepts of morality are both vague and ever-changing. It’s a post-modern denial of anything true or permanent (even though this approach to morality has been evoked since the earliest of times). Wrong.

The three systems that might be biblical:
Absolutism: What God commands is always the absolute and only law. It is never right to do something God says not to do. Absolutism doesn’t do shades of grey, so it simply ignores moral conflicts in which it may seem that obeying one law would cause you to break a different law.
Conflicted Absolutism: The same system, but it handles moral conflict by saying that when there is no right choice, you are still sinning by making any choice that disobeys God. So choose the lesser of two evils and ask God to forgive you. It implies that there are times when we must sin.
Graded Absolutism: Instead of choosing the lesser of two evils, you choose the higher of two laws, and if you are giving the greatest obedience to the greatest law that you can, then it is no sin to temporarily set aside a lower law. This would then justify the lie of Rahab, for instance, because she was acting both in love for the spies and in faithful service to the one true God when she set aside her responsibility to the truth in favor of her greater responsibility to save lives. It would not justify Abraham lying just to avoid potential conflict with Egyptians attracted to Sarah.
There may be differences of opinion either about the best choice in specific moral conflicts or how exactly to grade God’s laws, but that’s where conscience comes in. Our personal responsibility to make the best choice where choices are not clear is why we are urged to follow our conscience. Don’t choose the lesser of two evils and be satisfied with sinning just a little bit. Choose the greater of two responsibilities and fulfill it to the glory of God and in love and service to others to the best of your ability.
Graded absolutism would conclude that lies and deception are justified in cases of moral conflict. It might also suggest that deception is okay when it’s not precisely a moral conflict, but whenever a lie serves a higher, loving and righteous purpose with no sinful intent (jokes, social niceties, teaching or testing someone, withholding truth) when the righteous intent outweighs the untruthful content. But if you’re not careful that could lead you down the road toward utilitarianism or situationalism.
 
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I agree that graded absolutism is a valid position, but it can only validate the three offenses that I named earlier, namely:
  • Assault/homicide/suicide (defending others/self-sacrifice),
  • Theft/sabotage (defunding a bona fide enemy), and
  • Lying/deception (misdirecting a bona fide enemy)
I can think of no scenario that could ever validate sexual sin or blasphemy, for example.
 
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So God was in error when He said that the Law is holy?

Can't be both, depending on your situation.
The Bible validates the Bible. Since God put His blessing on some lies under certain circumstances, we have to conclude that "Thou shall not bear false witness" does not apply to all incidents of subterfuge any more than "Thou shall not murder" applies to all incidents of homicide. You are giving that commandment greater breadth than what is supported in the rest of the Bible.
 
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