I was wondering if any of you had some advise on when it's time to move on in life. I was thinking that of such things like when your situation becomes uncomfortable, feeling drawn to something else, general emotional instablity caused by thinking about a certain situation, etc. Any other signs or advise would be nice...
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When is it time to move on?
- Thread starter Dryhtenes
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Those all sound like great reasons to start thinking about moving on. But not enough reason to jump into anything.
What's going on?
What's going on?
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These are just some general starting points... I just wanted to see if a general concensus would match up with the factors that I see (more than the ones listed).
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When you feel the irresistible pull of the Holy Spirit.
When you get fired.
When your girlfriend/boyfriend breaks off your relationship.
When you find you are becoming weakened by it instead of strengthened spiritually and emotionally.
When it negatively affects your health.
When it pulls you away from God.
When it makes you doubt God's goodness.
When it makes you despise your family or brothers and sisters in the faith.
When you feel depressed by the prospect of it continuing.
When you can't put one foot in front of the other anymore.
When you die.
When the other person dies.
When the thought of it makes you sick.
When you know it is wrong.
When it might harm someone else.
When you don't have the resources anymore.
When it all comes to a crashing end.
When you feel like you want to die.
When your loved ones confront you and beg you to stop because it's destroying you.
When you hear the still, small voice.
When you have finished everything you could do.
When you are shown the door.
These are all signs that it is time to move on.
When you get fired.
When your girlfriend/boyfriend breaks off your relationship.
When you find you are becoming weakened by it instead of strengthened spiritually and emotionally.
When it negatively affects your health.
When it pulls you away from God.
When it makes you doubt God's goodness.
When it makes you despise your family or brothers and sisters in the faith.
When you feel depressed by the prospect of it continuing.
When you can't put one foot in front of the other anymore.
When you die.
When the other person dies.
When the thought of it makes you sick.
When you know it is wrong.
When it might harm someone else.
When you don't have the resources anymore.
When it all comes to a crashing end.
When you feel like you want to die.
When your loved ones confront you and beg you to stop because it's destroying you.
When you hear the still, small voice.
When you have finished everything you could do.
When you are shown the door.
These are all signs that it is time to move on.
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This strikes me, as a fairly non-religious item, so I hope the moderators will give me a little breathingroom, without getting too nitpicky about protocol, where it doesn't serve any constructive or protective purpose.
We are perpetual works in progress. It's always time to move on, learn and grow. Beyond that it is just a matter of how big a step you make in which direction I guess. Now that is no exact science, but through trial and error you'll get better at it. Never shy away from advise, because if you deem that nessecary you can always check your bible,to see if the advise contradicts its teachings or not.
(anyone see any particular need in deleting this?).
We are perpetual works in progress. It's always time to move on, learn and grow. Beyond that it is just a matter of how big a step you make in which direction I guess. Now that is no exact science, but through trial and error you'll get better at it. Never shy away from advise, because if you deem that nessecary you can always check your bible,to see if the advise contradicts its teachings or not.
(anyone see any particular need in deleting this?).
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It is only religious in the sense that God may be telling me to move on from my current job/living situation, and I don't want to be so thick and immaleable to miss it.
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