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When does any particular sin(s) become backsliding, apostasy, or "falling away?"

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Did not read. Too long. I'm between meetings right now.
 
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Because POTS (Perseverance of the Saints) involves God keeping you. There is no chance of falling away or losing your salvation in POTS (Which suggests that God does all the keeping and not you).
Well, I'll give you credit for persistence! "What WILL INDEED COME TO PASS" does NOT IMPLY "Automatic". OK? There is a WHOLE LOT of activity in causation.
Read the article. It sounds automatic to me.

I'm not even going to bother to look it up. I have no doubt you read it with that same false presupposition with which you read everything Calvinistic/Reformed.

Again: The fact that God has predestined something to happen does not imply that it will happen "automatically". IT TAKES DOING, TO DO SOMETHING.

The topic of the OP deals with apostasy and confession of sin to be forgiven of sin. POTS just does not agree with that.

Not that I agree with you that POTS denies any of that, but, SO WHAT if POTS disagrees with that? Why bring that into the topic? You don't even believe in POTS so why bring it up?
 
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How many times do you sin, confess, sin, confess, sin, confess, etc., before you wake up and realize you're simply nothing more than a hypocrite/apostate?
The way you asked this demonstrates a category error. Apostacy is the abandonment of the faith, which obviously wouldn't apply to one who recognizes that he commited a sin, repents of it, and by confessing asks God to help him sin no more. An apostate would think "yeah, so what, I didn't do anything wrong, go kick rocks".
 
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Will some sins get you there faster than others? If so, which ones? How many times do you sin, confess, sin, confess, sin, confess, etc., before you wake up and realize you're simply nothing more than a hypocrite/apostate?

I think in such a case only one of two things is true:

1. One has never been truly saved.
2. One is saved, but has not understood how to walk with God.

These days, it seems to me more likely that the first option is true. The Church is full of "tares," "false brethren" the apostle Paul called them, invited into the community of believers through the "seeker-sensitive" church model and the empire building of mega-church leaders. These "tares," trying to live the Christian life without being genuinely spiritually-regenerated, find doing so ultimately impossible. Oh, they might on the surface appear to succeed, participating in the life of the Church quite extensively, but like the Pharisees of Jesus's time, their hearts are far from God (Hebrews 6:4-6; Matthew 15:8). And when they finally give up the frustrating and inevitably hypocritical attempt to live the Christian life from their own resources of will and strength, they depart the faith, revealing in doing so, not that they were saved and lost their salvation, but that they never had it to begin with. (1 John 2:19)

There are others, though, who are truly born-again, but have not been discipled in the early stages of their faith and established in the basics of walking with God. They know nothing of the crucified life, of the identification truths, or of appropriating by faith the promises of God and their new identity in Christ. They know only that they have been saved from hell, unaware that they have been saved unto a new life in the Saviour. And so, these "babes in Christ" (1 Corinthians 3:1) remain perennially juvenile in their faith (Hebrews 5:12-14), stumbling and falling regularly, never advancing to spiritual maturity.
 
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Will some sins get you there faster than others? If so, which ones? How many times do you sin, confess, sin, confess, sin, confess, etc., before you wake up and realize you're simply nothing more than a hypocrite/apostate?

I have always found this scripture useful: Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will (Romans 12:2). God Bless You
 
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Will some sins get you there faster than others? If so, which ones? How many times do you sin, confess, sin, confess, sin, confess, etc., before you wake up and realize you're simply nothing more than a hypocrite/apostate?
Apostasy is about losing faith deliberately (that's literally what it means), not about sin.

If one could lose their salvation, this doesn't happen due to sin but due to a loss of faith. Sin might lead you to give up your faith, but this is not a given - sin is often about genuine weakness. We are sick and need healing from the healer; we don't (and can't) heal ourselves before coming to the healer.
 
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In order to determine what is the “light” and what is the “darknesss,” we have to define them according to what the Bible says and not in what we want them to say.

What is the light according to the apostle John?

#1. God is light, and in him is no darkness at all. (1 John 1:5).​

So God is the light.

So when we read in 1 John 1:7 that says...“if we walk in the light as He is in the light,” it is referring to how if we walk in God the Father [the light] as He [Christ] is in [the light] God the Father. That is what 1 John 1:7 is saying. For we read in the proceeding context about how John and the others have fellowship with the Father and His Son Jesus Christ.

#1 “That which was from the beginning, which we have heard, which we have seen with our eyes, which we have looked upon, and our hands have handled, of the Word of life;
#2 (For the life was manifested, and we have seen it, and bear witness, and shew unto you
that eternal life, which was with the Father,
and was manifested unto us; )
#3 That which we have seen and heard declare we unto you, that ye also may have fellowship with us: and truly our fellowship is with the Father, and with his Son Jesus Christ.” (1 John 1:1-3).​

What is the darkness according to the apostle John?

#1. If we say that we have fellowship with him, and walk in darkness, we lie, and do not the truth (1 John 1:6). This is similiar to 1 John 2:4. Please Read it.
#2. He that saith he is in the light, and hateth his brother, is in darkness even until now (1 John 2:9).
#3. And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil. For every one that doeth evil hateth the light, neither cometh to the light, lest his deeds should be reproved. But he that doeth truth cometh to the light, that his deeds may be made manifest, that they are wrought in God. (John 3:19-21).​

What is darkness according to the rest of the Bible?

#1. but when thine eye is evil, thy body also is full of darkness (Luke 11:34).
#2. And have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather reprove them (Ephesians 5:11).​

Darkness is sin and or hating your brother according to the Bible.

Okay, so taking this all into account, we must understand that if we walk in the light of God the Father, as He (Christ) is in God the Father (Who is the light), we will love our brother (1 John 2:9-11 cf. 1 John 3:10), and the blood of Jesus Christ cleanses us from all sin. Darkness is hating our brother. So if we hate our brother and say we have fellowship with God, we lie and do not the truth. For loving our brother is a commandment (1 John 3:23). This is why 1 John 2:3 basically says we can have an assurance in knowing the Lord if we find we are keeping His commandments. This is why 1 John 2:4 basically says that the person who says they know the Lord and they do not keep His commandments is a liar, and the truth is not in them. What truth is not in them? Jesus. For Jesus is the way, the truth, and the life (John 14:6).
 
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So can you hate your brother (or not love your brother) and still say that you walk in the light of God?

Can you still have the blood of Jesus cleanse you of all sin even if you hate your brother or you do not love him?

If you say... “No” then this means I am correct and you need to meet the condition of loving your brother in order to abide under the condition of walking in the light (abiding in God the Father as HE (Christ) abides in the light, or God the Father) in order for the blood of Jesus Christ to cleanse you from all sin. This means it is more than just a belief alone in Jesus to have the blood cleanse you. You need to make sure you are continually loving your brother so as to walk in the light of God and have the blood of Jesus cleanse you of all sin.

If you say... “Yes” then you would be speaking against the truth of 1 John 1:6 that states: “If we say that we have fellowship with him, and walk in darkness, we lie, and do not the truth:” and you would be speaking against 1 John 2:9 that says, “He that saith he is in the light, and hateth his brother, is in darkness even until now.”
 
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God the Father and Jesus can make their abode (i.e. His home) in a person if they keep the words of Jesus. For it is written:

“Jesus answered and said unto him, If a man love me, he will keep my words: and my Father will love him, and we will come unto him, and make our abode with him.” (John 14:23).
 
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I address POTS because that is what Calvinists believe and you are a Calvinist. So if I am going to be able to have a discussion with you on apostasy or confessing sin, we first need to understand what POTS is really saying. POTS is saying that GOD is making you to persevere and it really is not up to you. If this is not the case, then you would be a Conditional Salvationist like me. In other words, POTS is not about Conditional Salvation. Conditional Salvation is saying that I have to receive Jesus and believe the gospel, and I have to continue in the faith and continue in God's grace. God is not going to force me to do any of these things. For we are told to work out our salvation with fear and trembling. Yes, God may nudge me and or influence me to a degree, but He will not force His salvation upon me in any way. POTS is saying that the way of salvation is guaranteed. No need to worry about anything. There is no need to work out your salvation with fear and trembling in POTS.
 
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Please show me in the Bible where it says that “walking in the light” = being saved by the blood of Jesus? Where do we see light as associated with the blood of Jesus as mentioned in the context by the apostle John?

1 John 1:5 says that the light is God and there is no darkness in Him.

So God is the light (1 John 1:5).

So 1 John 1:7 is saying that if we walk in God [i.e. the Light]. But we cannot say we abide in God and walk in darkness (1 John 1:6). This is a direct connection with 1 John 2:4 that says that the person who says they know the Lord and yet they do not keep His commandments, they are a liar and the truth is not in them. 1 John 1:6 and 1 John 2:4 are saying the same thing but they are using different wording. So we cannot break God's commandments and claim we walk in the light of God whereby the blood of Jesus would cleanse us from all sin.
 
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Will some sins get you there faster than others? If so, which ones? How many times do you sin, confess, sin, confess, sin, confess, etc., before you wake up and realize you're simply nothing more than a hypocrite/apostate?
There's a life cycle.

James 1
13 ¶ Let no man say when he is tempted, I am tempted of God: for God cannot be tempted with evil, neither tempteth he any man: {evil: or, evils }
14 But every man is tempted, when he is drawn away of his own lust, and enticed.
15 Then when lust hath conceived, it bringeth forth sin: and sin, when it is finished, bringeth forth death.
16 Do not err, my beloved brethren.

Heb 2:14 Forasmuch then as the children are partakers of flesh and blood, he also himself likewise took part of the same; that through death he might destroy him that had the power of death, that is, the devil;

Desire grows for a time like a child in a womb and then becomes death, John speaks of this and says that one is not obligated to pray for someone who has sinned unto death. After death has grown for a while (if it doesn't kill your body) it becomes demonic in nature.

So any particular sin becomes backsliding, when it is allowed to continue to grow, it becomes apostasy, when the sin becomes as death, it becomes as falling away when it is demonic in quality. See also the last half of James 3 for a fruit test regarding demonic and heavenly wisdom.
 
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It's all in God's hands. Thank God for his mercy.

Paul makes clear that AFTERwe have been saved, there is a continuing conflict between our wanting to walk in the flesh, (that wants us to live in sin)- and our desire to walk after the Holy Spirit that now dwells in us - and Paul warns that choosing to live in sins (works of the flesh), will keep us out of heaven:


Gal 5:16 ThisI say then, Walk in the Spirit, and ye shall not fulfil the lust of the flesh.


Gal 5:17 For the flesh lusteth against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh: and these are contrary the one to the other: so that ye cannot do the things that ye would.


Gal 5:18 But IF ye be led of the Spirit, ye are not under the law.


Gal 5:19 Now the WORKS OF THE FLESH are manifest, which are these;Adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness,


Gal 5:20 Idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies,


Gal 5:21 Envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like: of the which I tell YOU again, as I have also told youin time past, that they which DO such things shall NOT inherit the kingdom of God.


Paul warns us over and over, that if we believers choose to walk after the flesh, we will die spiritually - but if we choose to walk after the spirit, we will have everlasting life:


Rom 8:5 For they that are after the flesh do mind the things of the flesh; but they that are after the Spirit the things of the Spirit.


Rom 8:6 For to be carnally minded isDEATH, but to be spiritually minded isLIFE and peace.


Rom 8:7 Because the carnal mind isENMITY against God: for it is not subject to the law of God, neither indeed can be.


Rom 8:8 So then they that are in the flesh cannot please God.


Verse 8:7 Paul warns above, that having a carnal mind is ENMITY against God, meaning you actually become Gods ENEMY.


Will God let His enemies into heaven?


Jas 4:4 Ye adulterers and adulteresses, know ye not that the friendship of the world is ENMITY with God? whosoever therefore will be a FRIEND OF THE WORLD is the ENEMY of God.


The verse above says sexual sins and being worldly, makes you Gods ENEMY.


Will God welcome His enemies into heaven?


Scripture clearly shows that continuing to remain in Christ is conditional on us 1) continuing to walk in the light, as He is in the light, and 2) continuing to walk after the spirit, instead of after the flesh.
 
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I don't think He gives up on us at all, but gives us the free will to reject Him.

I've noticed those who I've known who became apostate, can't stop talking about Him. I think that's because God is persuing them.
The Bible refers to this as the reprobate (depraved) mind, to which God gives some over to. NIV and KJV compared below.

Romans 1:28 KJV
And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient;

Romans 1:28 NIV
Furthermore, just as they did not think it worthwhile to retain the knowledge of God, so God gave them over to a depraved mind, so that they do what ought not to be done.
 
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Right. But haven't we all heard testimonies to the contrary? God doesn't cast us off if we fall. He will always take us back.
 
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So, you do believe, after all, that God's determining to whom he will show mercy, is irrevocable!.Yay! Welcome aboard!
Provided EVERYONE is onboard. (all people eventually)

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I would add... We cannot undo, by an act of our own will, what only God can do in the first place.
 
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Right. But haven't we all heard testimonies to the contrary? God doesn't cast us off if we fall. He will always take us back.

That's why I said: "...that one who has fully known the Spirit and then rejected the Spirit will not--and this is of his own accord--return to the Spirit."
 
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That's why I said: "...that one who has fully known the Spirit and then rejected the Spirit will not--and this is of his own accord--return to the Spirit."
That's great. But I don't see how we can make this scripture say that. Can you explain what you mean? Thanks.

Hebrews 6:4-6 NIV
It is impossible for those who have once been enlightened, who have tasted the heavenly gift, who have shared in the Holy Spirit, 5 who have tasted the goodness of the word of God and the powers of the coming age 6 and who have fallen away, to be brought back to repentance. To their loss they are crucifying the Son of God all over again and subjecting him to public disgrace.
 
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If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.

And if we stop doing that, that is when I'd say we got a problem.
 
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God is aware that human beings are imperfect, which is why He calls us to ongoing repentance, on those occasions when we fail to do His will. He created us to be with Him for all eternity in Heaven, which would be impossible if He did not provide the opportunity for ongoing forgiveness for the many times we fail. However, as we grow in our relationship with Him, and receive more and more of His grace, we gradually turn away from sin and become more subject to His will. Never perfect, but always better.
 
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