indagroove
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I believe that at first, the attraction is on the surface, such as looks, and mannerisms. Later the attraction is to personality.
I relate to this by my last two girlsfriends I had before meeting my wife. These girls were really pretty. But as we got to know each other, I became less attracted to them because I got to know the real person. They tunred out to be not really nice people. It is the insides of a person that you will ultimately be attracted to, and this is what carries the relationship.
In the case of my wife, my attraction to her grows everyday. She is the most Godly christian woman I have ever met. As she gets older, she gets a few wrinkles, and strech marks, but she is more beautiful and passionate then ever.
I relate to this by my last two girlsfriends I had before meeting my wife. These girls were really pretty. But as we got to know each other, I became less attracted to them because I got to know the real person. They tunred out to be not really nice people. It is the insides of a person that you will ultimately be attracted to, and this is what carries the relationship.
In the case of my wife, my attraction to her grows everyday. She is the most Godly christian woman I have ever met. As she gets older, she gets a few wrinkles, and strech marks, but she is more beautiful and passionate then ever.
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