Hey guys, I am a newbie to this forum. I am early 20s, femaleLately I have been feeling down. I had been friends with someone since middle school, and we both kept in touch all the way up until college (we are in our early 20s) This friend and I both were on the same track on our pursuit for nursing school. I ended up getting a bit farther than her and got accepted this year in RN school while she has not had the same luck so far. Prior to all of this she was very supportive, we were both very supportive of each other actually. We studied together and kept in contact on a regular basis. When I decided to tell her the news about getting accepted in RN school, she appeared happy and was telling me how she'd pray for me, and bring me a bible so that I could read it and use it as encouragement to make it through the programWell, when I moved everything immediately changed. She called me the night that I went off to university and made subtle comments that hurt me like "I was so busy and almost forgot to call you" mind you it was 12:30 am when she called me. And things progressively got worse as the weeks went by, her attitude changed, I'd call her and she'd have the tv up loud and would act as if she was too distracted by whatever she was watching to hold a conversation with me. She has her days where her attitude is very hurtful and distant. And she has never came to visit me like she said. She'll say how she was hanging out with another friend that's why she didnt come see me, which is another subtle dig that hurts me. She always claims that shes was too busy hanging out on the days that she promised me to visit. She doesnt really call me as much either. Im pretty sure she realizes that I dont know anybody at the moment and I feel her distancing herself like this is a form of punishment because she is jealous of me being a bit further ahead than she is nowI did finally speak up once and tell her that I'd wish she would call more, and the next day she did call only to say "see I called you. you were whining that I never called so I just did". Geesh, I really did not want to make it seem like you had to do it out of obligationTo make a long story short, I am just hurt. Very hurt. I am slowly meeting people but I am still very lonely in a new environment. Sometimes when I have time to myself, I get sad, angry, upset, lonely...I try to keep my thoughts positive but I have moments where I feel like calling her up and just sparking an argument but I know that will do no goodI have been patient, never once rubbed in the fact that I am in RN school and she is still struggling with her classes. I am always in good spirits trying to encourage her because I truly and geniunely do want her to succeed. Unfortunately, she never wnated the same for me. I know she has said things that she is unhappy, and that the things going on in her life might not make it possible for her to get into RN school anytime soon. Lately she seems to be jealous of any and everything because of her own unhappiness. I empathize with her. but at times I dont because how spiteful she is being. But I just dont understand how a person can hurt somebody who has been nothing but understanding, compassionate and nice to them. I can understnad if I was rubbing it in her face and discouraging herI am starting to wonder what is wrong with me? Why can't I have friends appreciate me as a nice person? I mean it seems that the nasty people always get ahead, always have the most friends always finish first. She seems to have more of a social life than I doany words of encourgement would help me