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And to all the people who say, this is creepy, get off your high horses, and stop judging people you don't know without all the facts.
Women are lying to themselves if they don't think that fertility is, or should be, a factor.
Probably a prime factor.
JM
It's ok flnt--my new friend is 6 years...and for his age is pretty mature-also has been married/divorced and has a daughter my youngest sons age....so...it works so far.
It seems it's becoming more common though...in a way at our age as women perhaps we feel more established, and not needing the "career/status/financial" security a younger girl looks for in a guy....if we have our life, finances, together you can pretty much be open to go for someone who is just simply compatible with you, makes you laugh and who's company you enjoy- taking the pressure of your "lists" off..kwim?
And yes-this young is a first for me also
Okay, more details on my original question.....
My friend, the 19-year-old, is male. His fiancee, SHE is 34. They met at work & began dating, then he quickly moved in with her. They are maybe 2 months into their relationship and now they're engaged.
She has 2 kids and can't have any more (tubes tied).
Her kids are 11 & 13 yrs old.
Hope that helps to clarify some things.
Ha! Your bf sounds like me. I served about the same time in the Army between active and reserve time and I'm married/divorced too.Here we go with the cougar comments. lol
My BF is 8 years younger. I would never in a MILLION years have thought I would date someone that much younger. But, here I am and it doesn't seem weird or cougar-ish or anything. We are extremely compatible. Of course, he served 6 years in the Army and has been married/divorced - so his life experiences are a bit different than most 27 yr olds.
As for the kids thing. Maybe the OP's friend doesn't want children but he's OK with her having children. Or maybe he can't have children.
What kind of a dad would he be to her kids?Okay, more details on my original question.....
My friend, the 19-year-old, is male. His fiancee, SHE is 34. They met at work & began dating, then he quickly moved in with her. They are maybe 2 months into their relationship and now they're engaged.
She has 2 kids and can't have any more (tubes tied).
Her kids are 11 & 13 yrs old.
Hope that helps to clarify some things.
Ha! Your bf sounds like me. I served about the same time in the Army between active and reserve time and I'm married/divorced too.
That might not be a bad thingLots has been said about the couple, but not much about the kids this woman already has. They're 11 and 13, and their potential stepfather is 19.
They'll never respect him.
They'll see him as a buddy and maybe a peer (especially the 13 year old), but as a parent? Forget about it.
My friend is 19 and engaged to a 34 year old.........
I think it's not a good idea......What do you think?
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