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Hi everyone... Ever since Saturday, I have the urge to keep masturbating at home.... And I watch porn too... I feel so guilty and unclean in front of God... Im only a 17 year old female teen who wants to be normal... What's wrong?? What have I done... Every single day it gets worse... I even force myself to get an [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] for no reason at all!!! Help me... Im so guilty... I feel like God hates me for masturbating at home too... I cant stop this addiction... What do I do now?? I have no way to stop this... Im lost... Help me... I think im addicted to sex too... And porn... I keep wanting to do more and more... What to do now... Sigh... Will anyone tell me how to stop this addiction?? I keep telling myself nonody, no more, but it doesn't work!! Instead I want to do more!!! Help me... I have this urge to keep touching my vagina too...
 

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Good question.

But whatever, you are hormonally mature and have a strong sex drive that let's you know adulthood has arrived. Many teenagers of either sex struggle with their naturally occurring sex drive, but that in itself must not lead to self condemnation or self hatred.

Porn is an unhealthy activity. You will need to resist that. But you will also need to do some serious thinking about what it does mean to be a sexual person.

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