Hello forum, It has been sometime since I've written. I don't know what my problem is but heres my deal. It seems that whenever I get into a relationship with someone that I love, when I drink sometimes I'm like a timebomb...it's like I go crazy. I become this violent, scary monster and waking up to the destruction and the aftermath makes me......I don't understand why I do these things...I mean I never get mean when It's just with my friends but when I'm in a meaningful relationship my wrath comes out and I just hate the person I become. I don't want to lose the man that I'm with but if I do then I willhave to deal with it.... I just wish I could take back what I've done. Things have been going so wonderful with us, we were progressing with our relationship, talking about our future and I go and mess it up by lashing out at him. I already told him that I'm done with alchohol and believeme I am and that is so hard for me to do.... I know I will probably not have as mmany friends, or my support system of ladies I can turn to when we go thorough breakups but all they know is going out for drinks here and there blah Im so done with that life.. I want a life of peace I really do...but do you think this man who's seen me like this will even want to get close to me again? Is that possible? Would he be sick for wanting to be with me? Can I turn this around? Can he let himself love me that way again? Please please please please pray for me and my problem I need it. I will kick this habit with a quickness if it means I can live a peacful, meaningful life full of love. Please let me know what to do? What's my problem? WHy only with the ones I love?