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Hi, smaneck
About if Paul's writings are completely infallible
I understand God made a lady to be a guy's helper. This means helping us get God's correction!!


I think of how Abigail spoke up and stood up to David when he was getting ready to make a big mistake > 1 Samuel 25. He did not hit her with a "who are you a woman to be speaking?" thing. He glorified God that God had used her to correct him.
I benefit from what women say to me; so at times I even beg my lady friend to say something about whatever we are reading in the Bible. Because she says such caring and compassionate things, unlike my intellectual theo-logic stuff. I can be seemingly Bible smart but clearly love stupid; so I need her. So, it can get a little frustrating when I know she could say such good things, but she insists on listening . . . to me
But then she at some point does say something very good - - - and simple. I suspect she believes she is supposed to be silent. But at times she can't help to say something, but she understands it is not her but the Holy Spirit speaking . . . so she is silent but God is speaking
Possibly, how a number of Bible believers understand Paul, is he means for a lady to be quiet and silent, but not the Holy Spirit through her.
"rather let it be the hidden person of the heart, with the incorruptible beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is very precious in the sight of God." (1 Peter 3:4)
And men need this, too. Whoever is a leader needs to take the lead in what the others are expected to do. So, if women need to be silent, this can mean how leaders need to be as the examples . . . not just always not talking, but deeply silent and submissive to God. And Christ lives and speaks > Galatians 2:20.
So, I consider that Paul means the disorderly and distracting speaking in a meeting. And this would go for men, too; but it might have been a situation in which only or mainly the women were starting things, maybe asking husbands questions during a message. I don't know if it's cultural or deeper, how I often see the lady turning to talk to the guy, not the other way around. I consider us all to be equal, but there seem to be things men specialize in doing and women do. But I think God wants us to get out of any stuff which is limited to so-called male or female identity, and grow in His love where men and women were created from.
So, @smaneck if I may be so personal to ask this > you are a lady, I understand, and you mention your issue with Paul telling women to be "silent". Do you as a woman take this personally? Do you feel this is somehow an attack on you because you are a woman? Or, do you Baha'i women feel that being female is not your real identity and so you do not take personally what people might say about women?
After all > Paul also does say that in Jesus "there is neither male nor female", in Galatians 3:28. So, in case we deeply feel that male or female is not our real identity, then why would we get worried about how people who are worldly discriminate about our physical gender which is in true reality not our identity?? If we are with God, we can't miss out on anything that really matters, after all. I suspect that ones can take Paul to be discriminating, but because they are sensitive about what they consider their identity to be; and in their oversensitivity they can be in a spirit witch has them misunderstand him. And this can keep them from understanding all he really means.
I think there are even Bible claiming women who keep silent but while they have a problem with this; they feel this is imposed on them, but they go along with it in order to get along in their groups where ones say they must be silent. My personal opinion is Paul does not mean that women are not to talk, at all, but not to be talking in a way which distracts from whoever is supposed to have attention during a meeting. I have been in situations where someone would be talking and say something, then all of a sudden one women would turn to start talking in someone else's ear, or a number of women would start muttering, all at once. It seems this is usually done by women; but I understand this could be just a cultural thing, plus I have seen how men can be yakking when we are supposed to be having prayer. But the men can yak so we don't even start something, while certain women have caused distraction after something has gotten started. So, Paul could tell men to be silent, too, with this meaning, I would say. Men need to be an example of what goes for all of us. I need to be deeply silent, so my own noise in me is not getting in the way of me sensing and responding to God.when he tells women to be silent in church, maybe not so much.
I understand God made a lady to be a guy's helper. This means helping us get God's correction!!



I think of how Abigail spoke up and stood up to David when he was getting ready to make a big mistake > 1 Samuel 25. He did not hit her with a "who are you a woman to be speaking?" thing. He glorified God that God had used her to correct him.
I benefit from what women say to me; so at times I even beg my lady friend to say something about whatever we are reading in the Bible. Because she says such caring and compassionate things, unlike my intellectual theo-logic stuff. I can be seemingly Bible smart but clearly love stupid; so I need her. So, it can get a little frustrating when I know she could say such good things, but she insists on listening . . . to me

But then she at some point does say something very good - - - and simple. I suspect she believes she is supposed to be silent. But at times she can't help to say something, but she understands it is not her but the Holy Spirit speaking . . . so she is silent but God is speaking

"rather let it be the hidden person of the heart, with the incorruptible beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is very precious in the sight of God." (1 Peter 3:4)
And men need this, too. Whoever is a leader needs to take the lead in what the others are expected to do. So, if women need to be silent, this can mean how leaders need to be as the examples . . . not just always not talking, but deeply silent and submissive to God. And Christ lives and speaks > Galatians 2:20.
So, I consider that Paul means the disorderly and distracting speaking in a meeting. And this would go for men, too; but it might have been a situation in which only or mainly the women were starting things, maybe asking husbands questions during a message. I don't know if it's cultural or deeper, how I often see the lady turning to talk to the guy, not the other way around. I consider us all to be equal, but there seem to be things men specialize in doing and women do. But I think God wants us to get out of any stuff which is limited to so-called male or female identity, and grow in His love where men and women were created from.
So, @smaneck if I may be so personal to ask this > you are a lady, I understand, and you mention your issue with Paul telling women to be "silent". Do you as a woman take this personally? Do you feel this is somehow an attack on you because you are a woman? Or, do you Baha'i women feel that being female is not your real identity and so you do not take personally what people might say about women?
After all > Paul also does say that in Jesus "there is neither male nor female", in Galatians 3:28. So, in case we deeply feel that male or female is not our real identity, then why would we get worried about how people who are worldly discriminate about our physical gender which is in true reality not our identity?? If we are with God, we can't miss out on anything that really matters, after all. I suspect that ones can take Paul to be discriminating, but because they are sensitive about what they consider their identity to be; and in their oversensitivity they can be in a spirit witch has them misunderstand him. And this can keep them from understanding all he really means.
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