MeganheartsJesus said:
When I do something I know is wrong, I feel downright terrible, especially when I did it to some other person.
How is this a wrong feeling? If I sound angry or something, I'm not. I'm just asking.

Also, how can I stop feeling guilty when I sin?
You don't sound angry. I understand it can be hard to understand because if we do something that is wrong and then realise it, we do feel bad. But there is a difference between that initial "feeling of badness" and "seeing oneself as guilty". When we talk about "feeling guilty" we are really saying "I am guilty without hope." The first part is true, we are guilty but the second part isn't, there is always hope. Feelings aren't right or wrong they just are. It's how we
think that is right or wrong.
Let's take a hyperthetical scenario - imagine your not having the best of days, things are going wrong left right and centre until eventually someone comes along who might ask something of you and you just snap and lash out. You didn't mean to and they didn't deserve it and you recognise instantly how wrong you were and you "feel" bad. What do you do? Well, what most people do is think, "God I must be a horrible person to do this". You might apologise to the person and explain your "irrational" behaviour and they may or may not accept your apology. Whatever
they do, is out of your hands, so you will simply have to wear that. However what now do
you do? The first thing is to recognise that being a sinner doesn't make you a "bad" person, it makes you a "lost" person. But Jesus has died to overcome that lostness, now His Spirit lives within you to help you overcome the "wickedness" that flows from that lostness. The reason people end up feeling guilty is because they fail to understand that initial "bad feeling" is just that: "a bad
feeling". Feelings come and feelings go but how you
think is a process. This is why we are told to "not conform to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind" (Rom 12:2) Also we are told to "take every thought captive" (2Cor 10:5) You must change the way
you think about yourself, your situation and replace it with the way
God sees you and your situation. (ie His Word) So if we take our scenario:
"I must be a horrible person" changes to "I am loved and accepted by Christ".
This change doesn't come naturally, you have to work on it and you have to remember you have 3 enemies working against you. (that is the you in Jesus) Satan will lie to you, your own flesh will lie to you and the World will lie to you
BUT God's word is the truth and you must rely on that. Even though for now you do not see it, eventually you will. That is "walking by faith".
I know it can be very confusing when you first come to Jesus. It's like we have all been walking along this road, learning all the ways about it, when suddenly we are turned around and start walking the other way. It
feels like we are walking backward because we are so use to seeing our sin (our lostness) and we keep wanting to turn around again. When we do sin, we immediately think we have turned around, but we haven't, we're just trying to walk forward by looking over our shoulder all the time. That's why we keep tripping up. So we must learn to look forward, that is to keep our focus on Jesus, on His Word, His promises, His life.
Everytime you have a thought that is contrary to the Word of God you must learn to replace it with God's truth.
So things like:
"I will never do this" becomes "I can do all things in Christ who strengthens me."
"This is a bad day" becomes "this is the day the Lord has made".
" I don't have enough..." becomes "my God shall supply all I need according to His riches in Christ".
Are you getting the gist of it all? It isn't based on how you feel but what God has said. When you learn to rely on that instead of your feelings (or even in spite of what you are feeling) then eventually you will find yourself in this glorious position of overcoming. Things will happen around you and you will see yourself reacting differently to how you use to react and you will wonder "how did that happen"...and the Lord will smile on you and be pleased and you will understand how Christ overcomes sin in your life. Then give thanks with a grateful heart and rejoice in the Lord always!
Please let me know if what I have said doesn't make sense to you. You can pm me anytime.
your sister in Christ