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What's the best way to begin to grow spiritually

Rafael

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Go out and serve. Feed the poor, clothe the naked, visit the sick, and provide shelter for the stranger. These are the things Jesus asks about and said, "when you do it to the least of these, my brethren, you do it unto me."

When you throw a banquet, go out and bring in the lame, blind, deaf, and poor. They can't pay you back, and you'll learn how to give till it challenges God to fill you back up as his vessel to be used and filled over and over again.
 
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I think I uderstand where you are coming from I also want to know more.
I have been a christian for a very long time. I have had faithful and straight moments on the path God has laid out for me. But I have also fallen short and fallen behind several times.
I pray, I read the word, I study with friends, I seek answers to questions and concerns.But I feel like i'm not going any where. Many churchs focus on the lost and finding the lost and gaining souls and salvations. Believe me I believe this is very important and understand this need and desire to save those lost I am one of those people as well who want to spread the word and reach to those lost.
But I also want to drink I'm thirsty I want knowledge and insights. I want to learn more. I want more information on what do you do now. Your found your saved and your standing there wondering whats next. WHat do we do with our salvation. Churchs need to remember those they find and lead to Christ. They need to remember they are thirsty and need water and support, knowledge and guidence. WE need teachers of the next step. We need to remember that Christians need to continue their path and grow. ANd with that we need guidence in doing this. Once you have been saved the path doesn't stop, there needs to be a balance to the church.
I'm not sure if I expressed my thoughts well or if its all a bunch of babbling but this is my first posting so I hope I improve and I didn't hurt any ones feelings.
Michelle:help:
 
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We should continually be growing closer to God and striving to be more like Jesus himself. It's wonderful that you desire to grow in your walk with God. There are many Christians who are very content to stay "baby Christians" there entire life. God wants us to mature spiritually. I encourage you to purchase the book, "The Purpose Driven Life" by Rick Warren. His book deals with this topic very detailed. I'm reading it right now and I am indeed maturing spiritually.
 
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*agrees with Zoe and I'm only on day 6 of the book!*

Also, pray and ask for the holy spirit to descend into you. Submit to the Lord and ask for Christ to live through you.

Repent your sins. Don't just ask for forgiveness, make a real effort to cut them out of your life.

Try to remember that everybody's relationship with God is different and have trust and faith in that His walk with you is of the best pace for you, since He knows best, always.

God Bless, I'll pray for you tonight!
 
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One thing that will help you out greatly and make a BIG difference in your life is once you have been saved and baptized, do a little bit of research on just how much God loves you. I have recently done this and it will just change your life totally! I don't really think that any of us can grow that much spiritually and walk in God's will until we understand this. When we understand God's great love for us, that it can only be recieved, not earned-Praise the Lord; then you will want to praise Him and serve Him, you cannot help but obey Him and love others as yourself. I'm telling you, once you can grasp this concept, it will just change your life completely! There are just so many illustrations of God's love for us. A lot of people don't fully comprehend that He loves us freely no matter what we have done or where we have been. His love for us is more personal than a lot of people realize. Everytime I think about how much He loves me and gives up for me, I just want to cry like a baby! Hope this helps. God bless.
 
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I'm reading through "A Purposed Driven Life". A couple who really helped me find joy in Jesus gave it to me last month.

I've asked for the Holy Spirit, so I guess I have Him.

I questioned a friend last month about being baptised again. He thinks I've been saved for a long time, but I do wonder. Last month was the first time I ever have had joy and peace in my life. Others around me have commented. Anyway, my pastor friend said that baptism is not necessacary. I believe in a believer's baptism, but I wonder if I was even saved before last month. When I got saved in 1992, I thought I would do it so God would love me more. When I was baptised after that I did it not because it meant anything to me but because I "should". That's all my life has been up until now -- shoulds.

Now there is joy with that. I've never had joy before. But I'm just kind of left wondering what I'm suppossed to do now. In a way I feel really dumb asking because I've been in so many teaching roles, but I wonder if it was just the blind leading the blind? *sigh* I just don't know what to do now. I'm not even sure where to start studying the Bible. I just feel like I'm at such a new beginning and don't know what to do next.

Maybe I'm making no sense, but I just am amazed I've suppossedly been a Christian for 11 years and am just now realizing that joy and peace come with that!
 
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God is able to keep us even when we don't feel particularly saved. There is alot of service and work to do, though, and the Bible tells us we are called to good works so that other will see our good works and give glory and thanks to God. Each person has a gift in the Church, and they need to find it and exercise effort to use it for God as a part of His body. Romans 12 speaks of these gifts.

Here's a link for some more info. on service and knowing God: http://www.christianforums.com/t47427
 
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theres no secret to be spiritual or growing spiritually.

the bible says being carnally minded is death, but being spiritually minded is life.

you have to set your mind, your actions, your day, your time, around spiritual things, you have to put yourself into and around what you want to become.
you have to purposely set your mind to spiritual things, think about things that are God and spiritually oriented, and youll learn and grow in those areas.

but that is a very crude way of saying it.

get away from carnal things like tv, football, movies, etc.

and put yourself into more bible reading than you ever have.
the word of God is what changes us.
and put yourself into more prayer, fasting and prayer, worship, praise, than you ever have, those things bring you into Gods presence and he is what makes the things you read from the bible become real.

Jesus simply said we have to be born of WATER, and SPIRIT.
the water means scripture, the spirit is the holyspirit and his effect on our life.
those 2 things are the biggest things.
if i were you, id pick a time begin to worship the Lord, becuase worship brings you into his presence, then when you feel at ease and feel like the Lord has come, begin to talk to him about the issues of your heart and desires, and after spending a good amount of time simply alone with him and you feel at ease to get up, THEN go read the bible, becuase the bible doesnt really come to life unless the holyspirit is with you and showing it to you, becuase you just spent time with him in prayer.

but another thing, just hang in there, its a process. you dont have to be limited by your humanity's learning and growth speed, but it is a process still, and you must be consistent and commited.
 
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(Long post - get comfy :))

I caution you against anything that purports to be a quick fix. Avoid fads that promise a deeper, richer, fuller Christian life.

(For example: Power in praise; the "second blessing" as key to the powerful Christian life; speaking in tongues; heavy-handed submission to church leadership; binding, loosing and rebuking of demons, name it and claim it, the School of the Prophets, hearing the voice of God, power evangelism.)

That's not to say all of these are bad or entirely unbiblical. They each may emphasize something that has biblical merit, but they do so in an unbalanced way, and each fails utterly as a panacea, as the one particular and principle thing that makes your Christian life "work."

It is uniquely American (or Canadian) to want an easy way out, especially a way out that is not painful and requires no work. That American (or Canadian) value has crept into our American Christianity. So we have these seminars to get it all taken care of in a weekend. Want mental health? Get hands laid on you and you'll have mental health overnight. Want spirituality? Have a vision, get the baptism, or speak in tongues. Want your problems to disappear? Simply praise the Lord. Want to be rid of temptation and sin? Have the demon cast out. Want to be done with the aggravation of decision making? Let God speak to you.

Instead of being devoted to developing spiritual maturity and attaining Scriptural knowledge, we want the quick fix.

People confuse emotional intensity with significance. We move from one experiential high to another and call that spirituality. In the meantime our lives are chaotic and we wonder why God seems to be right next to us one minute and then the next minute He's gone. The Spirit has departed. The anointing has left. Now what?

No, there are no shortcuts. But there is a secret to long-term to stability and genuine maturity. I say "secret" with tongue in cheek because it's no secret at all, that's one of the reasons it's often ignored. This is the antidote to the quick fix: stick with the basics, the dull, ordinary disciplines that have been around for millennium and have served a very good purpose, to build solid Christian people over time.

How do we attain a deeper, fuller, richer Christian life? By following the fundamental, basic disciplines of Christianity God has given us, revealed in the Bible. Prayer. Fellowship with accountability. Bible study. Meditation and memorization. Practicing Christian virtue. Obedience. Repentance. Worship. Fasting. All of these ordinary, every day type of things, that every single Christian person can do.

It's the practice of these things in a consistent manner over a long period of time that builds deep spirituality. Not some power encounter with God or the devil. I'm not disregarding powerful spiritual encounters people have with God. Those are valuable and God determines when they happen. But people who seek those sometimes get other kinds of experiences besides God. Not only that, it often substitutes a dramatic emotional experience for substantive, real, genuine transformation of character.

The point that I'm making is that you don't have to plug into some deep, hidden, specialized, higher knowledge in order to be a profound Christian. You don't have to "hear the voice of God" to live the optimal Christian life. There are times when one can say God "speaks" to people with special guidance, but it isn't the kind of thing that is the ordinary part of the Christian's walk. And those who pursue that kind of thing end up frequently on the junk pile of Christianity. That' doesn't mean they all become apostate, but what does happen is a serious time of disillusionment and ineffectiveness.

To keep from becoming spiritually weird is to stick with the basics and don't go for the quick fix. Stick with the old tried and true. Don't go off on these tangents. Usually the new stuff is just an alleged short cut to a destination that has only one route: the simple, persistent application of classical spiritual disciplines over time in the power of the Holy Spirit.
 
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TCapp, thanks for taking the time to answer with such a long reply.

I guess my biggest concern is I've not grown in the 11 years I've thought I was a Christian. To see a whole new world open up that I never knew existed, its amazing. And I want to make sure I grow -- I didn't seem to in 11 years. I've read the Bible and prayed daily in that time -- in fact, I know the Bible so well I've had pastors refuse to play me in Bible trivia because they know how well I know the Bible (the ones who have played me I have beaten) so its not a lack of knowledge. Its just that I've been doing all the right things, but I've seen a lack of growth for 11 year.
 
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Jenndiggy, I understand your cause. I don't know how to answer it, but I'd give you a couple of hints of how to do it right.

Notice around you, what do you see? Plants? Who created the Plants...God. Look closer at the plants, people say it's evolution, and thats true, Evolution is God's hand at work, moulding each and every thing on this earth. Look around you and ask God...Why are the things the way they are...

Maybe from there you could find your answer...or somewhere similar!
 
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ah great stuff!

one thing id like to add though is this, and not becuase its a problem but i do hope you understand that knowledge doesnt equal understanding.
Solomon prayed for an "understanding heart" not an "understanding brain".
there are lots of people who have a great knowledge of the statements of the bible, but that doesnt make it life changing for them.

like the water in the pool of bethesda, it wasnt life changing unto the hand of God moved upon it. untill the Spirit of the Lord moves upon the word through Spiritual experience with him through honestly seeking him , its just applies to the brain, but it isnt going to do anything. just like the pool when no angel stirs the water.

i remember in Genisis that God did not bother to speak his words, untill the Spirit had brooded upon the water. really, without the spiritual encounter with him, the word is really no good. Because the power of the holyspirit through the blood of Jesus working in your life is the only thing that changes anything.

its just like the laws and head knowledge of the pharisees, and the bible said that knowledge destroyed them rather then helped them, i believe that was in Corinthians.
it made them confused and proud, and even condemned becuase it gave the knowledge for responsibility, but no power to accomplish.

like it says in Daniel
they that do KNOW THEIR GOD, shall be strong and do great expliots.

im not saying all this becuase i think its your error, im just talking becuase i like to talk about it.
 
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