What you say if you had a friend that told you they was not a Christian .

Grace_Alone

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How would you react to a friend telling you they are not a Christian. I had just stop talking to a girl because she tryed to get me to leave my hubby for her and she said that she was not a Christian and there is a lot more she would blow my phone up all day and night and she thought i did not have a life. i have a Husband and a 5 year old son. she always wanted me to talk with her and not spend time with my family. I just stopped talking to her all together.
 

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How would you react to a friend telling you they are not a Christian. I had just stop talking to a girl because she tryed to get me to leave my hubby for her and she said that she was not a Christian and there is a lot more she would blow my phone up all day and night and she thought i did not have a life. i have a Husband and a 5 year old son. she always wanted me to talk with her and not spend time with my family. I just stopped talking to her all together.

Sounds like her view of your religion is the least of your problems.
She is messed up and not treating you well.
 
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How would you react to a friend telling you they are not a Christian. I had just stop talking to a girl because she tryed to get me to leave my hubby for her and she said that she was not a Christian and there is a lot more she would blow my phone up all day and night and she thought i did not have a life. i have a Husband and a 5 year old son. she always wanted me to talk with her and not spend time with my family. I just stopped talking to her all together.
Stay away from her.
 
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Share the gospel and then stay away from her. Remember that Christianity is not a religion, it is faith in Christ Jesus for salvation. Anyone may accept Jesus' love Gift. Offer it to her too, the easiest way is to recount your own story: how you were before you accepted Christ, how you were convicted to accept Him, what you did and how you live life now. ... short and sweet. She cannot argue legitimately with a person's personal experience.
 
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How would you react to a friend telling you they are not a Christian. I had just stop talking to a girl because she tryed to get me to leave my hubby for her and she said that she was not a Christian and there is a lot more she would blow my phone up all day and night and she thought i did not have a life. i have a Husband and a 5 year old son. she always wanted me to talk with her and not spend time with my family. I just stopped talking to her all together.

I think the lesbian overtures are the more serious issue there. Who is saved and not is up to God, and there are probably a lot more Christians who just think they are - but are not - then there are genuine, saved Christians.

Girl or guy, you need to disconnect from that person. You are married and have a son...

Satan causes such excess desires.
 
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I think the lesbian overtures are the more serious issue there. Who is saved and not is up to God, and there are probably a lot more Christians who just think they are - but are not - then there are genuine, saved Christians.

Girl or guy, you need to disconnect from that person. You are married and have a son...

Satan causes such excess desires.
Well said, He comes to steal kill and destroy
Stealing your husband, killing your marriage, destroying you, your husband and your sons life.
Sounds just like Satan’s package alright.

I would like to add for Grace_Alone
Satan will only target your weaknesses so be aware of your desires of the flesh. Was it always a fetish of yours to be with another woman? Or how about having great ungodly sex?
Just saying by the way.
Satan won’t come and offer you a carrot if you hate vegetables, know what I’m saying?
 
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There are lots of non-Christians out there, not all of them are as disrespectful to you and your family as this one is. Better ones should be treated differently than this one. My rule of thumb is to not be the bad guy in the situation, but to demonstrate Christ's love, and if the unbeliever wants to leave the friendship, they are the ones to do the cutting off.
 
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I am a new Christian My self and having some in my life like that i do not need that at all. I feel SO much better now that i have not talked to her in a week i think. Dont know that for sure but my husband can tell that i am acting better

Yes once you establish a covenant of peace things begin to fall into place.
 
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