One of the most important things I've been learning over the last two months is this concept of finding out what it is that I truly want in life.
It sounds strange comming from a Christian who's devoted his entire life to God's direction, but it's something I'm just learning now is is fundamentally important to discerning God's will!
When you've given up your dreams, your desires, your whole life to God, and trust Him for it - he will give back to you His desires, His dreams, His visions, His plans and purposes, and the key to finding them out is really simple - as simple as finding out what it is "you really want to do!" In short, the question is better phrased: "if money were no object, and time were no limitation or concern, and circumstance was never an impossibility; what would you want to do? If you could go anywhere, do anything, and money was not a problem, - what would you desire to do?"
And often times, people aren't ready to have that question asked of them because they have not yet given their entire lives to God, so therefore they answer quite secularly (like, never work, travel the world, own a lot of things, etc.). But in short, the nature of the desires that God gives us, is for building His Kingdom. So what would your desire be? What is it that we desire that God could use to build up his kingdom?
And to tie that in, I've found out something else VERY important too. We young, ambitious singles have this tenacious desire to seek God out for our future mate, in everything we do. LOL. So many times, honest Christians will repeat that back as their answer: "I want to get married," or "Be a wife, a helpmate..." It's true. When we're on the "seeking path" we look and wonder, and often times get ourselves into emotional trouble if we take a particular relationship beyond what God intended it to be. This is why I've thought about adding this strategic dimension into the question in which I myself am just now beginning to answer:
"If time, money, and circumstance were no limitation nor object, and if you could go anywhere and do anything in the world, and if God guaranteed you would met your future mate anyways - no matter what you find yourself doing, what would you do?"
I ask this of you. What would you do?
It sounds strange comming from a Christian who's devoted his entire life to God's direction, but it's something I'm just learning now is is fundamentally important to discerning God's will!
When you've given up your dreams, your desires, your whole life to God, and trust Him for it - he will give back to you His desires, His dreams, His visions, His plans and purposes, and the key to finding them out is really simple - as simple as finding out what it is "you really want to do!" In short, the question is better phrased: "if money were no object, and time were no limitation or concern, and circumstance was never an impossibility; what would you want to do? If you could go anywhere, do anything, and money was not a problem, - what would you desire to do?"
And often times, people aren't ready to have that question asked of them because they have not yet given their entire lives to God, so therefore they answer quite secularly (like, never work, travel the world, own a lot of things, etc.). But in short, the nature of the desires that God gives us, is for building His Kingdom. So what would your desire be? What is it that we desire that God could use to build up his kingdom?
And to tie that in, I've found out something else VERY important too. We young, ambitious singles have this tenacious desire to seek God out for our future mate, in everything we do. LOL. So many times, honest Christians will repeat that back as their answer: "I want to get married," or "Be a wife, a helpmate..." It's true. When we're on the "seeking path" we look and wonder, and often times get ourselves into emotional trouble if we take a particular relationship beyond what God intended it to be. This is why I've thought about adding this strategic dimension into the question in which I myself am just now beginning to answer:
"If time, money, and circumstance were no limitation nor object, and if you could go anywhere and do anything in the world, and if God guaranteed you would met your future mate anyways - no matter what you find yourself doing, what would you do?"
I ask this of you. What would you do?