Your behavior here shows that this is not the problem. The problem is that some hold the Bible dear to their heart and speak as if EVERYONE ELSE must live according to the conclusions they have drawn about the Bible. If you simply held to what you believe without trying to impose it forcefully on others there would be peace like a river. The problem arises when one person tries to live their lives as well as the lives of others.
I think we need to clear something up here.
Because a person corrects someone that is in the wrong that doesn't mean he is trying to live that person's life, or that he is endeavoring to impose his ideas on that person. Many are called by God to serve Him in different ways. Who are you to tell me what my calling is?
Furthermore, if I weren't open to correction then I would say you have a valid point here. However, I am open to correction. It's just that I want people that disagree with my conclusions on scripture to use scripture as a means to refute me if I am in error. After all, this is what Paul encouraged Timothy to do in 2Tim. 3:16.
What I see in this forum however, is a lot of opinions being thrown around that really have no substance to them as they are not in agreement with what is written in the Holy Scriptures. In fact, I rarely see many of the members of this forum even quote from scripture when making a point. And when they do, it is usually taken out of context.
In fact, your post to me is a perfect example of this in that you are telling me that I need to behave in a certain manner while not providing me with a scriptural basis for your idea. You are in essence telling me that I ought to be more tolerant of views that I don't agree with. Well, on matters of taste I agree with you wholeheartedly. However, on moral issues and doctrines I find no such counsel in the Holy Scriptures.
To the contrary, I find the opposite:
Blessed is the man that walketh not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor standeth in the way of sinners, nor sitteth in the seat of the scornful. But his delight is in the law of the LORD; and in his law doth he meditate day and night. And he shall be like a tree planted by the rivers of water, that bringeth forth his fruit in his season; his leaf also shall not wither; and whatsoever he doeth shall prosper. The ungodly are not so: but are like the chaff which the wind driveth away. Therefore the ungodly shall not stand in the judgment, nor sinners in the congregation of the righteous. For the LORD knoweth the way of the righteous: but the way of the ungodly shall perish. (Psa 1:1-6 KJV)
Should I then be expected to be tolerant of such an idea when it is very clear that you have nothing but mere opinion to base it on? Why should I accept what you have to say when you haven't given me good reason to do so? Just because you feel I should be more tolerant of such views that doesn't mean your feelings agree with what God expects from me.
You want to be my teacher, so it seems. Well then, show me that you are a man that speaks for God and I will listen to what you have to say. But if you endeavor to inculcate ideas that are contrary to what is written in the Holy Scriptures, don't expect me to be tolerant of them.
In fact, it is quite evident that you are adhering to a double standard in that you expect me to be tolerant of all views while showing yourself to be intolerant of my view that we shouldn't be tolerant of all views. So by the very nature of your argument I find it unreasonable to accept what you have to say as truth as your view is not even consistent with itself.
Is God the author of confusion? Of course not. So why should I be expected to accept an idea from you as being of God when it is not even consistent with itself?
Furthermore, you are telling me that I shouldn't be dogmatic about what I believe, yes? Would you say the same thing to Paul? He was even more dogmatic than I am. And he wasn't ashamed to admit it.
For though we walk in the flesh, we do not war after the flesh: (For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but mighty through God to the pulling down of strong holds Casting down imaginations, and every high thing that exalteth itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ; And having in a readiness to revenge all disobedience, when your obedience is fulfilled. (2Co 10:3-6 KJV)
Now I don't mean to place myself on a level of equality with Paul in assuming myself to be an apostle or a prophet. However, it is quite evident that just as he was not tolerant of views that opposed the knowledge of God we should likewise be intolerant of such views. After all, would it make sense to be tolerant of such views, while knowing that they oppose the truth as it is in Jesus Christ?
We are called to love the sinner, but that doesn't mean we ought to be tolerant of his views. Therefore, just because we refuse to be tolerant of such ideas which oppose the knowledge of God, that doesn't mean we lack love for those that adhere to these ideas. To the contrary it shows that we have greater love for God, which is what we are encouraged to have.
It was Jesus who said:
Think not that I am come to send peace on earth: I came not to send peace, but a sword. For I am come to set a man at variance against his father, and the daughter against her mother, and the daughter in law against her mother in law. And a man's foes shall be they of his own household. He that loveth father or mother more than me is not worthy of me: and he that loveth son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me. And he that taketh not his cross, and followeth after me, is not worthy of me. He that findeth his life shall lose it: and he that loseth his life for my sake shall find it. (Mat 10:34-39 KJV)
Does this sound like tolerance to you?
Truth is, to some degree we are called to judge others, to determine if their ideas are of God. If this weren't so then there would have been no sense in the apostles warning the brethren about false teachers. And there would have been no sense in Jesus saying what He had said above.
As a result of this people will turn against us. They will persecute and mock us to no end. Yet, their abuse will come to an end at some point when they find their place in the lake of fire. And those that compromised the integrity of the truth as it is in Jesus Christ for the sake of keeping the peace with them through tolerance will likewise join them in receiving the full wrath of God.
For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine; but after their own lusts shall they heap to themselves teachers, having itching ears; And they shall turn away their ears from the truth, and shall be turned unto fables. (2Ti 4:3-4 KJV)
Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; Adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness, Idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies, Envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like: of the which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God. (Gal 5:19-21 KJV)
It is then our responsibility to make sure that we learn how to rightly divide the word of truth so that we can discern both good and evil. Without such knowledge we wouldn't know how to recognize a wolf in sheepskin; and we would thereby be in danger of being corrupted by their false ideas which lead to destruction. 2Pt. 3:16