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<blockquote data-quote="Nig" data-source="post: 74806003" data-attributes="member: 313381"><p>I find it difficult to be around narcisists as I recognise I'm still somewhat narcisistic and selfish myself. Narcisism is at its core self love and through self seeking it seeks its own love and happiness and wellbeing at the expense of others but at various deceptive levels and extremes.</p><p></p><p>That's why when people say I love you mostly they mean I need you for my own happiness and comfort and wellbeing I need to recieve your love. Test someone and see and say why do you love this person and see that mostly their reply is based upon how this person provides love or happiness or comfort for them.</p><p></p><p>That's why its difficult to be around narcissists at times as we are not willing or are unable to love them at our own expense due to not possessing the power of a self sacrificial love that is not contingent upon recieving love in order to have the power to give it. Obviously wisdom at the same time is needed as if you allow yourself to be manipulated and feed something demonic in them this is not going to ultimately help them but mostly we as humans can't be kind to those we consider evil and unthankful.</p><p></p><p><span style="font-size: 22px"><strong>Luke 6:35 (KJV)</strong></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 22px"></span></p><p>35 But love ye your enemies, and do good, and lend, hoping for nothing again; and your reward shall be great, and ye shall be the children of the Highest: for he is kind unto the unthankful and to the evil.</p><p></p><p>That's why the love of God is superior to human love as Jesus was kind and loving to evil and unthankful people without needing love from them in order to have the power to provide it. He came and served and loved people who nailed him to a cross and spat on him while he was dying for them on a cross in self sacrificial love.</p></blockquote><p></p><p>yes they are Christians and externally appear very strong which has its own superficial charm. </p><p></p><p>They have a strong relationship with the bible but as I’ve discovered the narrative cannot be challenged. I’ve tried approaching with scripture and they won’t answer with scripture. The evidence they claim is their own knowledge rather than directly approaching scripture. They fail for me the test that truth is always approachable.</p><p>[/QUOTE]</p>
[QUOTE="Nig, post: 74806003, member: 313381"] I find it difficult to be around narcisists as I recognise I'm still somewhat narcisistic and selfish myself. Narcisism is at its core self love and through self seeking it seeks its own love and happiness and wellbeing at the expense of others but at various deceptive levels and extremes. That's why when people say I love you mostly they mean I need you for my own happiness and comfort and wellbeing I need to recieve your love. Test someone and see and say why do you love this person and see that mostly their reply is based upon how this person provides love or happiness or comfort for them. That's why its difficult to be around narcissists at times as we are not willing or are unable to love them at our own expense due to not possessing the power of a self sacrificial love that is not contingent upon recieving love in order to have the power to give it. Obviously wisdom at the same time is needed as if you allow yourself to be manipulated and feed something demonic in them this is not going to ultimately help them but mostly we as humans can't be kind to those we consider evil and unthankful. [SIZE=6][B]Luke 6:35 (KJV)[/B] [/SIZE] 35 But love ye your enemies, and do good, and lend, hoping for nothing again; and your reward shall be great, and ye shall be the children of the Highest: for he is kind unto the unthankful and to the evil. That's why the love of God is superior to human love as Jesus was kind and loving to evil and unthankful people without needing love from them in order to have the power to provide it. He came and served and loved people who nailed him to a cross and spat on him while he was dying for them on a cross in self sacrificial love.[/QUOTE] yes they are Christians and externally appear very strong which has its own superficial charm. They have a strong relationship with the bible but as I’ve discovered the narrative cannot be challenged. I’ve tried approaching with scripture and they won’t answer with scripture. The evidence they claim is their own knowledge rather than directly approaching scripture. They fail for me the test that truth is always approachable. [/QUOTE]
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