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<blockquote data-quote="Josheb" data-source="post: 74803334" data-attributes="member: 345061"><p>Please forgive my word replacement but what was posted is not feelings. They are not emotions, and at least part of you solution is going to entail sorting out beliefs and thoughts from emotions and how they drive your choices and behavior.</p><p></p><p>If you really want to sense some power in your newfound awareness then go through your post and re-write it by taking all the "feel" and "fell like" out of it an replace them with "believe" or "think." Then, and only then, go through it again and put in the emotional content. For example, "I believe certain Christian teachings maybe promote narcissism and that makes me feel _________________" or perhaps, "<em>When I hear teachings that could potential promote narcissism I feel</em> ________________," and put in the emotional labels. Whatever changes you are going to make dealing with narcissists, they are going to be made with greater awareness and resolve if and when you get yourself back to wholeness.</p><p></p><p>We are at our best when the sensate (somatic), cognitive, affective, volitional, behavioral functions work together with our awareness. Soul and Spirit aren't supposed to be blind to one another.</p><p></p><p></p><p>There are some good videos on Youtube (search the MedCircle vids) about identifying and interacting (or not interacting) with narcissists. Some boring content but if you really are in relationship with narcissists they'll help you walk away.</p><p></p><p>Because that is what you should do with the true narcissist.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Josheb, post: 74803334, member: 345061"] Please forgive my word replacement but what was posted is not feelings. They are not emotions, and at least part of you solution is going to entail sorting out beliefs and thoughts from emotions and how they drive your choices and behavior. If you really want to sense some power in your newfound awareness then go through your post and re-write it by taking all the "feel" and "fell like" out of it an replace them with "believe" or "think." Then, and only then, go through it again and put in the emotional content. For example, "I believe certain Christian teachings maybe promote narcissism and that makes me feel _________________" or perhaps, "[I]When I hear teachings that could potential promote narcissism I feel[/I] ________________," and put in the emotional labels. Whatever changes you are going to make dealing with narcissists, they are going to be made with greater awareness and resolve if and when you get yourself back to wholeness. We are at our best when the sensate (somatic), cognitive, affective, volitional, behavioral functions work together with our awareness. Soul and Spirit aren't supposed to be blind to one another. There are some good videos on Youtube (search the MedCircle vids) about identifying and interacting (or not interacting) with narcissists. Some boring content but if you really are in relationship with narcissists they'll help you walk away. Because that is what you should do with the true narcissist. [/QUOTE]
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