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<blockquote data-quote="Nig" data-source="post: 74803203" data-attributes="member: 313381"><p>Yep seen it all happen, problem is I feel that the church has accepted often the tools used by narcissist’s (guilt and shame) to get the behaviour set they desire. Makes it difficult to call out stuff when there is a fine line of behaviour.</p><p></p><p>i kinda look at it this way; when I came to Jesus in my early 20s I was accepted into families and they taught me some social skills of how to live in families. I learned to be a part of what was going on; not to let the world revolve around me. In simple terms I learnt to do the dishes rather than be served. </p><p></p><p>Part of narcissistic behaviour is reflective; if they’re accusing you of something it’s because they’re doing it to you; you can be sure of it....</p><p></p><p>I watched a narcissist drive apart my spiritual family and my natural family. I think I have a narcissistic in law now as well. Plus someone whom we are ministering to. You know it’s like they attract the negative attention that engages with sympathy to get their ends met. They have shallow relationships but don’t care as their desires are being filled in other ways.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nig, post: 74803203, member: 313381"] Yep seen it all happen, problem is I feel that the church has accepted often the tools used by narcissist’s (guilt and shame) to get the behaviour set they desire. Makes it difficult to call out stuff when there is a fine line of behaviour. i kinda look at it this way; when I came to Jesus in my early 20s I was accepted into families and they taught me some social skills of how to live in families. I learned to be a part of what was going on; not to let the world revolve around me. In simple terms I learnt to do the dishes rather than be served. Part of narcissistic behaviour is reflective; if they’re accusing you of something it’s because they’re doing it to you; you can be sure of it.... I watched a narcissist drive apart my spiritual family and my natural family. I think I have a narcissistic in law now as well. Plus someone whom we are ministering to. You know it’s like they attract the negative attention that engages with sympathy to get their ends met. They have shallow relationships but don’t care as their desires are being filled in other ways. [/QUOTE]
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