what should I do?

[Clarinetlover]

I like my sister's friend but he is an atheist and I don't know what to do. Can you give memsome advice onmwhat to do. Please

 

[ChristianNewbie123]

Perhaps the guy isn't for you? How much do you know about him? What do you like about him?

 

[Clarinetlover]

I know a lot about him. We have been friends since I was 12. I like how honest he is and how he looks but mainly how honest he is.

 

[ChristianNewbie123]

Oh good, your not the kind who has a boyfriend a week. Is he at all interested in Christianity?

 

[Clarinetlover]

I don't know if he is intersted in Christianity. I'm praying to God for me not to like him anymore but I still do.

 

[Clarinetlover]

Can anyone else help me

 

[andy b]

follow your heart ...just because hes an atheist does it mean you cant love him ..love created the universe and is the underling factor in all of the teachings of jesus...maybe if you show him love it will open his heart to jesus

 

[ChristianNewbie123]

I don't know if he is intersted in Christianity. I'm praying to God for me not to like him anymore but I still do.

Maybe there's a reason for that? Who knows, maybe God wants you to like him so you can introduce Jesus to him. I'm not saying this is true I have no idea, but just a thought.

 

[Clarinetlover]

Maybe there's a reason for that? Who knows, maybe God wants you to like him so you can introduce Jesus to him. I'm not saying this is true I have no idea, but just a thought.

Maybe

 

[Girder of Loins]

I know I'm going to sound like an old-timer, but you're fourteen. I'm nineteen and haven't even dated yet. I've had my crushes, but I knew they were never going to unfold, and I moved on. You are too young to be thinking about who you can fill up. Get full of Christ first, then move onto who you can fill. Because that is what a relationship is. You are pouring your spirit, mind, and(during marriage) your body into another person. You need to be full before you can fill. I would suggest being super hesitant over dating anyone until you are on your own.

 

[Clarinetlover]

I know I'm going to sound like an old-timer, but you're fourteen. I'm nineteen and haven't even dated yet. I've had my crushes, but I knew they were never going to unfold, and I moved on. You are too young to be thinking about who you can fill up. Get full of Christ first, then move onto who you can fill. Because that is what a relationship is. You are pouring your spirit, mind, and(during marriage) your body into another person. You need to be full before you can fill. I would suggest being super hesitant over dating anyone until you are on your own.

im not allowed to evennstart dating till im 16 so im not thinking aboit dating him. Just all the crushes I have had were Christian people and those were short and went away but this one isn't.

 

[ChristianNewbie123]

im not allowed to evennstart dating till im 16 so im not thinking aboit dating him. Just all the crushes I have had were Christian people and those were short and went away but this one isn't.

Like I said, could be God calling you to talk to Him one way or another. Not necessarily as a girlfriend, but as a friend. I don't know...

 

[Clarinetlover]

Like I said, could be God calling you to talk to Him one way or another. Not necessarily as a girlfriend, but as a friend. I don't know...

Could be but that doesn't explain why I like him not as a friend.

 

[Girder of Loins]

Could be but that doesn't explain why I like him not as a friend.

Hormones and chemicals.

 

[ChristianNewbie123]

Hormones and chemicals.

That too...

 

[Girder of Loins]

Of course there is a lot of psychology into finding the person you love, but who you are attracted to is almost completely chemical.

 

[Clarinetlover]

Thank you for all your help.