• Starting today August 7th, 2024, in order to post in the Married Couples, Courting Couples, or Singles forums, you will not be allowed to post if you have your Marital status designated as private. Announcements will be made in the respective forums as well but please note that if yours is currently listed as Private, you will need to submit a ticket in the Support Area to have yours changed.

  • CF has always been a site that welcomes people from different backgrounds and beliefs to participate in discussion and even debate. That is the nature of its ministry. In view of recent events emotions are running very high. We need to remind people of some basic principles in debating on this site. We need to be civil when we express differences in opinion. No personal attacks. Avoid you, your statements. Don't characterize an entire political party with comparisons to Fascism or Communism or other extreme movements that committed atrocities. CF is not the place for broad brush or blanket statements about groups and political parties. Put the broad brushes and blankets away when you come to CF, better yet, put them in the incinerator. Debate had no place for them. We need to remember that people that commit acts of violence represent themselves or a small extreme faction.
  • We hope the site problems here are now solved, however, if you still have any issues, please start a ticket in Contact Us

What should I do?

~Beauty_from_Pain~

By His grace, For His glory
Jul 29, 2005
31,005
722
USA
✟56,978.00
Faith
Non-Denom
Marital Status
Private
Politics
US-Republican
Lately I've been thinking a lot about what I want to do with my life. And I have a couple of questions that I was wondering if you might have some insight on.

Ok, so I want to be a counselor, but I am not sure what field that I would like to work in (I am thinking marriage counseling). I will be a junior this coming semester. Yet, even though I like Psychology, very few of the Psychology classes I have taken hold interest to me. I don't feel like I have learned a lot my past few years of study.

My questions are, is it normal to feel this way? To not really care about classes in ones major and still want to be doing that major? To feel like one has not learned very much? To wonder the importance of certain classes?

I do want to be a counselor, but are these signs saying that I shouldn't? What would be your opinion and what do you think that I should do about this?
 

fishstix

Senior Veteran
Jan 18, 2004
3,482
192
✟34,629.00
Faith
Christian
Politics
CA-Conservatives
I think that you are completely normal. University degrees do tend to contain a lot of classes that don't seem to have much to do with one's goals at the time. Classes tend to contain a lot of theoretical background information that can be a little dry, even if you are actually interested in the subject. You just have to push through it, because you need to have those classes in order to be qualified to do the job that you want to eventually do. And until you've spent some time actually putting what you have learned into practice, and learning practical applications, it will seem to you like you haven't learned very much. I've found that the more I learn, the less I feel like I know, just because I realize better how much there is that I still don't know.

I would suggest that you go have a chat with a course advisor and see what he/she has to say about this. Are you planning on doing a graduate degree? If so, you may find that it will make a difference when you get to that point.
 
Upvote 0