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What is Your Calling?

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ShannonMcCatholic

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ukok said:
I know!

I know the kind of Mum that I want to be, I have a picture in my head of how I ought to have responded (after the event) to any incident or squabble or annoyance..and then I vow to react differently the next time, and yet I respond in the same short- tempered, exasperated, intolerant, manner. I loathe that I am so completely inadequate.

Lord, have Mercy!

God bless
I know exactly what you mean! Thank goodness God is infinitely patient-- I need it!
 
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ShannonMcCatholic

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Shakkai- no I do not remember a distinct calling to motherhood. And I had quite an angry row with God about this- that I got backed into this whole thing-- He reassured me that this is my vocation, it doesn't matter how I got here.

I do feel distinctly called to midwifery, however, just not for a decade or so....
 
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I'm currently discerning a vocation to religious life. First and foremost, I intend to get a decent education - do an undergraduate degree in Catholic studies, and then (fingers crossed!) go on to do a masters of theological studies (or a masters of divinity, depending on how I feel). It is very difficult to figure out where it is God is calling me, but this is something that I have felt deep down for a long time, even when I wasn't ready to accept it yet. More than anything, I am simply willing to do His will and to go where He calls me so that I might be a speaker of His Truth. :)
 
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ND- I think the true difficulty for me is that I do not have any sensible feeling or experience in how God loves me. I cannot give that love, because I am so mangled and broken.

I believe in how God loves me, I seek to discover Him ever more in the Eucharist, I desire to be consumed by His love to set others ablaze....

I just will continue on- and seek forgivness in the wrongs I do- and beg Jesus to make it all even better than if I never messed up in the first place....
 
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Me, I have the same calling I've been talking about for the past year on here. After a phsychaitric examination by Fr. Groeschel (to make sure i'm crazy enough), I will probably be entering the Franciscan Friars of the Renewal.
 
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Rising_Suns said:
Me, I have the same calling I've been talking about for the past year on here. After a phsychaitric examination by Fr. Groeschel (to make sure i'm crazy enough), I will probably be entering the Franciscan Friars of the Renewal.
Rock on, my brother! And I'll be in my Carmel (that's what I call my little falling down house) praying for you!!
 
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I don't know. I've sort of bounced from thing to thing in my life seemingly without purpose. This would bother more than it does but I've met with so much success do it that I can only think that I was meant to take on tasks as they need doing.

Maybe I was just meant to lead projects.

I've stopped thinking about it and just believe that where I'm at is where God wants me.

So I'm happy with it.
 
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I grew up thinking that I would get married and have a family. God did not provide the circumstance for that to happen. So I am called to the universal call to holiness that we are all called to. One way in which I live that is to be a suffering soul. Every trial that I face, both large and small, I offer up to God for the salvation of souls, in reparation for my own sins and the sins of others, and for the release of the souls in purgatory.
 
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