This NOT the choice we were given but is the interpretation of the choice now given by those enraged by sin.
ImCo:
A choice free from coercion must be based upon a full understanding of the consequences of both options or it is a guess, not a choice.
YHWH claimed that our being, our character and mind set, would be changed by choosing to reject HIM as GOD and the Son as our saviour as an inevitable consequence of choosing to sin. To choose to reject HIM and HIS proposal to marry us because we thought He was lying and therefore a false god would immediately
1. enslave them to the sinful pov by changing them to be sinful and separating them from all Holiness.
2. As sinners they could NOT ever change their minds and overcome this addiction to sin by themselves.
3. Because rejecting HIM would fully separated themselves from the only power in the universe that could help them repent and return to HIM, this choice would render them to be eternally unfit to be HIS bride, fit only to be sequestered outside of the realm of HIS love and attention with all like minded individuals.
He also promised that if anyone wanted the kind of life HE promised so they put their faith, (an unproven hope), in HIM to be telling us the truth and who put their faith in the Son that, if they should ever fall into sin, they would be saved by His work for them. This promise was called their being chosen, elected, to salvation from the consequences of their choosing to be evil in HIS sight so they could enter the heavenly marriage with HIM.
All this we heard declared from HIM before we chose. By choosing we were declaring which reality we most wanted to live in: HIS paradise married to HIM or in a reality without HIM in which we are essentially our own God. These decisions were made freely without coercion to believe HIM or not or to accept HIM or not. That is, they were uncoerced free will decisions. The warnings of the bad consequences of rejecting HIM were not coercive as it was unproven that HE had any power of life or death and, in fact, many were NOT forced to accept HIM by these warnings as we know by the Satanic fall.
When all decisions were made, it ended up that there were three basic decisions made. 1. Some accepted HIM unreservedly and never went against HIM, becoming elect. 2. Others went against HIM unreservedly, believing HIM to be a manipulative liar and as the first liar in creation, the most evil in creation thus becoming evil themselves and as condemned, passed over for election. 3. And the third group chose to accept YHWH as their GOD and the Son as their saviour, becoming elect, but they rebelled against HIS call for all the elect to come out from among their friends who had rejected HIM, thus becoming evil though able to be brought to repentance but forcing the postponement of the judgement against those condemned so these now sinful elect would not be banished with their evil friends.