Thanks once again for your thoughtful responses, Key.
Always a pleasure, I enjoy your return for more insight as well.
I thought the "transgression against God" definition would work best also because of things like homosexuality, which hurt no one but are seen as negative in God's eyes. (Perhaps I should have tried to explain that more, but I understand that my cursory definition-paragraph is far from complete, so thanks for expanding it.)
Well as for Homosexuality, here is a response to help you think about it.
When God crafted Human, he made them a pair, A Man, and a Woman. Each one of them, a Special aspect of what is Humanity. Each one complements the other, as such, combined, they become whole, they together, become Humanity.
However, when a Man and Man join together, they become only half of the equation, they treat a man as a man, and a man as a woman. Thus they do not respect the man as a man when they treat the man as a woman.
Each one, a Man, and Woman, should be given proper respect for what they are, this is the nature of Human, to know that we as an individual, are not the all, and that a Man, is one aspect of ourselves, and a Woman is the other. Just as you are the combination of your Mother and your Father, they together, made you, and if you do not give respect to each of them, as they deserve, then you shame them.
A Woman, is an equal to a man, but her equal nature is based on the fact that she is different then a man. A Man is equal to a woman, but this also is based on the fact that a man is different then a woman.
When we do not respect that, we shame both and man and the woman.
When a Man treats a Man as a Woman, he brings shame to the Woman and the Man, because he does not respect them, and their special nature.
I hope I have explained that for you.
As for Transgression Against God. Sin is a Law for us to live By, to Allow us to be Free from many (If not all) of our own problems.
Also, could you elaborate a bit on this idea of people having an allowance to commit sin?
They have a duty to Serve God. This is not an allowance to Commit Sin.
If in preforming that duty, they need to commit a sin, then this is what they need to do, not what they are allowed to do.
See, when a person is given a Directive from God, their freewill, or freedom is removed in a sense. They will do Gods will, not their own will. In this case, it is not an Allowance to Commit sin, but a Requirement to do as they have been Commanded to Do.
IE: If God told Moses to lead his people in the desert, this is not an allowance to Moses to have sex with anyone he wants. He had a Job to do, a Duty that he will preform.
I think this is where I start to have a big problem in understanding what sin is... to me, the word "sin" would only be apt to describe an incredibly immoral intentional act -- murder, genocide, torture, etc. But I understand that this doesn't necessarily match the Christian definition.
There is no requirement of "Incredibly" on the nature of Sin. Sin affects our lives and our future generations.
Lets say for example, you work 7 days a week, without rest, no big deal right, then your children who have been denied Gods rest on the seventh day will equally work 7 days every week, this they burn out faster, they get stressed, and irritable, and then we get short, a mean, self adsorbed because we are over worked, and problems compound.
Just because... you do not take a day to rest....
Odd how that works.
To give us an example to work with, I have a four-year-old cousin who I'm fairly sure has never done anything that I would consider a sin. But I'm wondering what you mean by saying that even young children commit sins? What would an example be?
That child will lie to you to get out of trouble. Now that might not be such a big deal, but think about this, that child just lied to you about that. And if they lie to you, then they will lie to others, and they get into the habit of lying. This, might not seem so bad, but, if they lie to you about that, what else have they lied to you about, and where can you trust them to tell the truth, can you depend on their words as truth?
That is the progressive nature of Sin.
However, it might not be a world shattering event that a 4 year old told a lie to avoid getting punished, what should be a world shattering event, is that we do not see a problem with it.
Would it not be better to teach this child to stand up for their actions, both good and bad?
But see how Sin has affected you, and your outlook, you will just surround yourself with it, until it blinds you, only the most intense, and personally affecting of them will hold any weight, but if there is enough sin, even those.... will go away....
How many people are killed in the USA every year?
16,692 in 2005. Now, that is Murdered, not people that may have been killed in self defense, or by officers of the law, or thought judicial process (Capital Punishment)
16,692 people were Murdered.... in 2005 alone....
That is the affect of Sin....
I think we're back to talking about things that I understand to be "sin" even in a secular definition (murder etc.), and it's quite clear to me that these things have tangible effects. What I'm wondering is, what is tangible about the sin that everyone (my four-year-old cousin for example) is said to have?
Problems. a Negative impact on our life.
There is no Sin that is good for you.
I guess I mean, how do we know that Sin actually exists?
Watch the News.
See how we decay. Violence begets Violence, Hate to Hate, Sin to Sin.
When somebody says "we're all sinners," how do they measure that? Or when they say "Jesus died for our sins," how do they know that his death had any effect on Sin?
Jesus gave himself so that any who might come to him shall have a path to Heaven.
Have you ever done anything, that you know to have been wrong, have you ever done anything that left you in the power of another? (IE: I hope they don't find out the truth), have you done something that gave others power over you, or have you done things to lash out at those around you to get power over them.
Those are Sin.
They stem from our weakness, where we will in our weakness give others power over us, or we will in our weakness need to lash out at others to overcome them, to make ourselves feel powerful.
Sin.... kills our ability to Love ourselves... for who and what we are,.....it kills our freedom.. it destroys our grasp on what is meaningful in our lives.
But the worse that Sin does... is it makes us cowards....
Better to stand strong.. tell the truth.. and face what comes of it.. then to cower behind a lie.. and give those that know the truth power over you.
And that loss of our Courage.. is what causes all other sins... that destruction of our freedom...
Sorry for so many follow-up questions, but thanks again for taking the time to post.
Don't be sorry.. I am happy you are asking follow up questions...
I hope I have explained this to you....
God Bless
Key.