Virtue ethics wasn't the only ethical theory around before Kant and Mill. I'd think that divine command theory would have been around (and very important in various places) for many millennium. Consequentialist thinking was also around before Mill. You can't just randomly choose to only count Kant and Mill as the first oppositions to virtue ethics.
I hope you know I was joking. Okay, maybe that was my work humor.
I disagree with this because I think we should be concerned about others. I fear that such a self-centred ethical theory would justify apathy towards others.
Not if the good is conceived in such a sense where altruism toward another person involves (both creates and is a symptom of) virtuous character. Not sure on the relation to virtue ethics, but along the lines of Camus, doing the right thing can be attributed to beauty: I help others because it is the beautiful thing to do (okay, that actually does sound pretty Aristotelean). To be selfless brings the satisfaction of creating the other person in a beautiful way.
Now think of the alternatives: utilitarianism can perhaps be conceived of as Aristotle without virtue ethics, in that it's about maximizing happiness (which for Aristotle is related to virtuous character)
without a concern for the character of the ethical person. So now we have deontology. What your position would mean is being ethical
and being unhappy. Why would someone choose to act in any pattern of any way that results in their unhappiness? "Because it's the right thing to do" (duty). To me that doesn't stop there; I do the right thing not only because it's "just" the right thing to do, but because the action has a certain beauty to it, even a sort of intuitive appeal to it -- that, after all, is fitting with Aristotle's teleological view associated with virtue: virtue is excellence in the sense that it's the "end" or "goal" of whatever you're applying virtue to. Aristotle would say that any action which encapsulates this "end" or "goal" or telos
is beautiful.
I've got to push this further. Aristotle would hold a person to be
of such a virtuous character where altruistic acts in a sense benefit the person committing them -- because this person sees the beauty in the altruistic act he is committing. This beauty
coincides with what makes something right, therefore to deontologists what determines our duty;
except the deontologists don't consider beauty as part of the equation. Perhaps the dividing difference here with a deontologist and virtue ethicist for any given action is the deontologist would say "duty for the sake of duty," whereas the virtue ethicist would say "not so much duty as a sense of beauty: this action is the better one because it is more virtuous or excellent one, which is a beautiful thing."
To me seems to lose sight of the problem. The problem with torture isn't that it will make the torturer a bad person, the problem is the victim being forced to scream in agony.
The problem with torture is that it represents unvirtuous character -- character that isn't "mature" or at the telos of its kind. It so happens that choosing the beautiful or right or virtuous thing
also makes the self beautiful or right or virtuous. In a full understanding of virtue ethics, doing the good or virtuous thing
is inextricably related to being a good or virtuous person (in specific instances). It's not just about what makes the person happy (which can be a version of consequentialism), or about what is right/duty (which can be a version of deontology); in the virtuous or good ethical choice in any situation,
being happy is tied up with doing the right thing: the happiness of perceiving a beautiful action which is also the best action (given that the action fits the telos).
If morality really makes people happier then such happiness could be given as a reason to be consequentialist or a deontologist too. Considering these two are less self-centred, perhaps they give more happiness.
See above. I think with the consequentialist, happiness is considered too atomically -- seen for each situation without considering the continuity of the character of the self which transcends different situations. With deontology, happiness is only at best coincidental with what is right or should be dutifully done.
Perhaps I am moral because it makes me happy, but I'd emphasise that concern for the suffering and violation of others also makes me moral.
And I would say that even with compassion, I'm acting this way because it's a beautiful thing, which benefits me (if I'm ethically mature enough) and benefits the other person.