What If She Does It?

[Tim114]

I would like the choice be left to me and the timming of it to be left to God, but if she felt so strongly that she wanted to take that step she could ask about it and discuss is through and then we'll do it together. But I don't think I would turn a girl down for asking to marry me, if she was the 'blessing of my life' so to speek

 

[invisiblebabe]

if proposals mean a lot to you, that's great, and i hope you have/had a really sweet and romantic one!

for me though, they are just a formality and rather silly... but that's also because we did things differently than most 'traditional' couples. we just mutually agreed to get married and decided on a wedding date. a few months later we bought rings.

in fact, i think it was i who first brought up the idea of marriage... so maybe i was the one who proposed!

 

[holyorders]

I think it is a man's responsibility......


But it would be the most awesome thing if both the man and the woman were to propose to each other at the same time in happenstance. I live in a dream world as all can see.....

 

[Ceris]

Would I be surprised, oh YES! But would I turn her down? Not if I wanted to spend the rest of my life with her. I would be a fool to say anything other than yes.

 

[Arclight610]

Ha, it would take the pressure off of me to have to do it. As long as it ends in a happy marriage who cares?

 

[Hope_0004]

I don't know about that idea. Sure, there are some guys who would appreciate it... but there are others who would be really offput. Especially one that didn't actually know if he wanted to marry you... or even if he did think that he wanted to marry you, didn't want to marry you right now.

Personally, I assume that the reason my boyfriend hasn't asked me to marry him is because he's not ready to marry me. I'm not ready to marry him either, so I guess that it doesn't bother me at all... I don't know what I'd do if I were 100% ready to marry him, and he hadn't asked me. I doubt the answer would be to propose to him. I think if I were ready and he wasn't, I'd either be patient or be single. But that's just me.

 

[FaithOFtheBroken]

Just reading the first post, and nothing more, I am pretty old fashioned...

With that being said, if she dropped to one knee and started to talk, I would have her on her feet and my knee would be on the ground.

 

[keyz]

There is something twistedly wrong with the relationship if the woman proposed.

I would probably never find myself in this situation to begin with. It would have been real clear that I am doing the proposing. So if she proposed I would have a problem because then it would show she didn't listen to me.

In my mind... a woman who doesn't let a man romance her is not allowing the man to be a man. We don't need anymore passive wimpy men in this world!!

 

[Hope_0004]

I agree... we have enough metros.